Discussions I've participated in

We are invited to a 12-3 reception the day after a private intimate ceremony we are not invited to. We have to travel to this reception which is a drink and appetizers event. How much to give as a...

Why are there so many ridiculous ads on these forums? What do gummies have to do with wedding planning?

So are you doing a nice, unrehearsed first dance .... or do you plan on wowing your guests with a choreographed piece? (We are old farts, so it's the plain old box step for us. 😄

We are having a causal wedding and I’d love ice cream cake. It’s just the best in my opinion. Now, if you have setup time for the cake and leave it out for a long while that’s not the most practical,...

I wish there was a poll function on Wedding Wire, but as a wedding guest, do you prefer a plated dinner or a buffet dinner? Is this something that matters a lot to you as a guest?

As a guest, do you prefer assigned seating or self seating at a wedding reception?

I have 2 children in their early 30s. My son has been married previously but now has a new partner and they have a one year old. My daughter has been with her partner for 4 years and has been planning...

Hi! I’m starting to plan my shower and had a few questions. My FMIL and FSIL (also bridesmaid) both live out of state. Are they expected to come? They could potentially drive (12 hour drive)… but...

Does anyone have an idea of the next 50% off sale at zazzle?

The very last song that my fiance and I need to decide on for our DJ is our last dance song! What are you playing for the last song of the evening?

We are having a singer that will also dj at the wedding. How much should he be tipped?

I went with my daughter to find a wedding gown and had a great experience. She found the perfect dress. She went to pay for it and the screen came up asking what % tip she wanted to leave. There was...

Hello! I'm currently debating if I should purchase candles due to costs and saving money. Candles can be expensive, but I also don't want to regret not getting them (as they can create such beautiful...

Where are my Northeast winter brides (past & present) at?! I’m planning on getting married January 2023 in NH and am just curious how your wedding went? Obviously our winters in New England are...

I am trying to pick a garter toss song. I think I found one, its hip hop. But i was wondering: the garter removal and garter toss is just that right, like literally remove the garter and toss it? my...

I thought I'd run this etiquette-ish question by the community to see what the thoughts are on this! We've invited my 4-year-old nephew to be the ringbearer at the wedding. We got him a little book...

Hi everyone! We are looking to book our honeymoon and after reading tons of your comments on other posts, I am starting to lean away from going to Sandals. I always thought of Sandals as a dorky -"I...

Today is my 1st meeting with my bridesmaids. I am taking them out to a nice deli my treat #HealthieEating, and I have reserved one side just for us. #SocialDistancing. I have little pamplets put...