Discussions I've participated in

There has been some conflicts and tension amongst some of the bridesmaids I have selected. I too feel disappointment for the same bridesmaid the other BMs have “issues” with. I am conflicted on if I...

So my FH finally decided he wants to get married - he’s the kind of guy who just never saw the point in it. We’ve been together for almost 10 years and I’m beyond excited… and he’s getting pretty...

Unpopular opinion, but what if I cancel the reception and just have the ceremony. 1. I am allowed to be selfish and have my wedding the way that best suits my finances 2. I can save and have an...

Okay, so I had a location booked with a private room that's closer to a more happening part of town in my city. My FMIL mentioned that she's personally worried about parking. I figured that I'd look...

I'm helping to plan my sisters wedding. There's a predicament. The invite list is about 70 people long and it's technically a "destination wedding" because it's in the town she just moved to (a 17...

I got married to the love of my life a week ago and hated the whole day. It's like everything I did not have direct control of went horribly wrong. And if one more person says "all that matters is you...

I’m a little salty over my sister in law’s plans for our destination wedding. For context, we originally planned to elope alone out of the country. Then our parents expressed interested in being...

So to start off, I'm poor. My partner and I both work full time, but we have 4 children and live in a semi-expensive area to begin with. So no matter how much I get creative with our budget or...

My fiance of 6 years has one daughter that is getting married next year. Due to my never having been in this situation, I have asked her what she'd prefer I wear (specifically requesting what she was...

My mother isn't showing any interest in being involved in my wedding planning. It is really starting to get to me as this is supposed to be a time when mothers and daughters bond. I continue to try to...

Cost is relatively the same but I am trying to decide between 2 different venues. One is closer to my town and family and vendors I am using and one would be an hour away. The venue that’s closest is...

I’m new to all of this but I’m planning my wedding in 2024 and gives me time to pick a ice spot and decide on who to be my bridesmaids but I’m stuck on where to have it and where at! Looked at 2 so...

I wanna start this with saying I’m very nervous about posting this on here, so please be nice. My sister and I are extremely close. We’re best friends even. She’s getting married at the end of the...

Hello everyone! I will be getting married in October, and I need some advice on food options because I have no idea what I’m doing So my fiancé and I are paying for our entire wedding, and with that,...

When we started planning I didn’t want a wedding party (wanted to save myself the headache) But, Britany did. I compromised. Told her we’d both have ONE person. My sister as MOH, one of her best...

I’m feeling upset right now & am trying to cool off. Not sure if I’ve made a poor decision or not to cut off one of my bridesmaid. One of my bridesmaids who has been a close friend of mine for...

Hi everyone, I know this question has been asked to death, however this situation is a bit more delicate since my own sister is the bride, and I'm the MOH. Summary: -My sister and I have a great...

The phrase “weddings are expensive” gets on my nerves bc I don’t believe in that. Weddings don’t have to be extremely expensive if you don’t want them to be. You don’t have to get a big venue and a...

Hi all - just got married back in October and it was such a wonderful wedding! So many things went right and it was truly the best night of my life. Only one thing really bothered me though. My best...

So I am currently planning my wedding but my fiancé and I have been going back and forth over a little issue we have going on. I personally do not get along with my fiancé’s brother’s girlfriend. When...