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FutureMrsAF
Super August 2017

Is black okay to wear as a guest dress?

FutureMrsAF, on April 6, 2017 at 10:50 AM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 30

Getting mixed opinions about this, I have a wedding this weekend and was debating this nice black dress. When I googled it, it said that black is fine though if it's an older crowd it might still be frowned upon. The bride has over a 300 person guest list so I can't really tell the vibe of the group (older or younger).

Opinions on wearing black as a guest?

30 Comments

Latest activity by lyla, on April 6, 2017 at 3:33 PM
  • Rachel Langerhans
    Rachel Langerhans ·
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    Yes, it's fine. Some "rules" are silly.

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  • MrsMitch
    Master August 2017
    MrsMitch ·
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    I think so. With the exception of someone else showing up in a wedding dress, I totally do not care what guests wear to my wedding.

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  • Jessica
    Expert June 2017
    Jessica ·
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    The weddings I have been to some young women wore black dresses. I think it's fine. It's more late afternoon/evening wedding I think.

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  • JoRocka
    Master September 2016
    JoRocka ·
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    Black is fine.

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    I see multiple black dresses at every single wedding I do. Go for it.

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  • Jenna
    Expert June 2018
    Jenna ·
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    I think black is fine!

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  • JSull
    Master October 2017
    JSull ·
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    I don't get this "rule". Black is IMO the most popular color I see at weddings. Go for it.

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  • Private_User832
    Master August 2017
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    Totally fine

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  • Jo
    WeddingWire Administrator May 2015
    Jo ·
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    Ooh, I just heard this question discussed on an etiquette podcast! Their consensus was yes, totally fine to wear black to a wedding, though it might be good to bring a colored scarf, shawl, or cardigan because some people may still be of the belief that solid formal black is for funerals. Even some bright shoes and a bright piece of statement jewelry would probably be enough.

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  • MrsLabrec
    VIP October 2017
    MrsLabrec ·
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    Wear what your comfortable in girl

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  • CuteNickname
    Super July 2017
    CuteNickname ·
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    It's totally fine.

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  • Nicole2017
    Master August 2017
    Nicole2017 ·
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    I wear black to weddings all the time.

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  • Sara
    Master April 2017
    Sara ·
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    Black is fine. I wear black to weddings all the time cause those are the dresses I lean towards.

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  • Sunshine
    VIP September 2017
    Sunshine ·
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    Black is life. I wear black to weddings/every life event. Wear it!

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  • AD2AP
    VIP June 2018
    AD2AP ·
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    I think black is fine, just not white!

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  • soontobeRTR
    Expert February 2017
    soontobeRTR ·
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    Yup! Totally fine, especially for an evening wedding.

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  • Mrs. Coakley
    Master June 2017
    Mrs. Coakley ·
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    Yes. I wear black at almost 100% of the weddings (and other functions in general) that I go to.

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  • Mrs.KatieK
    Master September 2016
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    I have honestly never heard the "no black" for a wedding until last year. My mom wanted a black dress (which I was/am totally fine with, I told her to wear what she found comfortable). My one older (mid 50s) coworker gave me so much crap over this, stating that black is a sign that someone does not approve of the marriage.

    P.S. - My mom ended up with a black and white dress that she loved, and I didn't bat an eye.

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  • Long Distance Bride
    Devoted June 2017
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    I don't see why not! Smiley smile

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  • Ann
    VIP November 2017
    Ann ·
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    I love black. I've probably wore it to almost every wedding I've gone to. It's a nice color that matches everything & you can dress it up or down.

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