Do you worry about you FHs bachelor party?

My FH best man and 2 grooms men are LDS, and therefor don't drink. or do strippers, or anything fun. ;D So they might go play golf. Even if he was going out I trust him.

I'll probably have a bigger party, and i don't even like to go clubbing.

I'm with you chelsea I don't want a naked chick rubbin her stuff all over my soon-to-be hubby! I don't think it has anything to do with trust, strippers get paid to be nasty..the more money they get, well you know the rest! (And no I'm not talking about prostitution) Just gross...if 1 "member" is enough for me, then one set of t*ts should be enough for him!

FH and I looked at who we each would have at our bachelor and bachelorette parties. We had planned to do them the same evenings. After looking at the lists we realized he was going to have all the guys in our circle of friends and I was going to have all of their girlfriends. The girlfriends and boyfriends were going to most likely be texting one another as would FH and I so we decided we have the most fun with each other anyway so why not have a combined party. We were planning on combining parties at the end of the night anyway. We both love going to Phillies games so we have 23 people tailgating a game, going to a game, then coming back to our house for more grilling and swimming. All of our friends are so excited and so are we. We get to drink, play beer pong, ladder ball, washers, and any other tailgating game we can think of, see a Phillies game and hang out with friends!

Lol thank you Mandy!! Your right its not about trust, its about me not liking the idea of some nasty chick rubbing her stuff all over my man!

Why does everyone think that just because there might be a stripper that the guys are going to cheat? I'm not a stripper. Never wanted to be, never could be, don't quite understand why someone would want to be a stripper. BUT I don't think that just because someone is a stripper they are going to have sex with any male that wants it. My FH doesn't go to strip clubs but I personally wouldn't have a problem if him and the guys did that every once in a while. The girls that do go home with someone aren't going home with anyone but a sugar daddy, imo. lol I just don't see the big deal if you trust him. Just my 2 cents!

Again never said, i didnt trust him, or that he would do anything with her. I just dont want this chick dancing all over him with her boobs in his face.

I'm not worried. I trust him.

Plus, I'm having a bachelorette party, and I know me and my girls can get crazy, so I know there will be a stripper involved {maybe 2, LOL}.

We talked about it and he knows how I feel....I don't care if there is a stripper..he can even slap her on the azz..just as long as he doesn't have sex with her, then why should I worry! It's no big deal.

I didn't mean you in particular, Chelsea. I've just always wondered about this. I worked with a girl years and years ago who flipped out on her hubby because he wanted to go to a strip club with the guys. The way I see it, they are just going to go, have some fun and come home to you ready to have some more fun!

Lol yeah, i wouldnt really flipped out on him, i would just be like "If you really wanted one, why didnt you just say that?" Because he says he doesnt want one, and to be completely honest if he got one i wouldnt get supper pissed, i'd just be slightly upset. Even though i cant stand the thought of a stipper. lol

I personally am NOT worried. My FH is have 2 parties and so am I. 1 is destination; he is going to vegas for 4 days and I am going on a cruise to Mexico. Then we are both having something local. I know that he will go to strip clubs, and I am a little jealous because I WANT TO GO TOOO!!! We go to strip clubs together from time to time with friends... I find it FUN. I think most women's perceptions of them are wrong and skewed, but to each there own.... i dont see it as a big deal because I know he isnt going to do anything to hurt me... it just naked girls!

I told my FH's BM that they could do whatever they wanted for his bachelor party--strippers, drinking, the whole 9 yards. The funny thing is as wild as my FH likes to pretend to be I can't really see him enjoying a stripper that much. Plus four of his five groomsmen are married, engaged, or close to being engaged and aren't big drinkers. I did tell him to get all his drinking done that night though because I don't want him or the groomsmen sloppy drunk at the wedding. I also think too that when you say your FH can't do something or can't have it (like a stripper) it makes it the forbidden fruit and they want it more. When I said I really didn't care what they did it almost seemed like he was disappointed that I wasn't jealous or throwing a fit about it lol.

I really dont think you should worry. I was the DD for my FH's best friend's bachelor party last year and honestly they got the groom at that party soooo drunk that he didn't even make it out of the bar. He passed out on a bar stool. If any stripper does show up odds are he'll already be passed out. Lol.

Uh I'm kinda worried. I trust Fh completely, and he's not even into 'bachelor party' type of stuff. He is seriouslly excited about goin to Dave and busters w/ a couple of guys, and playing arcade games. He loves that stuff, and cannot stop talking about it. So, in that sense, i am not worried. But if he chooses his brother to be his BM, I don't know if I trust his brother. His brother lives at those type of bars where women take their clothes off, and he drinks ALOT, cheats on his GF all the time. He's just one of those type of guys, very different from Fh but if he's the BM and in control of Bachelor party, then im concerned. But as of now, Fh just wants to play arcade games at Dave and Busters cause he's such a wonderful, adorable nerd like that. We'll see. I can jstt picture his brother sayyin, 'nah man that is dumb, you want to do something crazy for your bachelor party, since it's the last day of your single life" or something along those lines.

Yes I was worried, and yes, his group of friends are the type to write on the grooms. That's why he had his 2 months before the wedding, not days.

Not at all. I want him to have strippers, he's the one that doesn't want them. Only high class girls though :-). Only the finest tail is good enough for my man!

If I didn't trust him, I wouldn't be marrying him. Added to the fact he thinks strippers are gross (such a prude) I highly doubt he'd do anything. I guess I don't see strippers as sexual people, they're just funny as all get out lol. I'd love to see pictures with some big boob stripper all over him because it's funny!

Conversely, I find male strippers GROSS. I don't want some strangers sack all in my face so I'm not looking forward to the one I'm positive my sister will hire :-\. I dunno, I guess DH and I are just very open and communicative about stuff like that and I know it's all in good fun. Added to the fact we both hate being hung over worse than going to the dentist, I'm sure neither one of us will get too crazy.

Not too much, my FH jokes about the stripper thing. But in reality, he keeps saying he doesn't really want a bachlor party, he wants to hit the casino with the guys the night before, and since it allows 18yr olds, they don't serve alcohol. Not too dangerous! Lets see what his Brother and BIL have planned!

I'm not too worried about him. Yes, his friends will make sure he gets completely wasted and I'm pretty sure will get a stripper. I told him no touching and I know he'll be good. Plus his father will be there and will keep an eye on him to make sure he's safe

Not worried at all. strippers are there to make money not steal your man.

Nope..I'm not worried. He's planning on going to Disneyland, so I doubt there will be any strippers present lol.

Don't worry about it. If he said he doesn't want a stripper, then he probably won't have one. Trust him!

Im not worried about my FH's party. Im actually encouraging him to go let loose. They are doing dinner (probably at a sports bar since it will be football season) then on to a beach bonfire. He said he doesnt even want a stripper but I keep threatening that Id hire one lol.

both ours are going to be friday (our wedding is sunday) so we have recovery time. I trust him completely but totally expect him to be a sloppy drunk mess lol. The most i have to worry about is his comical brother pulling something to make then die laughing.