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I am having a Gothic themed wedding next year near Halloween and am trying to get ideas for spooky drinks. Is there anyone who can recommend drink ideas? Black, red, dark colors? Maybe using dry ice...

Hello beautiful brides! Would you be worried about people being hungry and cranky with what I'm currently thinking? We are having a taco truck for our wedding food (very excited about that!) and will...

Hello everyone! This may be an odd question but would anyone mind sharing what their ballpark wedding budget is realistically? My fiance and I started with a goal to do everything for around...

We are planning an autumn wedding and the best colors will be in late October/early November. The average high is 66 degrees and at sunset it drops to 57 degrees. We have 4 fire pits and are planning...

Hi! My fiancé and I are having our wedding at a winery in a rustic yet elegant barn. Now, we’re trying to figure out whether to go with a highly rated BBQ caterer or a more formal (and highly rated)...

We are renting a house with a gorgeous view, so it will be an indoor/outdoor evening wedding. There will be an open bar and we are planning a tapas/small plates style reception. To me, this is a more...

What are your thoughts on signature cocktails? Are you creating a signature cocktail for your wedding? If so, did you pick your favorite/go-to beverage? Or did you pick one that you thought most of...

Help!!!! How do we narrow down our guest list??? We simply cannot afford to have 200 people but we are quickly approaching ... what are some tips and tricks to narrow the list down

I have noticed a lot of brides choose their groom’s attire for the wedding. Prior to planning my own wedding, I thought that sounded a bit “Bridezilla”. I mean, the groom doesn’t choose the bride‘s...

Hi everyone, Our wedding is officially 200 days away! One problem. How do we explain to our family members that we have decided to not invite children? FMIL has insisted we invite my FH’s baby niece...

Hi guys! Were getting married 11/12/22 and I keep thinking I am planning too early, but I clearly stress over this!

Has anyone had a "no food" wedding? Lol. Our venue is $4K and we are slowly paying that down. The list of "approved caterers" that we are to use are off the charts with the prices...

Hi all! I'm putting the cart before the horse (we don't have a date yet really) - but, how did you all lose weight before your wedding? I'm not opposed to a lot of things other than strong diet pills....

I am planning to get vinyls for the bottom of my shoes that say "I do". Then I thought maybe getting "from this day forward" for my FH's shoes. Would that be weird to have messages on both of our...

We are not religious people at all. Our wedding will not incorporate religion. I am curious what people did that was different during their ceremonies? I keep thinking about readings and people...

Unfortunately, the only topic my husband and I never discussed before marriage was politics. When we got together in 2017, Trump was already in office. This time around I voted for Biden and he voted...