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The Commander's Mansion is a historical mansion built in 1865. Set just 9 miles from the heart of Boston, this Watertown estate is the ideal country-in-the-city setting for your special day. The Mansion sits on seven lush landscaped acres, including a beautiful Grape Arbor that makes for a stunning back-drop for onsite ceremonies. We host events year round inside the Mansion itself, and May through October, your rental may include a 40'x 80' tent over brick pavers and a dedicated catering tent.

Facilities and Capacity
Couples may host up to 200 wedding guest at Commander’s Mansion. There is one main indoor event space that includes two charming changing suites with full private baths. Outside areas contain large open spaces and seasonal tented space.

Services Offered
Commander’s Mansion is a stunning wedding ceremony and reception space. It also has space and services available to host your bridal shower and engagement party as well. In terms of the services and wedding items, Commander’s Mansion can provide the following:

  • Bridal suite
  • Event rentals
  • Chairs and tables
  • Furniture
  • Tents
  • Parking with wheelchair access
  • Woman-owned
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Frequently asked questions

Do you have a site fee for wedding receptions at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during peak season?

$8,500

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during off-peak season?

$5,500

Do you have a site fee for wedding ceremonies at your venue?

No

Which of the following are included in the starting site fee?

Bridal Suite
Chairs
Parking
Tables

How many event spaces or rooms does your venue offer?

1

Describe your venue:

Historic Building
Mansion

What kind of settings are available?

Indoor
Covered Outdoor
Uncovered Outdoor

Which of the following wedding events does your venue service?

Ceremony
Reception
Bridal Shower
Engagement Party

What event services do you offer?

Event Rentals
Get Ready Rooms
Wifi

What event items are available?

Chairs
Furniture
Tables
Tents

What transportation and access is available?

Parking
Wheelchair Access

What months are included in your peak season?

May
June
July
August
September
October

What months are included in your off-peak season?

January
February
March
April
November
December

Reviews of Commander's Mansion

R
Ryan Sent on 12/25/2022
5 out of 5 rating

An Amazing Day

We cannot say enough about the wonderful experience we had with our wedding at Commander’s Mansion. The service and coordination was excellent and Gina went above and beyond for us. Our day was perfect and beautiful. Could not recommend more.
Nick
Nick Sent on 10/12/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Gina and Team — The Best In The Business

Gina, Tammy and the entire team at the Commander's Mansion made our wedding truly exceptional. From their warm, friendly approach to planning to their candid, open communication throughout the process, we never felt out of touch or confused about when and where things needed to happen. They made us — and made all of our guests, too — feel cared for, heard and valued. We almost want to get married again if it means we get to plan another event with Gina and Tammy — they are simply that good. A beautiful venue with wonderful space, ample parking and incredible memories.
Matt
Matt Sent on 08/14/2022
5 out of 5 rating

You will want to find an excuse to throw another event here

I truly cannot say enough good things about the Commander's Mansion. Thank goodness we found it! The venue is in a convenient location in the Boston area and we adored having everything - our hotel, rehearsal dinner restaurant, and after party bar - all within close walking distance, though the venue itself feels so tucked away and private. The mansion itself is beautiful, but we fell in love with the lush green of the grape arbor. The tent is also beautiful and I'd highly recommend adding the bistro lighting, which we loved. While at first we thought Commander's might be a slightly higher price point than other nearby venues we looked at, once we began getting quotes for tents elsewhere, we realized that the fact that you don't have to arrange and pay for a tent yourself makes Commander's both more affordable and easier logistically.

We worked primarily with Gina, who is a gem of a human being. She is warm, responsive, helpful, and sincerely cares about helping you make your day what you want it to be. I wish I could work with her every day!! She guided us through the whole wedding planning process and took care of so many details that allowed us to relax and really enjoy ourselves. We love her (and her dog Beans). Choosing this venue was the single best choice we made while planning our wedding. Thank you for everything!
Brittany
Brittany Sent on 01/31/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing Experience!

We can't recommend this venue enough! My fiance and I worked with Gina and Tammy through the whole process - they were fantastic and made the whole process enjoyable. The mansion and grounds are beautiful! We had 150 guests for our October wedding. We loved that they were able to experience a different space for the ceremony (arbor), cocktail hour (inside mansion), and reception (tent). The suites were also perfect for "getting ready" photos. Our photographer had a great time finding details at the mansion for the perfect photo opportunities. Definitely check this space out!
K
Katie Sent on 09/27/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Beautiful venue, amazing team

We decided on the Commander's Mansion mainly because of how gorgeous it was, and the fact they offer a discount for Watertown residents. I worked primarily with Gina, who is an absolute gem. She answered every question I had, and on the day of my event, took such good care of me. Because I didn't have a wedding party, I didn't have anyone to help me make things run smoothly. Gina was kind, warm, organized, and ready to lend a hand however I needed her. She checked in on me, made sure I was happy with things, and did it all with a smile on her face. We absolutely adored her. The mansion itself is a beautiful setting for a wedding. Everyone kept complimenting the venue, and it made for some amazing photos. I can't believe how inexpensive it was! Even if we hadn't had the resident discount, it would have been a steal. Absolutely no regrets, and I would recommend the Commander's Mansion to anyone looking for a lovely, affordable wedding venue. They will take great care of you, and are super easy to work with.
Ann
Ann N. Sent on 11/16/2020
5 out of 5 rating

