Do you worry about you FHs bachelor party?

No....

No. because i trust him to not get crazy and i believe my dad will be good and not let anything happen

No. because i trust him to not get crazy and i believe my dad will be good and not let anything happen

He won't be having a bachelor party...thank goodness!!! One less thing to have to worry about.

Well thats good, like i said its not him i'm worried about, its his friends. their all nuts!

I am not going to waste my time worrying about what could or what ifs...either you trust your FH or you dont...

and also your FH should now what you expect to be appropriate and what you dont...

maybe you need to have a clear conversation about what you consider ok and what you don't.

just my two cents

I'm not worried at all 'cause we're not having bachelor/bachelorette parties, we'll be going out to eat and hang out together with our entire WP.

FH's bachelor party is focused on BBQ and beer. I think I'm okay.

Neither I or my FH are having those parties. I am having a bridal shower and he is having a motorcycle ride with his buddies, then we are meeting up later. But, if he did have a bachelor party I would not worry, I know he loves me and wouldn't do anything to hurt me, plus strippers are there to dance, not to have sexual relations with the bachelor, so why worry about it?

We have had many conversations and i completely trust him!!! But his friends and cousins are going to be the ones throwing the party, and like i said their nuts!!! His cousin danced with a blow up dolls at his own brother wedding. It was funny but crazy.

I just dont want him to have a better party than me

MY FH bach party is the week before the wedding and his BM is inviting people who are not invited to the wedding. I am worried my FH will get drunk (that parts not the worry he WILL get trashed) and start inviting people and they will honestly expect to come to the wedding.

I didn't until the 6th or 7th shot at my bachelorette party. Then I was whining to Meghan B. about how I didn't think I could trust him. Yay for being a lush!

I don't think you should be worried as long as you trust him. It's up to him to make it clear that he doesn't want a stripper.

My opinion with FH's party was that if one of his friends decided to get a stripper, that was really up to them, but I completely trust him and I know he wouldn't do anything stupid.

I think my Fh is doing his at our house and i'm doing mine at his moms, since his dad will be with him. FH says he just wants some drinks and his guys.

Oops...double post!

I was a little worried at first but I got over it (and he did get DRUNK at his). Even if there was a stripper, it would have been fine. (I actually went to a bachelorette party for another bride a couple weeks before mine and there were male strippers there, and it was great!) I totally enjoyed myself but didn't cheat or love him less in the morning so I was ok with it. I think I was more bummed that my girls night that I had planned to pass the time fell through and I was home alone doing schoolwork. It'll be fine. Let him have his fun with his friends. Trust in his love and devotion to you.

FH was actually a little 'jealous' of me that I got both a bachelorette and a bridal shower AND I got gifts ... even though technically, my shower gifts were for both of us

Lmao... i had no worries for mine. bm was going to host the party at his house, then dh decided that he wanted it to be at our house so he didn't have to worry about driving home... so I didn't really have any worries after that! haha. Also, who cares IF they get a stripper? Its not like anything is going to happen other than a dance and honestly, the other guys there will probably enjoy her more than your fh. I don't know your demographic, but will they even be able to find a stripper?? If you're that worried about something happening like writing or shaving, why don't you guys have the parties a couple of weeks before the big day? I think you're going to be busy enough that week and it would probably be nice to have one less thing to worry about!

I know if a stripper was invited it would only be for dancing. But i just dont like the idea of it. Strippers make me uncomfortable, which is why i'm not having one. lol

@crew2 We'r doing it two nights before the wedding because some of the wedding party members wont be in town until then and we want them to be there. 100% of my family and 90% of my friends live in Maryland, and i'm in louisiana. IDK i just dont like the idea of stripper, it might also be because he said he be pissed if i had one, not that i would even want one.