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From the processional to the recessional - and everything in between - this is your space to get answers to everything you’ve ever wondered about vows, unity ceremonies, officiants, traditions, and more. After all, the wedding ceremony is what this whole shebang is about, right?!

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Erin
Help: Fiancé wants communion during ceremony and i don’t
Erin, on October 12, 2018 at 11:32 AM

So my family is not catholic but my Fiancé’s is. We are having an outdoor wedding, but my Fiancé still wants to do communion during the ceremony and offer it to everyone. This is making my parents...

Mim, Oct 12, 2018 26 2,065
Christina
Unity Candle Outdoors
Christina, on October 11, 2018 at 11:50 AM

So as much as I love the unity candle idea I had axed it due to our ceremony being outside. My future hubby, on the other hand, is really wanting it. I have tried to tell him it won't work because the...

HayMrsO, Oct 12, 2018 9 2,539 1
Casey
Too cold for outdoor ceremony?
Casey, on October 12, 2018 at 12:09 AM

My wedding is this Sunday and we chose to have the ceremony outside, but if it rains or anything it will be moved inside where the reception is happening. As of now tho, Sunday will be in the mid to...

Kristen, Oct 12, 2018 12 367
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Claire De lune?
Chloe, on October 11, 2018 at 1:24 PM

Has anyone walked to Claire De lune? I’m have the hardest time finding a song to play before it for the rest of the bridal party to walk to. Almost ready to give up and change to a different song but...

jocelyn, Oct 11, 2018 11 377
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Fear of being the center of attention
Cassandra, on October 10, 2018 at 7:18 AM

Will 10 days left, I have been pretty calm with this whole wedding planning thing. Even with issues with the bridal party. (More people more problems hahaha) but now im low key freaking out. I have...

Kayla, Oct 10, 2018 10 3,675
Erin
Piano-only recessional song, or original recording??
Erin, on October 8, 2018 at 5:52 PM

Hi, everyone! We're getting down to the (wedding) wire!! Music is a big part of how my FH and I met, so our music choices for our ceremony matter a lot to us. We found our song selections and...

earias, Oct 10, 2018 13 290
Morgan
Traditional Processional Songs?
Morgan, on October 9, 2018 at 3:25 PM

Hi! FH and I are talking songs for our ceremony (non-church, at our venue), and we can't seem to come to an agreement on music. FH wants it to be more traditional with: Bridal Party--"Canon in D" Me--...

Jen, Oct 10, 2018 18 2,490
Alicia
Did someone proofread your vows?
Alicia, on October 9, 2018 at 4:12 PM

So I've just written my vows. Yay me! So glad I thought to Google samples, it really helped me frame what I wanted to say. But did you practice with someone else or have them proofread it? I don't...

Brittany, Oct 10, 2018 15 4,137
MrsD
Wood Branding Ceremony?
MrsD, on May 22, 2018 at 4:14 PM

Any other brides doing or have done wood branding ceremonies? How did it go? We are thinking of branding a piece of stained wood, and having our guests sign it as our guest book. I plan on ordering...

MrsD, Oct 10, 2018 12 1,616
Erin
Bilingual French / English Wedding Officiant
Erin, on September 30, 2018 at 2:01 PM

So my husband's family is coming to our wedding in Lansing, Michigan, and they are from Quebec City, so they speak French. We are desperate to find someone to do our ceremony who can speak both...

Maggie, Oct 9, 2018 5 963
Amy
Aisle runner or no aisle runner is the question!
Amy, on October 2, 2018 at 3:11 PM

Hey all! I'm getting married in March of 2019 (at my church in IL). I'm having trouble deciding on if I should use an aisle runner or not? Part of me thinks yes, since the carpet is an awful blue...

Rachel, Oct 7, 2018 16 5,697
Laurel
3 pm ceremony time
Laurel, on October 5, 2018 at 5:35 PM

Hey everyone. My fiance and I have set our ceremony time for 3 pm on our wedding day. Does anyone have a timeline they could help me with? Thanks in advance.

Megan, Oct 6, 2018 5 437
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How long did it take you to write vows?
page, on October 4, 2018 at 10:40 PM

For those of you that wrote your own vows... how long did it take you overall to write your own vows? Did you start months prior to wedding? week before? the morning of lol? Also after working on it...

April, Oct 5, 2018 7 1,833
Shenyatta
Vow renewal processional
Shenyatta, on October 4, 2018 at 1:59 PM

Our party consists of our two daughters, one son and niece as the flower girl. Option A - 2 Daughters, Son and Niece march in // Husband at the Altar // Wife march in aloneOption B - Husband at the...

Maggie, Oct 4, 2018 1 265
LM
How Long Should Vows Be?
LM, on February 18, 2018 at 12:25 PM

We are writing our own vows for the ceremony, and I was feeling close to done with mine. I checked with my FH, and he said his are a few sentences long. Mine are an entire page... How long are vows,...

Renee, Oct 4, 2018 15 14,550 1
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Groom to play piano while i walk down the aisle?
Dana, on October 3, 2018 at 11:41 AM

Hey! My fiancé is a musician and while talking over wedding plans with his parents last night the idea came up that he can play the piano while I walk down the aisle. The piano is on wheels so it can...

Angela, Oct 3, 2018 13 1,773
Erin
Ceremony Script Draft sent by Officiant
Erin, on September 27, 2018 at 9:10 AM

Received our ceremony script draft from our officiant. Wanted some opinions on if it looks okay. Irish ceremony, about 20 minutes long. Sorry for long post. Erin and Wesley invite you to be truly...

Erin, Oct 3, 2018 4 337
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Candle Lighters?
Morgan, on October 1, 2018 at 1:03 PM

Hey ladies, I have two gals I'd like to be part of my wedding. Both ladies are in late 20's i am thinking of asking them to be candle lighters. Do you think that is something they would hate or be...

Morgan, Oct 1, 2018 7 2,613
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Ceremony music for a beach wedding?
Colleen, on September 19, 2018 at 12:58 PM

Looking for some thoughts on whether or not music is needed for a beach ceremony. I'm torn with getting it. My DJ wants $150 extra to provide ceremony music. Do I get music or not? Why and/or...

Colleen, Sep 29, 2018 7 1,596
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Traditional Vows or Hand-written when you have anxiety?
Rachel, on September 28, 2018 at 11:37 AM

Hi ladies! For many years I've suffered from anxiety. I'm one of those who sometimes has trouble calling up people/places. I know my anxiety is only gonna get more intense come the big day, especially...

Tpatb, Sep 29, 2018 10 258
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