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alwaysacountrygirl
Just Said Yes September 2014

How long did you wait to get engaged?

alwaysacountrygirl, on September 7, 2012 at 3:10 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 97

Let's here the stories!! I'm not, yet, because we haven't been together very long, but I am a FIRM believer in "when you know you know".

Let's here the stories!! I'm not, yet, because we haven't been together very long, but I am a FIRM believer in "when you know you know".

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  • Courtney F
    VIP April 2014
    Courtney F ·
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    We have known each other for 12 years (met in junior high), but dated for 8 years before we got engaged and we will be married 1 week before our 10 year anniversary! We started dating when I was 15 and he was 14, it took forever to get engaged and it seems like the wedding is forever away but I wouldn't change anything Smiley smile

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  • jennifer
    Dedicated April 2013
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    We were together 5 years and then got engaged.

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  • KandyGraham
    Dedicated October 2013
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    Im in the same boat as Chauncia J... 4 years too long!!! But well worth the wait...

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  • Sarah
    Super October 2013
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    We arent engaged yet, he has the ring, has my dads permission, now we are waiting for 'his moment'... we have been together 5 years and 5 months. Smiley smile

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  • BunBuns
    VIP May 2013
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    4 years looks pretty common!

    We got engaged shortly after our 4 year anniversary too!

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  • Courtney
    VIP November 2012
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    My FH and I dated in HS (We were both 16) We went our seperate ways and met up 7 years later. We dated for 7 years and have been engaged since July 2011 (He proposed right before my 30th bday...took the sting off of that one!) We will be together just shy of 8 years when we tie the knot. (He's a little slow to act...LOL. But that's ok, we are financially better off than in years past so it worked out for the best!

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  • Brandie
    VIP September 2011
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    Moved in after 4 months and he proposed 5 months later. We married last September, just one month after our 2 year anniversary. I knew after the first date : )

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  • AlwaysNOnlyOne
    Devoted July 2014
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    4 years and seven months before engagement and we have another 2 years and 8 months (approximately Smiley tongue) until we actually make it to the alter...

    * I WILL be patient I WILL be patient I WILL be patient* lol

    It will be worth the wait in the end though: We both have our career/life goals and are supporting each other in attaining them. Keeps us long distance for now, but we know neither of us would be happy if one of us had to sacrifice their dreams.

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  • IrishLove™
    Master October 2013
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    4 years and 2 days... it was the Saturday after our anniversary.

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  • Toni
    Super October 2012
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    We got engaged 14months after dating. And had a 2yr engagement.

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  • Trena
    Master July 2013
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    We were together just shy of 3 years when he totally surprised me with a proposal! We will be together for a total of just under 5 years when we tie the knot!

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  • Brittany N
    Devoted September 2012
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    We were together 8 years before he proposed @___@

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  • 2d Bride
    Champion October 2009
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    We'd lived together nearly 8 years when we got engaged. Then again, we got engaged only three days after we first could legally get married anywhere.

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  • Anonymous
    Dedicated March 2013
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    We waited for 3 years. She proposed at about 2.5 years in, but I said not yet. Then at 3 year mark I was ready and I pushed the issue by driving her to the jewelry shop in LA (800 miles away) that I wanted my ring from. lol

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  • Linda E: Fairy Godmother
    Master September 2012
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    2 days shy of 1 year. At our age we figured we shouldn't waste any time LOL!

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  • Mrs. Del Grosso
    Master June 2013
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    7 months! A month after he moved in with me at my parents house!!

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  • Mrs. Williams
    Super May 2013
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    I always used to think it was so crazy when people got engaged after such a short time, but then I started dating my FH. We dated for 6 months and then he proposed. We moved in together before we were engaged. When we get married we will have been engaged for a year and a half and will have just passed our two year dating anniversary. I am definitely now a firm believer in "when you know you know".

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  • Cara
    Expert April 2019
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    9 years !! I was 15 when we first met. 17 when we started dating.. Long time

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  • Spicydeene
    VIP October 2012
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    10 months. We will have been together about 18 months when we get married.

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  • alyssa
    Beginner October 2014
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    4.5 years, recently engaged!

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