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Do you ever creep through your fiancé(e)'s phone?

Rebecca, on December 18, 2018 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Family and Relationships 122

You borrow your fiancé(e)'s phone to do a quick Google search and the next thing you know your six months deep into his/her Snapchat history. Do you ever snoop through your fiancé(e)'s phone? Never, always, or sometimes? Thanks for dishing on all of your relationship habits! If you missed any of the...

You borrow your fiancé(e)'s phone to do a quick Google search and the next thing you know your six months deep into his/her Snapchat history. Do you ever snoop through your fiancé(e)'s phone? Never, always, or sometimes?


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Thanks for dishing on all of your relationship habits! If you missed any of the questions you can start from the beginning here: Never, Always, or Sometimes?

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122 Comments

  • Stephanie
    Super August 2019
    Stephanie ·
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    Not usually, but as PP said sometimes I accidentally do because I forget it’s not my phone and start scrolling or checking messages because our phones are the same and I don’t catch it for a second! It happens 🤷🏻‍♀️
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  • Daria
    VIP January 2019
    Daria ·
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    Well most of his personal conversations are in another language so I couldn't even if I wanted to, and it's mostly to his family anyway. He uses his phone for a business that we are both involved in though, and so I often send texts for him, or read them to him if he's driving. I will say I sometimes "scroll up" through the messages but more because he forgets to write down the appts he makes. I've caught what would have been very embarrassing mistakes for him so he's good with that, lol. He knows and he doesn't care, nor has he ever asked about my phone.

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  • maryann
    Expert June 2019
    maryann ·
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    We have each others passwords to the phones and all accounts, but I have gone through his phone before, and no it wasn't all about trust. I AM NOSEY and he knows it. But we have nothing to hide. He answers my phone, I answer his. he responds to text messages for me if I am busy and I do the same for him. I don't believe that everyone that looks in their spouses phone is doing it for cheating purposes some of us are just nosey.....

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  • Lay Lay
    Just Said Yes May 2019
    Lay Lay ·
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    Never i feel there's no need for that
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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    It's so easy to do this! I've even done it with random people at parties Smiley xd

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  • Kelly
    Just Said Yes April 2019
    Kelly ·
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    I don't really creep through his phone. If my phone is dead I'll grab his phone and start scrolling through his Facebook just out of boredom. I think my habit is just the thumb swiping.
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  • Terra
    Expert September 2020
    Terra ·
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    Once upon a time. We've been together since we were kids so we went through all the toxic kid crap, checking each other's phones/social media. Not a thing now, though. It's kinda funny that now that we know each other's passwords for everything, we don't ever use them, lol.
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  • J
    Beginner June 2019
    Jessica ·
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    Sometimes. I try not to, but sometimes I can't help myself.

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  • Faith
    Savvy November 2019
    Faith ·
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    Never, because I know that he would freely let me. He’d freely let me because he’d never have anything to hide that weren’t some type of surprise for me. Our trust is super strong. Every now and then I like to scroll through his Facebook though because he always seems to have a funnier feed than I do. And he’s always right there too.
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  • R
    Beginner September 2019
    Rita ·
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    No, I never do. It's hard not to, though. My only other serious relationship I was cheated on, and after we decided to stay together I found out he was still talking to other girls but had changed the names in his phone to guys' names so I wouldn't know. This relationship had a foundation of trust that he's given me no reason to question, though. Smiley smile

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  • Katelyn
    Expert October 2020
    Katelyn ·
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    No, I trust him. Unless he asks me to use his phone for something I don’t touch it
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  • Laura
    Master October 2019
    Laura ·
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    I can if I want too, he tells me to. I mainly look if he asks me to find something for him in it. I trust him and he trusts me. We used to have identical phones, and he accidentally took mine instead of his to work and I didn't care. he could have looked at any time.

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  • T
    Dedicated October 2019
    Tracy ·
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    Not at all.
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  • Maggie
    Champion October 2025
    Maggie ·
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    Does playing with the OK Google function on his phone count? I just like saying, "Okay, Google" and then asking a silly question. So sometimes?

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  • Tamara
    VIP August 2019
    Tamara ·
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    Never! If you don't have trust, you have nothing.

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  • Syriah
    Just Said Yes June 2019
    Syriah ·
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    No because I trust him and he always talks to me about who text him or calls. On top of that he doesn’t have FB we share my FB🥰
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  • K
    Just Said Yes March 2020
    Kayleigh ·
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    No but we use each other's phones a lot. Once I was on his phone and called him a cheater and he got so confused...I had pulled up Google and saw he had googled "words with Friends cheats" haha
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  • Patrina
    Savvy November 2020
    Patrina ·
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    Never!! We trust each other too much to do something like that.

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  • Erika
    Expert April 2019
    Erika ·
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    Yes I do sometimes.

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  • Gonnabeaburch
    Super July 2019
    Gonnabeaburch ·
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    No need. We know each other's passwords, use each other's phones, and are open about what is on there. There is no need to go snooping.
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