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Leigh
Ordained minister
Leigh, on September 17, 2021 at 7:39 PM

I am looking only for an outside location and ordained minister. Very simple . Only a few people . Any suggestions

Lynnie, Sep 20, 2021 3 58
Perla
Post wedding
Perla, on September 19, 2021 at 11:05 PM

Be the first to get ready- makeup hair dress, everything. Have everything laid out for the photographer the day before. Don’t be responsible for anything that day. I recommend having the first look....

Valerie, Sep 20, 2021 8 709
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Help with wording - website
Lav, on September 19, 2021 at 8:29 PM

Hey people - I am writing some FAQs and I need help wording the “No Kids under 12 due to the covid vaccine not being available for them and we would rather not have them at the wedding” etc… I need...

Haley, Sep 20, 2021 10 146
Pat
Is this tacky?
Pat, on September 18, 2021 at 5:06 PM

Okay, so again I'm on my 'invitation' kick. <grin> I am going with pocket invitations, which has a ton of information right there for our guests. I am playing around with the "dinner" portion of...

Valerie, Sep 20, 2021 24 930
Future Mrs.Randolph
Jan-may 2022 Brides
Future Mrs.Randolph, on January 14, 2021 at 2:44 PM

It seems like more 2020 brides who pushed to 2021 are pushing their weddings back to 2022 due to COVID so it makes me wonder if my February 2022 date would be even "somewhat" safe. Im planning on...

Antiniastael91, Sep 20, 2021 123 4,095 10
Cora
Less than 2 weeks!!
Cora, on September 19, 2021 at 10:56 PM

Hey y’all! I’m getting married on Oct. 2 which is less than two weeks away! I have a few unrelated questions that I need some advice on! - what vendors should you tip? I know the typical caterer, day...

Marianne, Sep 20, 2021 4 167
Pat
Invitations!
Pat, on September 18, 2021 at 4:50 PM

Oh my goodness..... yes, I'm super anal and am already looking at invitations for our 2023 wedding, BUT .... let me repeat, "Oh My Goodness" !! I went on Magnet Street (Truly Engaging design) and...

Katherine, Sep 20, 2021 2 614 1
Michelle
What current trends are you not including?
Michelle, on July 11, 2021 at 2:22 PM

Anything that has popped up in the last 5-10 years that doesn’t make sense to you and would not go over guests

Michelle, Sep 19, 2021 26 1,501
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Has anyone felt treated different by vendors because you don't have a wedding planner?
Jayne, on September 16, 2021 at 10:32 AM

Hi! I just got married last weekend and I am so relieved that it is all over (in many ways..). Wedding was lovely and I did not have any major issues throughout the wedding. However, I have to vent a...

A.B., Sep 19, 2021 19 1,067 1
Gabrielle
Destination wedding planners
Gabrielle, on September 17, 2021 at 9:53 PM

For those that have done destination weddings. Have you found it more helpful to use a basic planner (such as through destinationweddings.com or a private more expensive planner more familiar with the...

Gabrielle, Sep 19, 2021 5 1,271
Jaimie
Day of details
Jaimie, on September 18, 2021 at 12:22 AM

My wedding at 7 pm and we have to set up ourselves. We will decorate some the day before and do final touches that morning. We’ll have hair and makeup in the afternoon. I was thinking chick fil a...

Yasmine, Sep 19, 2021 3 605
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If you are no longer the moh but have already paid for things, should you give the new moh a bill?
Mary, on September 14, 2021 at 4:08 PM

So I am in my friend's wedding, and originally she had asked me to be her maid of honor. However, right before her bridal shower she told me that she no longer wants me as her MOH. I will point out...

Ellen, Sep 19, 2021 13 715
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Do i have my sisters as bridesmaids 😳
T Reilly, on September 18, 2021 at 4:31 AM

So I have recently got engaged and have already started thinking about the planning side. Bridesmaids seem to be the hardest thing to think about I want to ask my 3 best friends but then I know that...

Melissa, Sep 18, 2021 8 686
Cj
Covid precautions - vaccination, test, masks etc
Cj, on September 8, 2021 at 5:07 PM

I'm curious what's everyone doing or thinking of doing in terms of covid attendance policies... 1) vaccinated only, 2) vaccinated or test out, 3) vaccinated or mask, or 4) no vaccination requirement...

A.B., Sep 18, 2021 45 1,509 2
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Feeling Unexcited for my October Wedding
Kaylen, on September 17, 2021 at 1:31 AM

So we chose our venue late 2019, planning on an October 2020 wedding. Due to covid, we obviously postponed until October 2021 in the hopes that things would be better. We are still going ahead with...

Kaylen, Sep 18, 2021 14 755
Katherine
October 23rd 2021!
Katherine, on August 23, 2021 at 9:28 AM

If anyone shares this date with me we officially are 2 months away! My 2 years of planning are coming to an end and I still feel like I have so much to do! The nerves are kicking in big time now! How...

Mallorie, Sep 18, 2021 44 798 3
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Photog deletes couples photos
Mrs.a, on September 17, 2021 at 8:31 PM

Say what?!!!! What’s your take on this? https://www.newsweek.com/internet-backs-wedding-photographer-deleted-bride-groom-pictures-1629868

Lauren, Sep 18, 2021 8 258
Lilith
Photographer or videographer or both
Lilith, on September 14, 2021 at 12:30 AM

Hey everyone. Im hiring 2 photographers that own a business and they asked me if I would be having a videographer. What do you think? Photos, videos or both?

Elizabeth, Sep 18, 2021 17 986
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I have seen people go both ways on this.
Dominique, on September 8, 2021 at 8:06 AM

Will you have small children attending your ceremony/ reception or none?

Melissa, Sep 18, 2021 60 1,229
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Destination Wedding Question!!!
Nat, on September 15, 2021 at 2:29 PM

Hi! My FH and I are set on having a destination wedding most likely in Mexico. 1. Is it necessary to send Save the Dates or can I just send the invite since it will have information about booking and...

Addie, Sep 18, 2021 12 720
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