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my MOH wont talk to me
I asked one of my best friends to be my MOH and she agreed and ever since then she has yet to talk to me. the wedding os over a year away but i cant help but to be nervous. The girls are all going out for an engagement party next weekend and when I called to let her know she she said she couldnt make it because she had planns with her other friends what should i do?

Married: 09/10/2011
Posted On: Aug 10, 2010 at 8:24 PM | Add to My Watchlist | Flag As Inappropriate

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Married: 11/11/2011
Aug 12, 2010 at 3:42 PM • Flag As Inappropriate
maybe shes not up for the responsibility of be MOH and you should keep her as a BM but change MOH's

Married: 06/26/2010
Reviews: 7
Aug 13, 2010 at 12:31 AM • Flag As Inappropriate
You will be surprised in this planning process. Everyone is not as happy as you think they should be. MOH did not smile on one wedding picture and had a terrible attitude the day of the wedding.....I had no time to figure it out.

Married: 12/18/2010
Reviews: 5
Aug 13, 2010 at 11:27 PM • Flag As Inappropriate
Ditch her.. you dont need any added stress planning your wedding. Casey is right, keep her as a BM but give the MOH role to someone who will want the responsibility!

Married: 04/09/2011
Aug 16, 2010 at 6:16 PM • Flag As Inappropriate
A lot of people worry about the financial responsibilities as well. Dress, shoes, gifts etc. Try to ask her in a nice way if she would rather play a smaller role or just go as a guest.

Married: 10/23/2010
Reviews: 5
Aug 17, 2010 at 7:27 PM • Flag As Inappropriate
i actually had the same problem with my MOH and our wedding was only 5 months away and i fired her period.... she wanted all the glory but didnt want to do any thing to help me

Kayla T.
Married: 09/10/2011
Reviews: 8
Aug 23, 2010 at 9:05 PM • Flag As Inappropriate
Replace her!!! you need someone that will be there for you. You have too much to get done and worry do not need the added stress. Your bridal party should help lighten the load not add to it!

Love the Wedding date!!! and Name... maybe it is a trend!

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