Discussions by Mandee

I am about to lose my mind. My FH's youngest brother was supposed to be in our wedding in September and said he would be there no matter what. His wife got pregnant roughly nine months ago and is due...

My FH and I have been together for eleven years this year. We're getting married (hopefully) on September 26, 2020, and as of now still going through with it. For those of you who were together for a...

Hey y'all! My photographer requested a vendor list and a list of things I purchased and where. The vendors are easy enough, and I know the gown and such are important....but what else should I list on...

Hey y'all! So if you read my other post about the Great Invitation Debate of 2020, you know that my fiance and I had a really sweet dinner where we went over the invitation samples and picked out the...

Hey y'all, So my FH and I ordered a bunch of samples off of minted/shutterfly/magnetstreet and then went out together (for the first time since lock-down!!) to go over them and pick out our favorite!...

Is anyone taking their wedding gown/veil with them on their honeymoon? We're going on a cruise on the Scarlet Lady (hopefully) and I thought we could totally wear our wedding stuff for a night on the...

I just booked our final vendor!!! We decided to have a videographer because I can't remember things well (side effect from Chemo!) and we finally agreed on one together!! I am so excited!!! Labif...

Does anyone else here use both wedding wire and the knot? I like the forums and some of the tools better on here, but I like the guest list, website, and budgeter better on the knot! I'm a September...

So my mother is a huge narcissist and makes literally everything about her. That being said, at the beginning of the wedding planning I told her that while I appreciate her input, there were gonna be...

So I'm getting my girls matching jewelry sets as gifts, but I'm not sure if I should match the dress or the groomsmen's suits? Like, should the gem of the jewelry be peacock (dark teal) to match the...

Hey ya'll, I thought I settled on my colors three months ago (dark teal bridesmaids dresses, steel grey groomsmen suits, and a dusky blue for accent color) but now I'm having second thoughts. The...

Hey ya'll! Where did you take your bridesmaids to go gown shopping? I do not want to do David's, they were terrible for my friend's wedding! I'm in the middle of the state (Ocala) so I'm open to just...

Dress shopping was as aweful as I thought it would be. I snapped at my Nanny because she kept sending pictures to people and I told her I didn't want her to do that and she kept doing it anyway, I...

How are ya'll doing your menus? Are you just picking foods you like or are you trying to fit a theme? My tasting menu was really 'country' and didn't really feel elevated to wedding status, but I was...

Hey ya'll. My fiance and I are hosting our own engagement party. Neither of our parents seem too terribly excited about it (to be fair his mother is in NC and her youngest is engaged to be married...

Holy bajesus ladies! So I budgeted out my wedding to the best of my ability last night (at work, shhh) and I had originally set a 10k budget (I know, probably a pipe dream). After I budgeted...

There are a lot of opinions on favors and if you should even bother with them or not, but I am a Southern Bride and it would be talked about FOR LITERAL YEARS if I did not provide favors! That being...

So plates, cups, silverware, etc are not included in our venue. I am not sure if the caterers provide them or not (mostly because I'm still debating on which caterer to use) and I am debating on...