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The new LaFayette Hotel & Club brings guests on a creative exploration that features an ode to the original “city within a city” hotel concept moving beyond a one-dimensional space that exudes well curated affluence with aspirational
style. Accessible luxury can be found in each of 139 rooms featuring custom designed linens and a thoughtfully curated in-room bar amenity featuring a comprehensive spirit and cocktail setup.

Looking for a reception venue?
The renewed LaFayette Hotel will be top of your list for a luxe celebration. Our Mississippi Ballroom offers a grand experience for a reception featuring a dance floor and iconic stage with clamshell backdrop, original from the opening in 1946. Full catering and hosted bar options will be available to choose from to curate your one-of-a-kind celebration.

Looking for a wedding block?
The property has 14 different room types including suites, and poolside rooms. Guestrooms are rooted in traditional Victorian, Tudor, and Gothic details. Rich saturations of color, texture, and pattern immerse guests in a fanciful experience that is much more than just a place of rest. Design elements such as wallpaper ceilings, saturated wall tones, fabric draped canopy beds, and burled bar carts read as functional sculpture or art.

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Frequently asked questions

Do you have a site fee for wedding receptions at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during peak season?

$40,000

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during off-peak season?

$10,000

Do you have a site fee for wedding ceremonies at your venue?

Yes

Which of the following are included in the starting site fee?

Chairs
China
Clean Up
Flatware
Glassware
Linens
Set Up
Tables

Which of the following are included in the cost of wedding catering?

Server(s)

Which of the following are included in the starting price for bar service?

Bartender(s)
House Beer
House Liquor
House Wine
Limited Bar
Open Bar

What is the minimum number of guests required to book your venue?

50

How many event spaces or rooms does your venue offer?

3

Describe your venue:

Ballroom
Historic Building
Hotel
Restaurant

What kind of settings are available?

Indoor
Uncovered Outdoor

Which of the following wedding events does your venue service?

Reception
Bridal Shower
Engagement Party
Elopements
Rehearsal Dinner

What event services do you offer?

Accommodations
Bar Services
Catering Services
Clean Up
Event Rentals
Get Ready Rooms
Outside Vendors
Pet Friendly
Wifi

What catering services do you offer?

Buffet
Cocktail Reception
Dessert
Family Style
Hors d'oeuvres
Outside Cake
Plated
Server(s)
Stations
Tastings

What bar services do you provide?

Bartender(s)
Cash Bar
Champagne Toast
House Beer
House Liquor
House Wine
Limited Bar
Liquor License
Open Bar
Outside Alcohol
Premium Liquor
Signature Drink
Specialty Beer
Specialty Wine

What event items are available?

Audio Equipment
Chairs
Dance Floor
Lighting
Tables

What food and beverage items are available?

Barware
China
Flatware
Glassware
Linens

What transportation and access is available?

Valet
Wheelchair Access

Reviews of The Lafayette Hotel, Swim Club & Bungalows

Michelle
Michelle Sent on 12/16/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Say YES to the Lafayette!

We had the wedding of our dreams at our favorite San Diego landmark. From our first meeting with Lisa the INCREDIBLE wedding coordinator to our first day waking up married, we felt nothing but spoiled. (Let me also add that our wedding was exponentially more affordable than any other venue's events.)
The food was DELICIOUS. (The chef takes great pride in his work, and the presentation and flavors and textures are on point!) The staff were warm and friendly and so happy for us. The space was elegant. The Lafayette really succeeds in walking this line between being very cool and hip and also being extremely warm and friendly. Our friends and family stayed at the hotel and loved it. Our room was perfect, and we were spoiled with congratulations/surprises. I wish we could go back and do it again every year....
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Rickjames Sent on 06/13/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Was purely Amazing

I’ve done several weddings, definitely a recommend Venue

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THE GOLD PACKAGE $799
Best suited for Small Receptions
Cocktail, Dinner and Dance Music
Over the phone pre-wedding consultation
Up to 4 Hours of DJ performance time
Detailed reception timeline
Completely customized reception music
Announcements will be made
Wireless Microphone + Professional Audio Setup for Reception Area
Complementary Set Up and Tear Down
Hannah
Hannah Sent on 02/02/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Look no further

Our wedding at The Lafayette was magical. It’s a beautiful yet affordable venue. Our coordinator, Lisa is hands down the most amazing, professional, efficient & meticulous planner. Better yet, she is so personable & fun to be around. We feel extremely lucky to have found. Lisa who made our wedding so perfect. We had only a month to plan & Lisa executed the ceremony & lunch perfectly. We did not have to worry about anything because the moment we think about something, it's already taken care of. She also kept us on track throughout the planning process & also gave helpful opinions & suggestions.
Additionally, all of the staff were very attentive, helpful & welcoming.
We cannot be thankful enough for Lisa & the rest of the hotel staff. We would like for all the couples to have the greatest experience that we both had!
Dan
Dan G. Sent on 12/31/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing wedding venue!

