Discussions I've participated in

My fiancé and I are arguing over inviting one of his friends who told him to break up with me, at a bar in college, right in front of me. She also had a crush on him at the time which is likely why...

One musician cancelled on me, and now my friend who was going to lead folk dancing at my reception cancelled on me as well. At this point I’m not even surprised when people let me down because it...

Has anyone been unfortunate to have almost a one sided guest list? Family wise. I don’t have a good relationship with most of my family, especially my parents. They are crappy criminal people who I...

Hi, I just popped on her to pose a question. I am the aunt of the groom to be married in October. My sister, his Mom passed away when he was very young. I did a speech at his older brother's wedding....

I hate hypotheticals but here I am with one anyway. It's your wedding day and you wanted to be cautious and could spend hundreds/thousands of dollars on FDA approved saliva tests for your guests. Do...

My co-workers gave me a small bridal shower during lunch today. We went out to a restaurant close to our office. They got us a present off the registry. Do I give each girl a thank you note or just do...

Our RSVP deadline is in 2 weeks and I haven’t gotten very many responses yet. Is it safe to assume those who don’t respond by then aren’t coming? Our wedding is out of state so it’s unlikely they’ll...

Has anyone pushed ahead and had a reception and ended up with low turn out? My husband and I are having ours in two weeks and we have a suspicion that many won't show. We will provide masks for all...

What kind of shoes are (or did) you wearing? I am seriously struggling with this! I hate heels and cannot picture myself wearing them on my wedding day, my FH is also only about and inch or so taller...

Hi guys! This is a really long-ish story, I'm sorry. But I could really use some advice or suggestions. I'm considering demoting my MOH and asking another BM to step up. I asked one of my good friends...

My wedding is 1 week from today and I guess I’m just here to rant about my stressful day. I started ironing/steaming the table runners and table clothes today and it was a disaster. Spent 5 hours on...

So this is a Fyi when you request an official copy of ur marriage certificate go ahead and get 2 copies. You dont think u will need more than one but doesn’t hurt to have 2. I filed for a new social...

I have some questions for those of you who didn’t have a DJ or don’t plan to have one at your reception: 1. Why did you decide to not have a DJ?2. Who did you put in charge of the music and announcing...

I had wanted my girls to get their dresses from Azazie, but my sister and sister-in-law have complained to my mother about buying dresses online. My mom agrees with them that it isn't a good idea. I...

My rsvps are due soon and I’m kind of nervous because I have sent out a message about a week ago reminding everyone that they are due soon. Some I have heard from, others opened and ignored, and some...

Fiancé and I are on the fence whether we want to have a videographer for the day! For those brides who didn’t have it did you wish you did? For those brides who did have the film do you appreciate you...