Do you worry about you FHs bachelor party?

Im not to worried, for one my FH doesnt drink, so he will not be getting intoxicated, and if he has a stripper i cant get to upset cause im pretty sure his sister is getting me one lol. i trust him, but in the end its his last night being single, so id rather him enjoy it now rather then later...

I'm not worried at all. He doesn't drink and just isn't into any of that stuff. And even if he was, I would trust him. Try looking at it from the other point of view. If you had a crazy party with drinking and strippers, does it mean that you don't love him or that you don't want to get married? Not at all. Fundamentally, it's just one last night of fun. Try not to be too worried and enjoy your night too!

Im not worried- even if he does have a private stripper hired. A stripper and a Hooker are 2 diff things!

Strippers might make you uncomfortable but maybe they dont make your FH uncomfy... are you going to control EVERYTHING in his life if it makes you uncomfy? You should trust him by now- and if not there are other issues at hand. Im not trying to be rude here just honest.

You say its that YOU dont want him having some chick rubbing her stuff all over him, but this party isnt about YOU. And im sure if HE doesnt want something he will voice it. So again- its puts it about trust. I dont care how piss drunk you are you still know what you are doing. No excuses.

Not all strippers are nasty- its not what they are paid for- its about entertainment and making a night fun. Maybe if they are hiring dirty strippers that might be different but Id hope that your Fh and guys have higher standards.

Enjoy your night and worry about how you behave and what you do to make the night fun.

Not worried at ALL. He doesn't want a stripper and actually told his best man and anyone he wants to come he does NOT want a stripper and he hates them. He told me he wants to go paint balling for his bachelor party.

@ Anhuli i just said like five times i trust him i just dont like the idea of a stripper shaking her boobs in his face. Plus this is louisiana so a stripper and a hooker are the same thing somewhat lol. I know he wouldnt do anything, and i'm not trying to control everything, like i said before he said i cant have one either. Not like the "if i cant than you cant thing", its more like "your not going to have some guys junk in your face or else him knocking him out" kind of thing. So i think i have the right to feel the same way.

I didnt read all 4 pages- just answered the question. If you guys have the kind of relationship where you tell each other what to do then i guess its free rein for you to tell him no strippers. Are you having your parties the same night? I think that would make it more enjoyable so that neitehr of you is sitting at home wondering what the other is "doing"

Not worried at all. He can get as crazy as he wants. I trust him completely, and I know he wont do anything that I would kill him over This is his "last night" out and I want him to enjoy it to the max. His brother is putting his bach together and I was telling him he better get FH a stripper - Even tho FH says he doesn't want one. It's a bach party, he needs one lol.

Lol @ jenny. I keep telling his brother (BM) to get a stripper too. Whats a bach party without one! in my mind- since I know some strippers personally they are just girls who keep the fun going. I mean really guys.... what are men going to talk about/do all night by themselves! The stripper helps keep the laughter up.

My Fh just keeps saying all he wants to do is go fishing! Thats cool and all- but we go fishing A LOT! Do something you wouldnt do often.... We shall see if his bro gets a stripper or not... as of right now I know a fishing trip is being planned.

Neither of us want a bachelor/ette party. We are both not into strippers and getting sh..t faced until we puke. Let's face it, we are older than your average engaged couple. We have pretty much been there and done that. Besides, if we get sh..t faced until we puke, we need each other to put cold compresses on each other's necks.

If the guys were to have a party for him, I would have no issues with it. I would hope a hot naked girl would rub all over him. Hell, I would want to see the blushing pictures. Why? At the end of the night, he is coming home to me. For me, life is too short to worry about petty issues.

LMAO at Glenn!! Now, that is a great attitude!

No concerns here.

Not worried at all. i even told his best man his bachelor party better include getting shwasty and nice/clean strippers. i'd feel bad if my bachelorette party was way more fun than his bachelor party

also we were told by our MOH/BM that both parties will be held a few weeks before the wedding in order to avoid situations like in The Hangover

FH's boys are planning a Vegas trip for the bachelor party. I wouldn't say I'm worried, but I am not crazy about strippers. FH will be highly intoxicated, but that's to be expected at a bachelor party.