We were so fortunate to have our wedding at The Lafayette!

Like many couples, we were affected by the pandemic. We had originally planned to have our wedding in 2020. We signed an agreement with the Lafayette in 2019. When the pandemic took over, we were forced to reschedule. We had to reschedule multiple times. The Lafayette worked with us the entire time. They stayed in contact with us the whole time.

We were fortunate to set a final date and got married!

The hotel was such a great space for all of our wedding wants and needs. The conservancy is a beautiful ceremony space. It’s very picturesque. The courtyard, where we had our cocktail hour, was set up nicely. The reception hall had ample space for our guests. The food was really tasty. The appetizers were tasty and plentiful along with the dinner buffet. Everyone had their fill of food and drinks. Lastly, the hotel offers several great spaces to take pictures. The hotel has great style.

The hotel accommodations were great! We loved our room. We had several guests stay at the hotel. We were able to book a block of rooms and saved our guests some money.

Lisa and the team at the Lafayette did such an amazing job! Lisa answered all of our questions. She was very prompt and responsive. We always felt that we were in good hands. The front desk staff, the hotel staff, the servers and to the event staff, treated us well. We couldn’t have asked for anything better!

Choosing the Lafayette for our wedding was a great choice! You should definitely consider them for your wedding. You won’t be disappointed!
Jill
Jill Sent on 10/20/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Best Hotel and staff EVER!

Lafayette Staff Members are the absolute BEST!!! We cannot express how grateful we are for how welcoming each staff member throughout the hotel made us, our family, and friends feel so welcome and comfortable during our stay. It truly made it difficult to say goodbye.

Shoutouts to Lisa Kanemori, Mialani, Joseph Taumua, Krystal, Kane, Cass, Shirley, Ed and the entire support staff working this past weekend.

We met with Lisa back in July 2019 to make wedding/reception arrangements at the hotel which was originally set for October 2020. The new hotel owners were kind enough to allow us to postpone for a year due to the pandemic. It has been an unexpected 2 year process that Lisa made sure to keep in constant communication with us to ensure everything was to go as planned. She is very organized and extremely thorough leaving us with little to no questions during the entire experience. Lisa's knowledge of the wedding/reception process was crucial in making everything smooth and effortless.

Mialani was always a ray of sunshine whether it was via emails or in person.

Joseph's welcoming demeanor and kind words were like a warm hug.

Krystal was always more than willing to help out for anything we requested.

Cass made sure everything for our reception and ceremony was set up with professional perfection. Thank you for allowing our family and friends set up and access the room when needed.

Shirley (Aka Auntie Shirley) made sure my wife and I were well fed throughout the evening.

Hope 46 restaurant: Heather, Amy were always attentive. The food provided for our reception received a plethora of kudos from all of our guests. The Halibut Filet constantly received rave reviews. Oh and the beans at breakfast to die for! Our families wanted to take the entire pot home.

The hospitality the hotel staff extended to us and to all of our family and friends was above and beyond anything anyone of us have experienced anywhere else, including from other five star hotels.

Our family, friends, including me and my wife, will definitely be back!

Keep rocking' it! Truly appreciate all the love and care the Lafayette Hotel team extended to our family and friends. If it were up to us, raises for all who worked this weekend!
C
Camille Sent on 12/23/2020
5 out of 5 rating

Wedding and Baby Shower

We love Lafayette. We had our wedding here 2019. The team, venue, and food were amazing. The process was pretty easy and they’re super flexible. So much was included in their packages for the most part I feel like I just has to show up. 2020 we had our baby shower a month before the pandemic. Once again they work with our budget and allowed us the freedom to make the shower what we want. Lafayette will always have a special place in our heart.
M
Marissa Sent on 10/18/2020
5 out of 5 rating

Leap Day Wedding

Lisa, Kara and team were absolutely fantastic! Aside from being incredibly friendly, attentive, and helpful they were extremely professional with all the details. Their patience and genuine care for us was overwhelming during such a busy and hectic time for us. We wouldn't have changed any part of our special day and thanks to the this team and the Lafayette family we had a beautiful wedding. If you have not yet been inside this gorgeous venue I highly recommend doing so. It is unique and charming and our family loved it! We feel so lucky to have had so many people we love share this moment in a place with so much history. Thank you for being a part of our day of love 💕
J
Jeremy Sent on 10/10/2020
5 out of 5 rating

Brilliant kind and beautiful hotel & staff

Lisa and the entire staff at Lafayette made us feel at home. They are awesome people who were attentive and provided us the perfect experience
J
Jen P. Sent on 10/07/2020
5 out of 5 rating

We had a great overall experience. Lisa and Tawn Lee were extremely welcoming and helpful!

