Do you worry about you FHs bachelor party?

@ Edith- completely 100% agree. That cliche does annoy the hell out of me. Also just because we'r not married does not mean i'm single!!!!!

My fiancee and i are planning on having a speectacular parties. Full off booze and strippers, because it is our last night as single people, but we know we love eachother and that works for us.. if you really dont feel uncomfortable with it then talk to him and dont attack the situation. Remain calm and im sure he will understand!

My FH doesn't drink so getting drunk and having a bad hangover isn't a worry. He also said he doesn't really want one. I am trying to encourage him to at least go out and do something fun with his Best Man, but he said "Well, I can hang out with him anytime. I don't need to have an event for that just because I'm getting married." He just doesn't get it and thinks it's stupid thing to have/do. I can't remember his exact wording on it, but basically "If a guy feels the need to have to go out, get drunk, go to strip club, etc just because he is getting married and it will be his last night out as a "single guy" then perhaps he shouldn't be getting married." --- His opinion and I'm okay with that. So I have nothing to stress or worry about with him and even if he did/does decide to do something. I trust him 100 percent to not do anything that is wrong or do anything that would bother/hurt me.

Psh, my FH is going shark fishing. Yes, shark fishing! He will be gone for about 4 days and I hope he sees some tig ol bitties in his face because if he has to put up with me for the rest of his life, the least I can do is let him be with his guys. At the end of the day I know my FH wouldn't do anything really stupid.

Shark fishing? how cool. wheres he going to do that? My FH would be sooooo jealous if i told him! Hopefully there will be some tig ol bitties on the boat fishing for sharks! not sure how many girls with that kind of rack go shark fishing though!

They're going in Galveston, TX. Well they wont be shark fishing at night and I'm sure they plan on going to some strip clubs. The boat is completely for themselves, yes his GM went all out money wise! They will be drinking all day everyday as that is what we all do on the weekends anyway!

My FH said that he does not want a bachelor party... although he probably has no idea whether or not his guys have already planned something for him. We'll see, but this doesn't worry me. I don't even know yet if the girls are planning something for me... is this type of stuff supposed to be a "surprise?" LOL

Neither of us are having a party.

As a former stripper I can at least tell you of my experiences from being at bachelor parties. 99% of the time the bachelors were dragged there by there buddies. I've honestly never run into a bachelor that wanted to 'get it on' with a stripper. Most of the time they are even embarrassed to be at the strip club (especially if its not someplace they go a lot). I know a few of you are worried about the girls being too ''in their face'' so to speak, but you all have to remember that things like that are all in good fun at bachelor parties. Strippers are workers just like everyone else, they just work less than perfect jobs. They've got kids, husbands, school, and their own lives to worry about than trying to ''snatch'' a soon to be married man. I remember me and the girls I worked with would remark about how nice bachelor parties were because the grooms were more respectful than our usual customers! Haha, so try and not worry if that happens. Your men all love you <3

Amy- glad to hear your FH will be having fun catching sharks all day and playing with all the fish in the sea at night! AND you are ok with all that! My kind of woman! Its nice to trust your man completely isnt it, and have no worried about those kinds of things. I know not all of my relationships have been like that..

peacock- thanks for the incite from a former stripper. I really think people have the wrong idea about strippers. Guess they dont personally know any!

I'm not worried now, I was at first just because I was afraid that there might be strippers there but now that my fh has told me that if the guys even tried to have one show up he would leave his own party, I know that is not gunna happen. Plus I have an advantage most brides don't have. My fh and I live 3 hours apart and the wedding/all parties are happening here so all his groomsmen (except for one who lives in NY) live where my fh lives so none of the groomsmen have been to my area and have been telling me what they are thinking so I can give them the best locations.

I believe FH and the boys are planning on two days of golf. I know he doesn't want a stripper, in fact if the boys get him one I don't think he'll be happy - but if they do, they do. I know him and trust him, otherwise I wouldn't be marrying him.

FH keeps offering to invite my uncles as he knows they love their golf, a bit of me would get some extra reassurance from this, but the bigger part of me wants him to have a great time with the people he's closest to - he doesn't need my lot there.

Haha I am worried that no one will get me a stripper and that mine will be lame. FH and I used to go to strip clubs a lot when we were first dating and I loved it. I trust him. I just hope he doesn't come home smelling like puke.