The thought of some naked chick all over my FH makes me sick. The thought of people paying a crap load of money to make it happen (since it's in Vegas) makes me even more sick. Blech! Despite that, I trust him completely (if I didn't I wouldn't be marrying him!), and I know he's coming home to spend the rest of his life with me. It's all in good fun, so I'm trying to put my dislike for strippers aside so he can enjoy himself.

My sister/MOH is thrilled to plan my bachelorette party. Honestly, I could care less. Give me some wine, a massage, and some good girl talk and I'd be happy to call it a day. I have a feeling she'll be planning much more than that though... and I'm pretty sure there will be strippers despite me telling her time and time again I do not enjoy them.

@Anjuli, We are doing them the same night, and honestly the only that i am "doing" is some pool at the bar with my girls and then off to my FMILs house for some drinks and girl time goofing off, no strippers for me. As for him he says he wants to just have all the guys at our place getting drunk, playing pong, and acting like dudes.

If I have anything to truly be concerned about (not jealous, but worried) it's that FH will get sooooooooooo messed up that I'll have messes to clean up.. The best man actually sent him home one time in such horrible condition that I had to spend $20 in laundry alone (we didn't have a washer/dryer at the time) and air out the matress and basically babysit him all night with a stock pot by the couch "just in case"... I'd rather not relive that nightmare.
The best man is gay.. I think that works on my behalf as far as strippers go. Plus, it would be like his friends to order an unattractive one, for kicks and grins

FH is not really having a bachelor party...he is going for beers with his BM & GM but I totally get what you mean about not trusting his friends, FH's BM isn't the most faithful to his wife, but I trust my FH and he knows the boundries for that evening (NO stripclubs, I don't think looking at topless women is how you should celebrate getting married or bond with your friends)

And ladies some private party strippers DO morw than dance, and it's not always "extra"...in my younger years I was friends with mostly guys and invited to some bachelor parties...the things I've seen lol

My Fh isn't a drinker. He might drink hard liquor that night but I was okay with his friend and brother wanting to hire a stripper. I know him too well and know the only thing that will happen is he will blush a ton. He doesn't care if I have one either but I don't really want to have some random naked guy in my face.

So, I have to ask.... why are you afraid of dancers... Personally, I think that 'stripper' is so derogatory. And really, to most it's a job, some a profession, but it's a select few who ruin everyone elses good name.

** Glenn got it right, the girl that talked about her kids all night.** These women have better things to do (and probably would prefer it) than to steal your man for one night.

As for my DH, I'll take him to a club anytime he wants to go, so I'm not worried about him going alone or with his group of fire fighter buggies.

OH, and Sydney- my DH asked if you knew that Cinderella, Snow White and Ariel had a thing going? IDK....

I can care less if my FH gets a stripper or gets trashed.. I know He loves me and he wouldnt do anything to jepordize what we have.. Plus my brother and my bestfriend ( a guy) will be with him...just incase the night gets a little out of hand..

But i am not gonna worry about it...Its one last night to be "single"! Which he know does not mean being with another woman.... but if he feels the need to get a lap dance or table dance so be it...I Be there the next morning to make fun of all the drink pics they are supposed to take Bahahha!!!!

No if he goes and gets a tattoo on his face or shaves his eyebrows we will have a HUGE problem lol!!!

Doesn't the whole "last night of fun/ last night of being single" cliche bother anyone else??? Why is it that getting married means you never get to have fun again?? I know it's not meant seriously but I always HATE when people say that. And, just because there isn't a signed piece of paper yet doesn't mean I'm single!

Sorry, just venting. Lol

I wasn't worried at all. Due to scheduling conflicts, it ended up being just him and his Best Man one night on the town. They rode the light rail down to Mill Ave (by ASU so lots of bars, etc) and went to a few bars. they ended up at a strip club (or two) which I figured they would, knowing the Best Man (DH isnt as into them as most guys) . Still, I wasn't worried. I trust him implicitly. I even picked them up from the last strip club at the end of the night.