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Upgrade chairs or use the free/venue chairs?
Alex, on May 8, 2024 at 6:01 PM

Hello, I'm getting married in a beautiful Spanish-style courtyard. The venue comes with free chairs but I hate the look of them, they look very corporate with the grey color. See pics below. I'm...

Michelle, Yesterday at 4:31 PM 11
Alyssa
Changing my last name
Alyssa, on September 2, 2023 at 10:30 PM

Is it wrong to not change my last name, because I’m too lazy to fill out all the paper work? I want to change my last name, but I don’t wanna put in the work to change every single thing of mine. I’m...

Go Top, Mar 19, 2024 9 1
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Home improvement fund
Samantha, on June 6, 2023 at 4:52 PM

What are ways you were able to create a home improvement fund without a website taking a percentage of the amount given?

Justine, Mar 4, 2024 8
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Not Having a Videographer
Brittany, on June 7, 2023 at 9:16 PM

Starting a discussion to get thoughts on my situation that I just can't seem to let go! Anyways, I began planning my wedding having all intentions of getting a videographer - I love photos and videos,...

Brittany, Jul 11, 2023 17
Alana
Big chest, spaghetti straps and tight fit = stuffed sausage? Help :(
Alana, on June 15, 2023 at 3:50 AM

Hi everyone! Today I went to my the alterations check before the wedding and I left really down. Once the dress started fitting tighter, all I could see was my chest. The dress has boning and very...

MOB So Cal, Jun 24, 2023 9
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Family drama? that may or may not happen
Ashley, on June 19, 2023 at 1:25 PM

My mother and stepmother do not get along. My father doesn't think it would be a good idea for them to be seated at the same table for the reception. So am I, just supposed to throw them on to a table...

CM, Jun 24, 2023 9
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Flower Girls' Families at Rehearsal Dinner
HaleyNicoleVA, on May 12, 2023 at 11:06 AM

My fiance and I are getting married here at the end of the month. We have just about everything coordinated minus picking out entrance music for the party and any other loose ends I'm forgetting off...

Courtney, May 15, 2023 9 1
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Yay or nay performance for guests?
C Ko, on May 12, 2023 at 9:26 PM

I am very curious why these days a lot of wedding have this performance like aspect to them. Brides and grooms feel the need to put on dance/musical performances to entertain the crowd. Then, it...

C Ko, Jun 13, 2023 14
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Round mirror centerpiece for a 72 inch round table
Alexis, on April 19, 2023 at 11:17 AM

I need help figuring out what size round mirror works for a 72 inch round table for my wedding

MOB So Cal, Apr 22, 2023 2
Robyn
How much did your wedding dress alterations cost (was quoted 1150)?
Robyn, on April 21, 2023 at 12:10 AM

I originally got a dress from David's Bridal last year and alterations were about $300 for adding cups, shortening the hem, and adding a bustle. However I was diagnosed with breast cancer...

Lisa, May 11, 2023 6 2
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My boyfriend is in a wedding and I'm dreading attending for various reasons
Kate, on April 21, 2023 at 3:20 PM

I've been with my boyfriend for five years now. In 2019, he was in three weddings one as a best man and two as a groomsman. Several friends of his got engaged prior to covid but delayed their weddings...

Cece, Apr 23, 2023 11
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Invitation Weight and Postage?
Taylor, on April 19, 2023 at 3:59 PM

I'm sure we are all well aware that stamps are getting more and more expensive these days (just like most things) but it is often times something people forget to budget for. I have considered the...

Taylor, Apr 19, 2023 4
Davis
Honeymoon Fund
Davis, on December 27, 2022 at 1:15 AM

Hello! Looks like honeyfund is most popular and seems they all charge fees. Anyone know of a different way to receive money that circumvents fees? I'm thinking banks or paypal or something that...

Davis, Jan 2, 2023 12
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Table numbers
Rachd, on November 15, 2022 at 1:37 PM

Is anyone NOT doing table numbers and a seating chart? We are having a small-ish ceremony/reception, around 55-65 people, all of which will be family and close friends so other than having 2 tables...

Paige, Nov 22, 2022 8 1
Lauren
Santa Barbara or Paso Robles
Lauren, on October 21, 2022 at 5:46 PM

Hi there! Just curious if there are any brides who have done or considered a June wedding in Paso Robles CA? I am wondering what your thoughts were as far as weather and if it was too hot. We are...

MOB So Cal, Oct 24, 2022 5
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Invitation timeline around holidays
Elycia, on October 20, 2022 at 4:32 PM

My wedding is March 4th, 2023 and I am wondering when to send out my invitations with the normal timeline being so close to holiday season. I feel like before Thanksgiving is too early, but also after...

MOB So Cal, Oct 21, 2022 3
Janice
Mother of the bride
Janice, on October 15, 2022 at 9:04 PM

Any tips? Opinions about vendors, etc? Things you would do differently.

Michelle, Dec 30, 2022 3 1
Lisa
Feel like canceling the entire thing
Lisa, on October 17, 2022 at 12:17 AM

Not to ruin anyone's joyous occasion but I have been to 3 bridal shows now and all of it is extremely overwhelming. I have a lot on my plate taking care of an elderly father with dementia and a mother...

Michael, Oct 20, 2022 20
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What to do with moh
Kristian, on September 17, 2022 at 6:33 PM

I chose my childhood best friend to be my MOH and she happily accepted. Fast forward to now, she hasn’t been involved in a lot of our conversations with the rest of the bridesmaids. She’s in nursing...

MOB So Cal, Sep 19, 2022 22
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Getting ready
Nicole, on September 18, 2022 at 1:45 PM

My parents are paying for all the bridesmaids, my fiancés mother, my mother, my moms mother and my dads mother hair and makeup to be done for the morning of. However, my fiancé doesn’t care if his...

Nicole, Sep 19, 2022 8
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