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Do you ever creep through your fiancé(e)'s phone?

Rebecca, on December 18, 2018 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Family and Relationships 122

You borrow your fiancé(e)'s phone to do a quick Google search and the next thing you know your six months deep into his/her Snapchat history. Do you ever snoop through your fiancé(e)'s phone? Never, always, or sometimes? Thanks for dishing on all of your relationship habits! If you missed any of the...

You borrow your fiancé(e)'s phone to do a quick Google search and the next thing you know your six months deep into his/her Snapchat history. Do you ever snoop through your fiancé(e)'s phone? Never, always, or sometimes?


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122 Comments

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    Master 0000
    Judith ·
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    I respect his privacy, and he respects mine. Never.
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  • S
    Savvy July 2020
    Stephanie ·
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    Nope, the only time i am on his phone is when i ask if i can google something because i'm to lazy to go and get my own or to look through pictures (usually from a holiday). We both respect each others privacy, i don't even know his password.

    He also respects my phone, especially since i have asked him not to look at my photos unless i show him specific ones as i have pictures of me in wedding dresses on my phone now Smiley smile

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  • Megan
    Beginner November 2019
    Megan ·
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    Never, I have no reason to snoop. I know I would feel disrespected if he went through my phone.
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  • mrsanda
    VIP March 2017
    mrsanda ·
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    Never. We occasionally need to use each others phone like my internet or his phone for photos. And I send texts for him and he does for me. No trust issues at all.
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    Expert August 2019
    Ami ·
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    Never ever ever....this was huge for me, it’s a big trust exercise. We both know each other’s passwords and sometimes I’ll gran his phone to google something or he’ll tell me to respond to a text on his phone while he’s busy...but those are very different from actually looking through his phone. I had an ex that constantly wanting to look at my texts and Facebook messages because he trust me, it was a huge issue in our relationship, I felt like I was constantly being assessed and judged even though I did nothing wrong. So I vowed to never do that to FH. I’d have no problem with him seeing what goes on in my phone but we have an awesome relationship where neither one of us feels the need to do this.
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    Dedicated June 2019
    Nikki ·
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    I've never gone through my FH phone without him knowing about it. I have no reason to. I have a lock on my phone but that was automatically put on by my Google & Samsung Pays, but he has the password to get in and he knows why it's on there. This is the ONLY man that I have EVER truly trusted.
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  • April
    Beginner November 2019
    April ·
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    I used to! I used to have that trust issue thing going but haven't in a couple of months. There's no need to
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  • Teresa
    Beginner June 2019
    Teresa ·
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    Honestly it has never occured to me to do so. And he has never looked through mine that i know bnb of. Wouldnt make a difference if he did though. I have nothing to hide
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    Beginner December 2020
    Venezia ·
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    Never, I dont wanna know. I trust him.
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  • Anabanana
    Savvy October 2019
    Anabanana ·
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    Never, he has my thumb print in his phone and has said he trusts me and I can go on it whenever. I usually just go on to take pictures because he has a better camera... then I send it to myself. Haha that's the extent to which that goes. But he usually shares what he's doing on his phone if he's with me.
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  • Danielle K
    VIP June 2019
    Danielle K ·
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    NEVER. Unlike everyother relationship I have been in, he has never given me a reason to feel like I should. I trust him completely.

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  • Alejandra
    Super March 2019
    Alejandra ·
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    No need to, thankful for that. My ex would take my phone when I was sleeping to go through it, so annoying. My FH always gives me his phone to do stuff and well I don't even lock mine, what for? I hate having to unlock it every time I need to use it.

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    Beginner May 2020
    Emma ·
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    Sometimes but not to creep or because I think he’s hiding something. Sometimes I just grab his phone to do whatever, he does the same with my phone.
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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    That's awesome that you two trust each other so much!!

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    Beginner May 2020
    Emma ·
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    I feel very fortunate to have him. We’ve both been in some bad relationships where trust was broken so we both value trust very much.
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  • JustKidding
    VIP April 2018
    JustKidding ·
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    No. I don't have a need to, he also has to have it password locked due to the nature of his job.

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  • Jennifer
    Beginner August 2019
    Jennifer ·
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    Nope. We don't hide our phones and both know each others passwords but we don't snoop. I respect his privacy and he does mine.

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    Beginner September 2020
    Amber ·
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    I used to a lot. Before being engaged he would brag about how many girls texted him and I wanted to make sure he wasn't answering. I don't regret it, and I'll do it again if he gives me a reason.
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    Beginner August 2020
    Jordan ·
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    I’ve never had the need or urge to do it.
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  • Margaret
    Dedicated December 2019
    Margaret ·
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    Never.

    And I know his passcode and everything, but still, nope. I love him, I trust him, and I respect his right to privacy.

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