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Greyash
Master March 2011

Are you doing this on your wedding night?

Greyash, on August 17, 2010 at 7:06 PM Posted in Planning 0 114

This may be kind of personal, but I happened across an article asking if brides and their new husbands would skip, uh...certain activities on their wedding night. Well that brought up a good point I guess. I mean if you're running around all day and dancing all night I would be exhausted. Then I brought this up to my friends and some who are married said they skipped it and did IT the next morning. They had room service and took bubble baths, relaxed. Thankfully my wedding is in the morning so hopefully we wont be too tired Smiley winking. What do you think? Are you planning on waiting until the next day, or are you doing it no matter how tired you are?

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Latest activity by Abryanna , on August 18, 2010 at 11:37 PM
  • JulyBride
    Master July 2009
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    We almost skipped it. At the end of the day we were pretty tired, but after an hour sitting on the couch and a quick shower we were more or less awake.

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  • CKJL5410
    Master May 2012
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    Haha this question makes me laugh for some reason. I would like to think we will do IT... but who knows how tired we will be!

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  • Analy aka T-waffle
    Master October 2009
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    We were EXHAUSTED. Like, past tired, straight to falling down. Still excited, happy all of that, but exhausted. We shared like a 2 hour bubble bath in our room's jacuzzi tub, talking about the day, sipping champagne, and passed OUT. lol

    Saved it for the honeymoon!

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  • Danielle
    VIP November 2010
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    Eh, if we're too tired, we're too tired. But we've often had nights where we're exhausted (we have two kids, run a business, both have full time jobs, etc), and we've still done it anyhow. I figure we'll wait and see on that night.

    But if I remember, this is your's and FH's first time, right? If that were my situation, I'd definitely wait until the morning- yes, it would be special for your wedding night, but if you are exhausted it won't be any good and thats not how you want to start off!!

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  • Mrs. Kline (Sass)
    Master December 2010
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    I am 99% sure we will. I am never to tired for "it" and fh is rarely, especially if I am in the mood bc there are a few things that I can do that will work no matter how tired he was before. Smiley winking

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  • Greyash
    Master March 2011
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    Hahaha, Analy, I feel like by the end of the day we'll be like that too. Hopefully not.

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  • M
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    We'll see how tired we are ;-)

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  • Sharon
    Master June 2010
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    I honestly wanted to wait until the next morning, we were exhausted, Rick was ..well..drunk..lol. So I climbed into bed thinking, ok sleepy time. He got is 4th wind and we did. He was so freakin impresssed with himself the next day "I'm 52, I was drunk and I *still* did it". Whatever....lol. Do what you want, I swear to god if you don't have sex until the next morning it's not the end of the world!!1

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  • Analy aka T-waffle
    Master October 2009
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    Well, I should also mention that it was an evening wedding, and we didn't wrap up until about 12:30a. That was after getting up super early to hand make the lumpia for our cocktail hour. So....ya. lol

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  • Denee aka Now a Mrs
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    Man,we have 3 kids and if he needs it now he has to initiate it if I'm tired-and let me know he actually NEEDS it! lol.I've had two kids in the last 2 years and I'm tired.

    Well get it in (lol,no pun intended!) that night,but the all day/night will have to wait for the honeymoon!

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  • Sharon
    Master June 2010
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    Analy - my sis did the same thing, chilled in the hottub in their room and passed out, however, they were VERY late for breakfast..hehe

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  • Sweetbella
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    We won;t be doing any of that UNTIL honeymoon because we have to catch a red eye flight to FL to get on a cruise for honeymoon. But hey it is okay with me to make love first time as a married couple on the ship :-)

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  • cuteangelfan
    Super April 2010
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    We werent going to have sex until the morning, but after a bath and getting into bed...I just had to, we havent had sex in two weeks, so I was horny lol.

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  • Sharon
    Master June 2010
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    I'm weird, I much prefer sober, morning sex. Guess that's why I never had a one night stand Smiley smile

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  • Analy aka T-waffle
    Master October 2009
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    Ditto sharon Smiley winking And ya, it was more of a "brunch".

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  • Sharon
    Master June 2010
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    No shit Analy, we were sitting there tapping our fingers on the table..where the HELL are they??? lol

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  • Sweetbella
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    Wow sharon how can you like morning sex with bad breath and bad hair? LOL I do know that men are the most hornier at mornings through.

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  • S
    Master February 2011
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    We have an evening wedding but we are planning on that night. I'm a little worried about Steve and his flight buddies though. I told him the night before he could do whatever he wanted as long as he shows up to the altar... Wedding night is all us! (we're having a super bowl party the next day so I'm hoping we'll actually both be present for that!)

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  • Mrs. Kline (Sass)
    Master December 2010
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    @Sweetbella-Lol I love morning sex... I mean I don't dislike midday or night sex but what better way to start the day than "it".

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  • Sharon
    Master June 2010
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    I LOVE morning sex... at night, especially if you've been out, probably one of you has been drinking, its so much more intimate in the morning. If his breath is that bad, make him brush his teeth! lol

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