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Kim Kirkley is a renown wedding officiant and ordained minister in New York City. Her dedication to her work and genuine investment in your wedding will transform your ceremony into a living work of art. When you choose Kim Kirkley, your guests won't be waiting for the ceremony to end and the reception to start. Her weddings steal the show and exemplify the power of love as you celebrate this milestone and cross over into married life.

Experience

In addition to her status as an ordained minister, Kim Kirkley has been a successful actor, life coach and former LGBT civil rights attorney. She was a past president of her Toastmasters club, making Kim a practiced public speaker. She has also written six books, making her a leading authority on ritual, meaning, and personal success. Kim was an instructor with the Celebrant Foundation and Institute, which helped her to improve and gain deeper understanding of wedding ritual and ceremony.

Services Offered

Kim Kirkley performs wedding for all couples, including religious and secular ceremonies, cultural ceremonies and LGBT weddings. As a proud member of the LGBT community and former civil rights attorney, she advocates for everyone’s right to their special day (and not just a trip to City Hall). Kirkley developed the Elegant Authentic Ceremony Creation™ system to create love-based (not tradition-based) ceremonies that fit each individual’s and couple’s needs, ensuring your wedding is unique as you are.

  • Black-owned
  • LGBTQ+-owned
  • Woman-owned
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Frequently asked questions

Which of the following are included in the price of your wedding officiant services?

Ceremony Rehearsal
Premarital Counseling

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$148

What is the starting price for pre-marital counseling (per session)?

$120

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What services do you provide?

Premarital Counseling

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Anglican
Baha'i Faith
Baptist
Buddhist
Catholic
Earth-Based
Episcopalian
Evangelical
Hindu
Islam
Jainism
Jewish
Lutheran
Methodist
Mormon
No Denomination
Orthodox Christian
Pagan
Presbyterian
Quaker
Shinto
Sikhism
Taoist
Unitarian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

NJ
NY

What languages do you speak?

English

Reviews of Our Elegant Ceremony

Jermaine
Jermaine Sent on 01/14/2025
5 out of 5 rating

The perfect officiant for our wedding ceremony.

Kim was an incredible officiant for our New Years Eve wedding ceremony. We met, and booked her on extremely short notice, only two weeks before our wedding day upon learning that our initial officiant had a sudden scheduling conflict.

After our first meeting, we quickly realized that Kim was the perfect officiant for us. She demonstrated an uncanny ability to discern so much about our vision for our wedding and also about who we are as a couple. That meant a great deal to us in the midst of planning for the big day within a short timeline. Kim was able to follow through with a ceremony program that more than delivered on our vision, from capturing our story, to conveying our theme of family.

There’s no other way to explain the service Kim provided besides spot on. She was just a wonderful person to work with, making us feel seen, heard, and comfortable with the process throughout. Her follow through on the administrative side was timely and consistent, and she was also able to navigate the emergence of some unforeseen matters, including us being under the weather the week before our special day. Overall, Kim was amazing and it’s hard to think of what our wedding ceremony would have been like without her.
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Michael Sent on 07/17/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Could not Imagine our ceremony without Kim!

First of all, Kim is a wonderfully warm person which makes her an awesome officiant! She really helped my partner and I think about what was important to us throughout the process. She delivers a tailor-made and elegant service. Through our chats, she so beautifully captured our relationship in our ceremony. We had several people ask us how we found her because the ceremony was so thoughtful and moving. If you want a heartfelt ceremony, Kim should be your pick.
Suezette
Suezette Sent on 06/20/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Genuine, Flexible and Kind

We hired Kim during the pandemic and on short notice. She worked hard to help us craft a very special day. We could only have two guest and yet Kim helped us to feel like we felt like we had all the love in the world. Thank you Kim!
Alayjah
Alayjah Sent on 08/01/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Thank You Kim!

