Discussions by FutureMrsAF

Stressed out. My FH is so "forgetful", I put forgetful in quotations because I feel that it's just an excuse. There's so little effort put in to our relationship anymore, his life in general, our...

My mom is asking for a list of women I'd like to invite to the shower. Do I really need to invite every woman that's invited to the wedding? Some are SO's of the invited guests or plus one's (yes,...

So my mom brought up the idea of having a couples shower, I had said previously that I really didn't want a bridal shower as I have pretty bad anxiety and am not good at being the center of attention....

My FH and I have been planning to reset my grandma's engagement ring for some time now, I just wanted to take time to make sure both my mom and I were really okay with changing it from its original...

Should probably explain that. We WILL have cupcakes and/or macarons as well for everyone. But we are considering just a very small cake for the cutting, is that okay or should I definitely plan on...

Feel like this sounds silly. I imagine that it's probably like a birthday, when you're young you expect to feel different after a birthday but you never really do. Did anything change after the...

I have my makeup trial on Saturday! I'm going to Beauty Brands. Anyone else gone through one of their aesthetician's for their trial? Just curious how it went and what to expect. Thanks all!

So I am planning on sending invites addressed to "mr and mrs" etc, just the couple or guest that I am inviting. What I'm worried about is that even if I don't add "and family" on the invite, is that...

So we found out FH will more than likely be deploying in July. Not 100% yet but it still means we have to cancel the wedding. Canceling now we only pay 25% of the cost, waiting to see what happens in...

I don't feel very accepted by them, and while I know that parental approval means little to FH, it's important to me to have a good relationship with my in laws. I'm not sure why they don't like me,...

We just found out my FH may be getting deployed. I'm devastated about this and it isn't even official, but I am trying to plan ahead in the event that it becomes official. What is the protocol for a...

Getting mixed opinions about this, I have a wedding this weekend and was debating this nice black dress. When I googled it, it said that black is fine though if it's an older crowd it might still be...

So my FH was insistent on this claddagh band pictured below. It's something that's very important to him, but it looks and feels horrible with my engagement ring. The oval has a basket like thing on...

I've been in a "ring craze" mood the past few days as I get to pick a new wedding band so I've been looking all over for ideas of what I might like. I have teeny size 3.5-4 fingers so bigger doesn't...

So my FSIL had her bridal shower this past weekend, which I was invited to, and during the shower her two sisters (my other FSIL's) and the brides friends were all talking about the bachelorette party...

So I'm getting a new wedding band and I've found a few online that I really loved and they're much less expensive than going to a local store. I'm wary of this though because I don't want it to have...

Oddly enough I haven't been able to find much on the topic on google. I was curious how strong prongs actually are and how good they really are about keeping a ring in place. Proooobably acting like...

Okay, so originally, FH and I wanted to have a private ceremony with grandparents, siblings and parents, that's it. Reasoning for me is that I have incredibly bad social anxiety, and I know that with...