Discussions I've participated in

Are guest books necessary? Will the guests be wandering around looking for one?

Hi guys! A little backstory - destination weddings run deep in my family/friends circle. They're common and not frowned upon, but also tend to be on the lower end [cost wise] of DW- meaning nobody has...

Hi guys! I need some other people's advice on this: Is sneaking out during the cocktail hour after pictures for 30 mins to catch a private meal with my new husband rude? I had seen this idea floating...

I am getting married in May 2023. We’re doing mismatched dresses in dusty blue/green tones. The women in our wedding (4 bridesmaids, 2 grooms maids) were told to get dresses in mismatched colors and...

I have until early May to decide on flowers, but I am trying to choose flowers and colors for my bouquet, which will be small. My dress is knee length ivory/butter cream lace. The wedding is in early...

So we have finally set a date after 8 years of being together. This is a second wedding for the both of us and to save money I was thinking of asking several of our guest (close friends) to bring some...

Hello! My bridal shower is in 2 weeks and the deadline to provide the headcount for the venue is tomorrow. I sent out invitations and had several people not respond. A bridesmaid reached out to those...

My nephew and his fiancé are getting married in a few months They are having a small wedding at a luxury resort. They are only inviting parents and siblings and the brides 3 best friends So 14 people...

Ugh so I've been arguing with myself if its actually worth it?? My FH doesn't care for it, but if we were to get one it would be more of a journal that people can write their wishes in (like the...

Hi everyone! I was thinking about not having a wedding party meaning bridesmaids and groomsmen. Honestly, we don’t have many close friends to even stand by our side. I also feel like it is more costly...

Would it be wrong to do byob for my wedding? I would have some beer and liquor there but then have people bring their own as well. Would that be wrong for a wedding? It is going to be in my fiancé’s...