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Greyash
Master March 2011

Are you doing this on your wedding night?

Greyash, on August 17, 2010 at 7:06 PM

Posted in Planning 114

This may be kind of personal, but I happened across an article asking if brides and their new husbands would skip, uh...certain activities on their wedding night. Well that brought up a good point I guess. I mean if you're running around all day and dancing all night I would be exhausted. Then I...

This may be kind of personal, but I happened across an article asking if brides and their new husbands would skip, uh...certain activities on their wedding night. Well that brought up a good point I guess. I mean if you're running around all day and dancing all night I would be exhausted. Then I brought this up to my friends and some who are married said they skipped it and did IT the next morning. They had room service and took bubble baths, relaxed. Thankfully my wedding is in the morning so hopefully we wont be too tired Smiley winking. What do you think? Are you planning on waiting until the next day, or are you doing it no matter how tired you are?

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  • Kiera
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    Kiera ·
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    Mango juice?

    I hate morning sex. Am I the only one? Mid-day and night I'm goooood with. But first thing in the morning, I gotta pee and then brush my teeth...then I catch myself in the mirror and its a no go.

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  • Shannon S.
    Master March 2011
    Shannon S. ·
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    I'm a grump in the mornings. Totally, totally grumpy. Like, "Fine, do what you want, just don't wake me up!" Give me a cup of coffee and some time to adjust to being awake, and I'm ready to go.

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  • Katebonnykate
    Super August 2011
    Katebonnykate ·
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    I read a statistic that said over half of couples don't. Then I told my FH about that study and he said we are definitely doing the deed on our wedding night. Particularly since we are planning on abstaining for at least a few months before-hand... our priest said some things about the spirit of sacrifice going into a marriage that made a lot of sense to us.

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  • Miya
    Master December 2011
    Miya ·
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    LOL Fins! It's okay. I have guy friends who pronounce my nickname as if it were spelled "Maya". Smiley tongue Anyway, I heard the same about pineapple juice doing the same trick.

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  • W
    Master June 2010
    wowjunkie ·
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    We managed to get a second wind, and let's just say it was worth the extra hour of having to stay awake.

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  • The Potters
    Master September 2009
    The Potters ·
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    We were exhausted but definitely had our wedding night sex!

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  • Leah
    Expert November 2010
    Leah ·
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    My wedding night will be the first time I ever have sex. So Im hoping im not too tired. But just the thought makes me nervous a little

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  • jlam
    Master August 2011
    jlam ·
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    We are having an outdoor reception so we have to end it at 10pm (noise ordinances) so hopefully we won't be too tired. We've talked about this several times and we are DEFINITELY getting our wedding night sex...and morning sex....and everyday on our honeymoon sex. Our wedding and honeymoon will only happen once...and we are paying a ton of money for both. We gotta have all the fun we can!! Smiley smile

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  • Beth
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    Beth ·
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    We definitely will be doing so the night of the wedding because it will be the first time for both of us. And we don't leave for our honeymoon until monday, so we can sleep in as late as we need to on sunday!

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  • L
    Master March 2011
    LutaWolf ·
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    I'm not worried about it either way lol that sounds bad but you know I'd rather it be natural than us both forcing ourselves when we are dead tired because of tradition.

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  • Mrs. Yady
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    Mrs. Yady ·
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    Well, by our wedding date we will be 6 month w/out "it" so more than likely we are doing it.. besides, our reception will be a lunch only and no dancing or anything else so we should not be exhausted.

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  • S
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    STB Mrs Van Blargan ·
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    It really depends on how we are both feeling, but we have a son, so we cant do it in the morning ethier way.

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  • Devin
    Devoted April 2011
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    @sharon - i can see the bleachy aspect of it. it does smell odd. kk is such a good little fiance! swallowing and all. i only do it if i am feeling real nice. the texture just doesn't do it for me

    as for wedding night sex, who knows! i am not planning it one way or the other. it will probably happen but if not, i won't be too mad at it

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  • Michelle628 is now a Mrs!
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    Michelle628 is now a Mrs! ·
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    @Analy and Sharon...you have me rolling here!!! And Sharon......I agree, there is a "bleachy" smell!

    On the subject though...we were both exhausted and had an after party and people didn't leave til 3:30am so we waited til the honeymoon. And it was so worth it!

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  • Mrs. Jacques
    Master July 2010
    Mrs. Jacques ·
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    Too funny!!! Yes we did our wedding night AND the next morning, noon and night- the whole honeymoon Smiley laugh

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  • Mrs. Brown!!!!
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    Mrs. Brown!!!! ·
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    LOL. We were too friggin tired. We immediately passed out but he woke me up at 600 am poking me! :-)

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  • Sweetbella
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    LOL I was wondering about retainer as well! I wear them every night and I wonder if I should wear them during sex which would be weird lol. I am very new to do this with my FS, he is first man who have seen me with no make up and first man to share a bed with. I thought he was smoking crack when he said I am so beautiful when I was in grandmas pj with my hair all up with no make up lol.

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  • Meghan
    Master August 2011
    Meghan ·
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    I plan on getting me some lovin' for sure!

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  • S
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    SuchaDiva ·
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    Haven't reall thought about. Since we have been doing IT togethor since we were 15. We will prob end up waiting until the next Morning. Onl because our reception prob wont be over until late. It reall depends on how wasted I am.

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  • lisa
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    Most likely we will =)

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