The phrase “weddings are expensive” gets on my nerves bc I don’t believe in that. Weddings don’t have to be extremely expensive if you don’t want them to be. You don’t have to get a big venue and a fancy caterer. And you don’t have to invite every single family member and every person you’ve ever known. If you want to do that, then go for it! It’s your wedding! But for the people that want a decent wedding but can’t afford to spend a bunch, they shouldn’t have to nor do they need to. I’ve been piecing together my wedding for a while now and I’ve realized there are alternatives to the big fancy stuff that people are use to. My guest list is 50 people, my venue is a convention center. My fiancé and I don’t have someone willing to help us pay for the wedding. We’re paying for it out of our own pockets and we want to be able to afford it and not go in to debt. But of course there’s people around me that believe that it’s has to be the best of the best. No it really doesn’t and if the people you invite are upset bc of your choices then they don’t need to be there honestly. At the end of the day, a wedding is about you and your partner coming together and starting a new life together.
For me, I don’t want a backyard bbq wedding but I can’t afford a ballroom either. So I’ve found that there’s easier and cheaper alternatives to that. A lot of my wedding is gonna be DIY and asking for other peoples help on the small stuff. And that’s okay too.
My point of this post is that I don’t think people should hold weddings to that high of a standard. I think that everyone who wants a wedding should be able to afford it without stress and not have to break their bank. 😊
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