Cannot Recommend Enough

Gina and Tammy went above and beyond for our COVID-19 compliant mini-mony. I cannot thank them enough for making our 'big' little day so beautiful! I recommend to all couples looking for a all-in-one venue to handle all the curveballs with ease
L
Lisa Sent on 10/16/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Stunning Venue

Commander's Mansion is such a beautiful venue. Our summer wedding pictures were stunning with the Commander's Mansion grounds as the backdrop. We had great communication with Gina and Tammy leading up to the wedding and all of their recommended vendors were a pleasure to work with as well! Gina and Tammy coordinated with all of the vendors to make sure everything went smoothly the day of and keep our stress levels down. I highly recommend this venue for a wedding or any other special event.
Melissa
Melissa Sent on 10/08/2019
5 out of 5 rating

A perfect wedding venue!

We were obsessed with the Commander’s Mansion from the minute we took our first tour. The mansion itself is gorgeous and a perfect setting for photos and cocktails. We had our reception in the tent behind the mansion, which was a perfect setting for dinner and lots of dancing!

Tammy was fantastic to work with! She was incredibly responsive and made our day feel so special and personal to us. We couldn’t have asked for a more perfect setting for our specula day!
Elizabeth
Elizabeth Sent on 09/28/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Excellent venue

Very happy with my choice of venue! The Commander's Mansion was a beautiful site and the use of the grape arbor, mansion, and tent worked out perfectly. I wanted to be sure we chose a venue accessible for wheelchairs and elderly guests, and this fit the bill, especially since the tent has solid brick underfoot rather than grass. Tammy was easy to work with and made planning a breeze. The rental fee was reasonable compared to other venues in the area, and the list of catering options was extensive enough to create real competition - we had no problem finding one we liked without spending a mint. Getting liquor from Gordon's was also a steal compared to some of the quotes I received from other venues that require beverage packages. All in all I wanted flexibility to shop around for vendors instead of having everything dictated in-house by the venue (where they'll also dictate the price, and it won't come cheap!). The Commander's Mansion was perfect.
Laura
Laura Sent on 07/15/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect venue for garden party wedding

We felt so fortunate to find this hidden gem of a venue in Watertown! You have access to the entire historic home and grounds when you book your wedding here. The coordinators work with you to format your perfect day, whether you want to have an indoor or outdoor ceremony/cocktail hour, or if you want to use their beautiful tent for the reception. Our guests raved about all the natural beauty of the grounds, and the exquisite interior of the home. Keep in mind, this is just a venue. Meaning, you are responsible for hiring all outside vendors (food, music, flowers, bartenders/servers, day of coordination), which can be a lot more work than other venues, but it also allows for more flexibility. Gina and Tammy were always available by e-mail and easy to communicate with! The venue also hosts an annual wedding showcase every spring, which was super fun and is were we found many of our vendors!
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Awards

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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2020 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2019 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2018 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2017 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2015 Winner

Professional Network & Endorsements

4 Endorsements
Esq.Events Esq.Events Wedding Planners

One of our favorite wedding venues: beautifully maintained and perfect for all seasons.

Boston Catering and Events Boston Catering and Events Wedding Caterers

Weddings & Special Events at the Commander's Mansion are truly memorable. The staff is great to work with and always work hard to ensure the day runs smoothly. Simply put, a beautiful, classic New England venue!

Justice of the Peace Gina Justice of the Peace Gina Wedding Officiants

Best place to have a wedding! Both the mansion and grape arbor are picturesque. Rae and Tammy could not be more helpful. The Commander's Mansion is a wedding venue jewel.

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Map

Commander's Mansion frequently asked questions

Commander's Mansion includes the following items and services for wedding events in its starting site fee:
  • Bridal Suite
  • Chairs
  • Parking
  • Tables
The space offered by Commander's Mansion for wedding events is known for:
  • Historic Building
  • Mansion
Commander's Mansion offers the following indoor/outdoor options for weddings:
  • Indoor
  • Covered Outdoor
  • Uncovered Outdoor
Commander's Mansion offers the following types of wedding events:
  • Ceremony
  • Reception
  • Bridal Shower
  • Engagement Party
Commander's Mansion offers the following services for wedding events:
  • Event Rentals
  • Get Ready Rooms
  • Wifi
Commander's Mansion offers the following furniture and decor items for weddings:
  • Chairs
  • Furniture
  • Tables
  • Tents
Commander's Mansion is recommended by 95% of couples who have used their services. Their overall rating is 4.8 out of 5 with the following breakdown: 4.9 in value, 4.8 in quality of service, 4.8 in flexibility, 4.7 in professionalism and 4.6 in average response time.
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