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Do you ever creep through your fiancé(e)'s phone?

Rebecca, on December 18, 2018 at 11:05 AM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 120
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You borrow your fiancé(e)'s phone to do a quick Google search and the next thing you know your six months deep into his/her Snapchat history. Do you ever snoop through your fiancé(e)'s phone? Never, always, or sometimes?

Do you ever creep through your fiancé(e)'s phone? 1

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  • Chandra
    Master May 2019
    Chandra ·
    Never. I respect his privacy.
  • Alexandra
    VIP June 2019
    Alexandra ·
    Sometimes, but only accidentally! I’ve been on FH’s phone for whatever reason and then forget it’s his, not mine, and next thing I know I’m scrolling through his FB. Eventually I realize they’re not my friends
  • D
    Super September 2019
    Dana ·
    Never ! I know his password and he knows mine too but we respect each other and have soooooo much trust in one another
  • Jennifer
    Master September 2018
    Jennifer ·

    No and I will not unless he gives me a really good reason to. I don't want to know what him and his friends (they act like 12 year olds sometimes) talk about they are gross

  • Angerra
    VIP August 2019
    Angerra ·
    No I don't. We're adults; if I have a question, I will ask him directly. We have eachother's passwords so there's nothing to hide. Thankfully, he doesn't give me a reason to snoop.
  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    I do this all the time! I totally forget that it's not my phone and I instinctively click on Facebook or text messages!

  • FutureMrsKC
    Master January 2019
    FutureMrsKC ·

    Never, there is no need to since I trust him.

  • PurdyAikey
    Super January 2019
    PurdyAikey ·
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    Dude, I do the same thing (we have the same phone and case!), and we have a lot of mutual friends, so it takes like 5 new people for me to be like WAIT A MINUTE!

    Also like I look through his pictures a lot, but that is because I like looking at pictures a lot in general and also seeing the pictures he takes... They are mostly of me sleeping with our dogs, our dogs, and work! Lol

    But neither of the thing is the same as creeping because I am not checking his facebook to see what he does on facebook and I am not looking through the pictures for "evidence." Occasionally, I will read a text as it comes in, but mostly because I can tell him so-and-so is texting! Do you want your phone! He is a manager and his phone goes off 24 hours a day for work, so I look in case it is an emergency because his people don't realize that texting in an emergency doesn't work to get it resolved quickly.

    I trust him 100%, and if I didn't our relationship would be awful because he gets calls from women all the time for work and he works WEIRD UNSCHEDULED HOURS! So I would be a nervous wreck all the time!

  • Caytlyn
    Champion November 2019
    Caytlyn ·

    I've never gone through my FW's phone.

  • Alyssa
    Super July 2019
    Alyssa ·
    No but neither of us have any qualms about the other using our phone. We use each others phone's regularly but I have never snooped through his phone and to my knowledge he hasn't done this on my phone either.
  • M
    Super October 2018
    Michelle ·
    Never. Trust and privacy are important to each other. However, we have used the other person's phone with permission.
  • BecomingBecker
    Dedicated October 2020
    BecomingBecker ·

    NOPE, I used to be guilty of this with my ex...with good reason though, I had stupidly stayed with him after finding him talking to other girls, and never did trust him again (yet again with good reason lol finally left him after find him cheating, again).

    FH and I have given each other no reason not to trust each other and neither of us go through the others phones.

  • Nemo
    VIP August 2018
    Nemo ·

    Literally never ever ever. I trust him and I don't need to look through his phone.

  • Jazmin
    Rockstar April 2019
    Jazmin ·

    Never and I don't think I'll ever do that.

  • S
    Devoted May 2019
    Sarah ·
    We use each others phones, nothing to hide, no reason to search
  • Arkilia
    Super October 2020
    Arkilia ·
    Nope, I trust him and has never given me reason to think other wise...
  • Kenisha
    Champion June 2019
    Kenisha ·
    NEVER! If I have to do that then we shouldn’t be getting married. My phone 📲 is unlocked so he could go through it if he wanted to / he gave me his passcode so I could if I wanted to.
  • Becca
    Super August 2019
    Becca ·
    Nope! I have absolutely no reason to not trust him and I’ve given him no reason to not trust me
  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
    Lynnie ·

    Never! I can't even remember his password even though he's told me a million times!

  • MrsV1027
    Master October 2018
    MrsV1027 ·

    Nope. I have no reason to. I did when I was married to my ex but I was hoping to find out he was cheating so I'd have a solid reason to leave him lol

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