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August 13, 2021

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Honoring someone that can not be there
Cora, on August 21, 2020 at 8:15 PM

Hi everyone. I will be getting married in October 2021. My older brother passed away in February of this year at only 30 years old due to a rare cancer. What are some ways that I can honor him at...

Rebecca, Aug 22, 2020 9
Just eloped- no regrets!
Liz, on August 20, 2020 at 10:28 PM

My husband(!) and I were supposed to have our wedding in September 2020, but we recently changed the date to August 2021. At first, I was so disappointed to wait another year to be married, although...

Breann, Aug 26, 2020 34 694 2
So many etiquette questions...
Liz, on August 2, 2020 at 9:45 PM

My fiance and I recently postponed our September wedding. We had a small guest list (~30 people) so we originally thought we could make it work. But we live in upstate NY and 70% of our guest list...

Michelle, Aug 8, 2020 12 325
Postponed 2020 Wedding, Sick Dad
Katie, on July 31, 2020 at 8:45 AM

I am writing this post to see if anyone is in a similar situation as me. Our wedding was supposed to be in December of this year but we decided to postpone it for December of next year and have a...

Katie, Aug 3, 2020 6
Is it selfish to still have a wedding reception during the pandemic?
Michelle, on June 22, 2020 at 10:55 AM

I was lurking on WeddingBee and someone posted about people still having receptions and just about everyone agreed it as really selfish. Here in Ohio our numbers are steady and not increasing other...

Marcia, Aug 26, 2020 51
Leaving space on the rsvp card?
Liz, on June 3, 2020 at 9:48 PM

I'm tentatively planning on going forward with my September 6th wedding in the Finger Lakes. It's an outdoor ceremony and I'm inviting around 40 people. My immediate family seems game to come, but I...

Gen, Jun 4, 2020 11
Cream-colored Dress for Mob?
Liz, on March 28, 2020 at 3:52 PM

Hi guys, My mom called last night very excited because she bought a dress for my wedding this September. It is silky and cream-colored, falls just above the ankles, and comes with a cream-colored...

Liz, Mar 28, 2020 11
Dealing with a recent loss- memorial?
Liz, on February 27, 2020 at 9:27 PM

I lost my dad last November, shortly after I got engaged. He died within weeks of being diagnosed with cancer, and without getting into it too much, there were a lot of circumstances that made it a...

Mary, Feb 29, 2020 7 113
Finding a venue, but not yet engaged!
Adriana, on February 21, 2020 at 9:13 AM

Hi Everyone, My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly 2 years and have been talking seriously about marriage for at least 6 months. We would both really like to get married in the Summer/Fall of...

Liz, Feb 22, 2020 26
Wegmans Floral for Wildflowers?
Liz, on February 16, 2020 at 5:01 PM

I'm having a lakeside wedding at a state park and I'm going for a "casual garden party" vibe. I'd really like to get wildflowers/local flowers as part of the decor! It's going to be a fairly small...

Liz, Feb 16, 2020 3
Ice Cream Bar
Amanda, on January 20, 2020 at 3:18 PM

Has anyone did an ice cream bar for your reception? My fiancé would like ice cream and several different toppings instead of a grooms cake. My biggest issue is how to keep the ice cream cold and how...

Liz, Feb 9, 2020 7
Help! i can't make any small decisions!
Liz, on February 2, 2020 at 9:39 AM

TL;DR: I'm worried that all of my decisions are starting to clash and now I can't decide on anything. How did you come up with a vision for your big day? So I'm getting married at the beginning of...

Liz, Feb 4, 2020 7
Hike between cocktail hour and dinner?
Liz, on January 11, 2020 at 4:54 PM

My FH and I are having a small wedding (~35 people) at the state park where we had our first date. We originally wanted to have the ceremony at the base of the park's waterfall, which requires a 1.5...

MrsD, Jan 13, 2020 11
Awkward Closing Time for Reception Venue
Liz, on January 7, 2020 at 8:51 PM

FH and I are having our ceremony and reception at an enclosed pavilion in a local state park. It was our first and only choice for a few reasons: we had our first date there, it is right by Cayuga...

Liz, Jan 8, 2020 8