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My wedding is in one month. My Fiancé’s brother is his best man. He was married and recently got divorced in January. We can’t really afford to give everyone a plus one so when we originally were...

Is there anything you have seen or read about online, whether it’s the forum here or elsewhere that appears to common but is not a thing that you have actually seen in person? For example, in our...

Has anyone totally skipped the rehearsal dinner and just hosted a welcome party instead? A lot of our guests, including my fiancee's family members, are traveling across the country for our wedding in...

Hi , So I am still in shock with this situation and I need some advice on how to deal with it. My cousin is coming to my wedding from another country. I asked her to be one of my bridesmaids. We grew...

Wondering if it's tacky to have a cash bar at the rehearsal dinner? (our wedding is an open bar) I'm giving FH's parents the option to host if they would like, as they keep stating they would like to...

If I knew my wedding was going to turn out the way it did I would have eloped. First my planner sucked she dragged out everything and most people left before the dancing began , my fiancé didn’t know...

If you are giving gifts to wedding party/parents at the RD, are people opening them there in front of everyone? Or will they open them when they get home? Just trying to envision how it's typically...

My wedding party have specific colors. Is it rude if I ask guests not to wear those colors?

Most dresses have trains unless they are custom made without one. Following the ceremony they are nearly always bustled so that you and guests do not trip over it. There are also the wrist loops but...

So me and my SO are having just beer, wine and non alcoholic drinks at our wedding ( we just aren’t really big drinkers so we feel some alcohol is better then none and plus we are already spending so...

My venue charges $17-$20 pp for 3 appetizers, and $11 pp for a cheese/cracker/fruit display. Is it necessary to have both? Will guests be pissed if there’s not both and will it be...

TLDR; What quantities should we get of fruits, veggies, cheeses, and crackers for a 3:00-4:30 pm cocktail hour with dinner served right after at 4:45 pm. A couple at our church used to cater weddings...

This is my second marriage, and I remember wedding planning being stressful last time but not this stressful. Particularly I’ve had huge struggles finding a venue and their staff are some of the...

Hi. My FH and I scheduled a courthouse ceremony at the end of April. Originally, we planned to only invite two people as witnesses (his youngest sister and my mother). I didn't think it was necessary...

Has anyone put small, plastic liquor bottles in a pinata? I'm thinking of having a pinata at the reception and want to stuff it with booze but I'm worried about them breaking!

What’s the first music your cocktail hour is going to start? To have a reason to be choosing that song? Just curious, doing my playlist right now for the DJ

I feel like my head is going to explode literally, so stressful to find a destination wedding venue. I’ve seen a ton of pictures of different resorts/venue but most of them don’t even reply. They take...

We are doing a small wedding in my backyard(just immediate family). So i am making or buying all the food instead of using a catering service. I know I am planning on doing pinwheels, sliders, and...