Bachelor party limits

I know there are going to be strippers, it's fine ... as long as he doesn't touch them I don't care... at the end of the day, he loves me and I love him and I KNOW he won't be going home with any stripper he will be coming home to me to take care of lol

I didn't [have to] say anything because DH knows how I feel & respects that. He wouldn't do something he knew I didn't like &/or affected our relationship, so why would it be fine that one day?!

DH & bunch of his guys went golfing, to dinner, had some drinks, then to the casino, had some more drinks, & then crashed there at the hotel. They all thoroughly enjoyed themselves from what I hear haha & nobody did anything to hurt or bother anyone else ;].

I am A-okay with strip clubs you know what I sometimes find them fun to go to, BUT under NO circumstances in any girl to do anything to you that we do behind closed doors. FH understands this and honestly isn't the kind of guy to go all crazy at the strip club anyways. To be honest all of FH's friends are terrified of me and what I would do if they did something dirty so I am pretty sure they will be going to the casino.

No limits...he's a big boy now and he can make his own choices =) i totally trust him and have no fears regarding a bachelor party! I really don't think we are having bachelor or bachelorette parties but it's all good if it happens

I'm with Amy V. and Pan, they said it all.

I absolutly do not approve of FH going to a stip club and he knows that. I just dont get wasting money and paying girls to take their clothes off. Their is plenty of other descent ways to get money. Strip clubs are for single guys and not the ones in a commited relationship that are getting ready to be married. FH tells me "We dont go to look at the girls we go to have a beer with our guy friends" well what the hell do you think a BAR is for.

Quite honestly I think my FH bachelor party is going to be a LAN party at his brother's house. Probably some serious drinking and nerding it up but nothing different than any other get together with the guys LMAO mine will probably be very similar honestly - watching girly movies with my girls, some wine or Ritas something like that - We're so boring.

No stripper is our limit

I basically have the rule of "no contact".. I'm not wild about the idea of FH going to a strip club, and he's not the type to go anyways. He's only been once before. But I do realize that it's sort the "thing" to do and if that's what his guys arrange for him then I just say no touching.. meaning no lap dances basically or touching to put money in a gstring or something.. Yuck. Though I highly doubt this will even be an issue since they will probably get drunk, order pizza, and play computer/video games.. or FH's wishes are to go play laser tag, arcade games, and go carts! lol and that's why I love him!

My FH thinks strippers are a waste of money so I doubt he will be going. My only requests (I'm not his mom) were nothing illegal and have it at least two nights before the wedding, I want them fresh for pictures. He's about as far from a partier as they get and we've all talked about a co-ed shower, think paint ball and a party bus.

I don't care if my DH does the stripper thing. I'm his wife, not his mama.

I totally trust FH, and he would never even be able to get up the nerve to walk into a strip club, let alone sit down and watch other girls dance on a pole, lol.

Even so, I told him one time, "If you have strippers, so will I." He reassured me that since 5 of his 7 groomsmen are in committed committed relationships or married, there definitely wouldn't be anything more than some bar-hopping.

I guess I find this topic funny, because it's something I wouldn't even expect FH to ever be involved in. I truly believe he wouldn't even attend someone else's bachelor party if he heard there were going to be strippers.

Oh Amy I feel the same way! I much rather he only see my boobies, but I know it will happen weather or not I'm ok with it or not... his friends are that type of way. As long as he doesn't touch and they aren't "dancing" in his face so he is as Little Big Town puts it motorboating then I'm alright with it.

And I've never actually been near strippers so my thought process could be totally wrong lol.

Not sure - FH's good friend who will be a GM is a little crazy. lol. But I pretty much picture them hanging out at one of their houses playing cards and drinking all night.

Whenever the subject comes up, I jokingly tell him that he can't go to Las Vegas or Bangkok because that's where the Hangover movies take place. (I don't think the guys would be able to manage a big trip like that anyway.) He usually responds by telling me I need to have a stripper at my bachelorette party because he knows my friends and I are planning on having a very tame party. lol

In reality, our only rule is that neither party can't be right before the wedding because that would just make it a bit too hectic. I trust my fiance and his best man, who is one of my best friends too, so I know they won't do anything I wouldn't approve of. And of course, he trusts me and my friends too.

I do! I said no private stripper! Strip clubs? Fine. Drinking? Fine. I just don't want a private stripper to be hired, they are trashy, and I once read this article about how they often go further than just stripping... at least I know that won't happen in a strip club!

FH can do what he wants... but I know he's not crazy and that he has his own limits (that he set for himself).

I trust him in that respect.

DH didn't want a bachelor party. His guys planned one anyways. He didn't want to go to the strippers, and has bailed on friends bachelor parties when they go to one.

That said there wern't any limits. I wouldn't have been pissed if they did go, and I wounld't marry the kind of guy who heads to the strippers at lunch with the guys or every Friday or anything. that's sleaze but I see no problem with strippers for bachelor parties.

I didn't want to go for mine, but my best friend MOH did (she's had wanted this since her bachelor party and I sucked and brought her to one that had closed a month before so she didn't get one) so she had one come to the house. He only got down to his red thong but it was HILARIOUS and we had a great time.

I see nothing wrong with strippers, but perhaps that's cause DH doesn't like them? If he was all about them maybe I'd feel different.

We didn't have limits set and DH's groomsmen have all been pretty good friends with me for years (DH & I had mutual friends when we started dating) so they all respect me enough not to let something stupid happen. They took him to one of our favorite bars, got him wasted then took him to a popular bar/strip club and even paid for him to be brought up on stage. I didn't care because DH was so wasted he barely remembers anything and my dad & FIL even went! DH had a blast & I am glad he had fun

Jessica L, your post could have been mine! we had a joking "rule" too! no penetration! there's really no way around it, haha. but really, i know we didn't need it.

my husband went to montreal. they golfed, got wasted, went to a casino and some strip clubs. he came back in one piece and had fun. he really doesn't like strip clubs, but he was peer pressured by his brother.