We got married here in September amidst the state’s strict COVID regulations which made it a bit different then we had planned but Lisa and Tawn Lee made sure to help us in any way possible so that our day would still turn out perfect! We were able to have a beautiful ceremony in the conservatory and it was nothing short of magical! After the ceremony we took the most beautiful photos in front of the hotel with the brick and pillars and it gave such a classic and romantic feel to our photos.
M
Molly Sent on 02/28/2020
5 out of 5 rating

Our wedding was perfect!

The Lafayette was the most beautiful and perfect venue we could have asked for. We didn't have a specific aesthetic laid out for our wedding, so when we found the Lafayette we loved the idea of building around the beautiful space. There's already so much personality within the walls of the hotel that it didn't need a ton of work from us! Lisa was amazing to work with during the almost 1.5 year planning process. She was quick to answer any questions and was always helpful in filling any request we had. As we got closer to the wedding we also worked with Gillian who was just as upbeat and hardworking! They both helped our wedding to run so smoothly. We took over multiple parts of the hotel for the wedding, cocktail hour, and reception, as well as many rooms for our guests. We got so many compliments from our friends and family staying there! Then the weekend of the wedding we used the complimentary wedding suite as our getting ready room and had a TON of space. Overall it made for a beautiful wedding we will never forget. 
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Awards

43
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2021 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2019 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2017 Winner

Professional Network & Endorsements

5 Endorsements
Spotlight Studios Spotlight Studios Wedding Photographers

The Lafayette Hotel is fantastic! The hotel itself is super vintage and charming! The staff is awesome to work with, very friendly and accommodating! We have photographed a few weddings at the property and have had a lovely experience ever time! We recommend for your wedding venue needs!

Solace Weddings Solace Weddings Wedding Videographers

What a great company to work with. We highly recommend! Thanks again, Solace Weddings LLC

Red Trolley Studio Red Trolley Studio Wedding Photographers

The Lafayette Hotel is one of our favorite venues to photograph weddings at. It's a historic hotel with its own style and vibe, in very convenient location of San Diego. The best part is, you have one location for getting ready, ceremony and reception, which makes the wedding day free of driving and stress. ;) Taylor, the event coordinator, is super helpful and takes great care of the couples. This is probably one of the best options to hold a unique wedding in the heart of San Diego!

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The Lafayette Hotel, Swim Club & Bungalows frequently asked questions

The Lafayette Hotel, Swim Club & Bungalows includes the following items and services for wedding events in its starting site fee:
  • Chairs
  • China
  • Clean Up
  • Flatware
  • Glassware
  • Linens
  • Set Up
  • Tables
The Lafayette Hotel, Swim Club & Bungalows includes the following items and services in its wedding catering costs:
  • Server(s)
The bar service starting price at The Lafayette Hotel, Swim Club & Bungalows includes:
  • Bartender(s)
  • House Beer
  • House Liquor
  • House Wine
  • Limited Bar
  • Open Bar
The space offered by The Lafayette Hotel, Swim Club & Bungalows for wedding events is known for:
  • Ballroom
  • Historic Building
  • Hotel
  • Restaurant
The Lafayette Hotel, Swim Club & Bungalows offers the following indoor/outdoor options for weddings:
  • Indoor
  • Uncovered Outdoor
The Lafayette Hotel, Swim Club & Bungalows offers the following types of wedding events:
  • Reception
  • Bridal Shower
  • Engagement Party
  • Elopements
  • Rehearsal Dinner
The Lafayette Hotel, Swim Club & Bungalows offers the following services for wedding events:
  • Accommodations
  • Bar Services
  • Catering Services
  • Clean Up
  • Event Rentals
  • Get Ready Rooms
  • Outside Vendors
  • Pet Friendly
  • Wifi
The Lafayette Hotel, Swim Club & Bungalows offers the following furniture and decor items for weddings:
  • Audio Equipment
  • Chairs
  • Dance Floor
  • Lighting
  • Tables
The Lafayette Hotel, Swim Club & Bungalows is recommended by 96% of couples who have used their services. Their overall rating is 4.8 out of 5 with the following breakdown: 4.9 in value, 4.8 in quality of service, 4.8 in flexibility, 4.7 in average response time and 4.7 in professionalism.
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