I feel like I've been doing the jobs of BOTH my vendor coordinators - church and venue. They have finally reached out to me the week before my wedding - is this normal? I know that there are other weddings they have to tend to but I feel like it's unorganized and inconvenient.
None of them have responded back to me unless there's a payment due and there's no warning about it or a timeline.
I sent my venue coordinator a list of vendors (confirmed) a month before, including a general timeline of the reception, supplies needed for our decoration (table, etc..) and estimated time of arrival. 3 days before my wedding, she's asking me for this list that I had sent her NUMEROUS times! She wants me to fill out the paper (she sent me) and asked me what time each are arriving. I gave her estimated times. I thought it was her job to reach out to everyone and do this herself!! She said in the beginning that she wanted a list of all the vendors so she can reach out to them herself. Or maybe I'm completely wrong and this should be my responsibility. I've reached out to each vendor and have given them information that they need, along with a timeline, contract, and payment. I'm doing more than I should (I feel like) and it's because intuitively I feel like no one is doing their job
I have 2 days. I need peace. I'm tempted to just send an email with undisclosed recipients and say, "knock yourself out! If you have any questions, ask each other. I'll be away from my email"
