I have 2 children in their early 30s. My son has been married previously but now has a new partner and they have a one year old. My daughter has been with her partner for 4 years and has been planning her wedding for almost 2 years. My son is planning on a quiet elopement and his sister went crazy that he was planning to get married before her. He does not want to take attention away from his sister’s large wedding and is planning a party several months from now, after her wedding. My daughter is furious that he is getting married before her and is angry at me for dismissing her feelings. Can someone please tell me if there is an issue here or is my daughter being a bridezilla? I’m confused as to why she is angry,especially at me.