Kim was integral in the success of our special day! She really took the time to understand my husband and mine's relationship and how we wanted to share our story with our guests. Each time we had a revision or a new idea to include, Kim had recommendations as to how to expertly incorporate them into our ceremony. We appreciated the fact that she had experience navigating all different types of weddings and ceremonies. We are so grateful for her guidance and partnership! Our guests truly left feeling connected to our story and our commitment to each other. Thank you!
Eric
Eric Sent on 06/21/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Kim was an Amazing Officiant

Kim was an amazingly kind and thoughtful officiant. She took care to craft a ceremony with us that centered our blended family and affirmed us culturally, all high priorities. She also was very clear and flexible with the changes we desired to keep our ceremony safe during quarantine. Overall, we can't say enough how happy we were that Kim was our officiant, we don't think anyone else would regret the choice either.
Sable
Sable Sent on 09/25/2020
5 out of 5 rating

Completely personalized, intimate, joyful and sweet!

Kim Kirkley was so amazing. She took the time to get to know our love story and masterfully, artistically, and romantically infused that story into our ceremony. The first time we read what she created we were close to tears. We were in shock that someone who was not us could capture the essence of us so beautifully. Our wedding guests were floored and honored that we invited them into the story of us through our ceremony. During the ceremony they laughed, cried, sighed, and were astonished to find out that it wasn't written by us or by someone who had known us throughout the entire journey of our relationship. However, we were proud to say that it was all Kim Kirkley.

If you want a ceremony that feels intimate, joyful, honest, sweet, and sets the stage for your entire day, then Kim Kirkley should be your top choice.
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Julianna Sent on 08/27/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Working with Kim was so worth while!

Kim was such a memorable, wonderful, addition to our wedding! We found Kim on line and within moments of meeting her, we knew we would love to have her as our officiate. We didn't anticiapate considering coaching lessons, but decided to take advantage of one of her packages; we're so glad we did. We thoroughly enjoyed the session, leaving each time with smiles and a deepened connection. It was such a beautiful, gentle reveal of loving truths within our relationship. Kim also introduced simple communication tools that any couple can benefit from as part of the coaching. Our wedding day was a whirlwind, It's hard to recount all the moments, but I can honestly say, the one thing I remember most, was our ceremony. Kim did such a phenomenal job! Her warmth, charisma and attitude for commanding a room, had everyone fully invested in that moment with us! Kim's earthy, grounded demeanor was so stabilizing and authentic. Her delivery was celebratory, and set the tone for the rest of the day. More the one person said it was one of the best ceremonies they'd ever seen. We whole heartedly recommend Kim as an officiant!
CHRISHANA
Chrishana Sent on 08/10/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing officiant!

Kim officiated our wedding on 7/7/19 in Brooklyn and she exceeded our expectations! We booked Kim very early on in our planning process and from our initial conversation/consultation to going through drafts of the ceremony, she was a consummate professional. She listened to us and centered us and our love, never assumed or thought her ideas were the best and only ways. Our ceremony accurately reflected our love, personalities, interests, and passions. She captured and narrated our love story so beautifully. People laughed, cried, and nodded in agreement during the ceremony. We'd be remiss if we didn't mention Kim's beautiful, yet commanding voice. We highly recommend Kim, without any reservations!
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Valerie Sent on 08/22/2018
5 out of 5 rating
Kim made our ceremony so memorable. She is pleasant, professional, and well-versed in marriage coaching too! Her voice, calm yet exciting demeanor, and charisma throughout the ceremony created such a great love-filled atmosphere. Our guests could not stop talking about how great the ceremony was...how great KIM was!! We are so lucky to have her be a part of our special day.
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Avia Sent on 03/20/2018
5 out of 5 rating
Kim made our wedding over the top with her warm loving touch of professionalism. Her ceremony was so personable that we felt like she had known us all our lives!! Thank you again Kim!!
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Awards

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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2012 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2011 Winner

Professional Network & Endorsements

2 Endorsements
Christopher Duggan Photography Christopher Duggan Photography Wedding Photographers

I've worked with Kim on countless weddings since our first one in 2005. She brings to each couple her keen sense of awareness that is essential when creating a unique ceremony. She is personable, warm, insightful and kind. Every couple that we've worked with together has felt blessed to have had their ceremony created by Kim.

Weddings of Love NYC by Karen Mussa Weddings of Love NYC by Karen Mussa Wedding Officiants

Kim is an amazing and a wonderful Celebrant. Anyone who chooses Kim to officiate at their ceremony will not be disappointed. Kim introduced me to the Celebrant Profession and I am so greatful!

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