Discussions by Shelly

So my wedding is next Friday. And a bridesmaid can’t make it anymore. I already paid for her hair and makeup. Would it be rude to include that money as gratuity? I don’t want to show up with a short...

I know many people have divorced parents. I am worried about my ceremony so I am looking for advice. My mother and father don’t talk anymore but they can be civil. My brother recently got married and...

Have you seen anyone do a garter toss without the garter removal? FH is too shy lol. Obv we can forgo the whole thing but I do have this gorgeous garter set I purchased awhile back before he told me...

What do you plan on playing during dinner? We will have a DJ and a plated meal. On our sheet he asked us to fill out it has a section for dinner music style/preference. I assume dinner music is more...

We postponed from 05/08/20 to 01/29/21. We had already mailed out invites and started receiving RSVPs before COVID happened and then well.... y’all know the rest. The moment we had decided we needed...

I know a lot of you ladies had to postpone your special day. It sucks so bad! We postponed our May 8 wedding to 1/29/21. It was the first Friday our venue had available when we rescheduled in March....

Hi guys! I’m looking to send out something to my guests to notify them we have changed our wedding date due to covid-19. I did email/message them all that it was postponed and that we would reach out...

May 8, 2020 wedding officially rescheduled for 01/29/21. Luckily, all of my vendors are available for this new date. But I have been having a really hard time with this as I’m sure a lot of you have 😔...

Man this is tough! I will cry and then feel nothing. Talked to the venue about rescheduling. Our venue is closed until 04/17 at the moment. But I feel like it would be naive to think everything will...

May 8 wedding here... I see a lot of brides on here postponing their wedding due to the virus. I don’t even see how it’s possible with all the vendors already booked. Am I crazy for just pushing along...

We have a plated meal for our reception and on the RSVP cards people have four entree choices to choose from. I put right above the choices “please initial the entree choice of each guest” That way I...

I am so not creative and need help from you ladies! We have two signature drinks we are promoting along with our bar package. We have an open bar but thought signature drinks would add a personalized...

I am so so so upset!!! I went with my maid of honor awhile ago and picked out bridesmaids dresses. I sent photos to all my girls and they loved it. Go up to the counter and the lady put the style...

Our wedding is May 8, 2020. Is it too early if I send out invitations in about a week? I just finished addressing and stamping them all. I know the norm is 8-12 weeks so I didn’t know if it was too...

Down to the double digits!!!! 99 days!!!!! Feeling like I need more money !!!!! Who can relate ?

I’m getting married in historic downtown St. Augustine. Parking is pretty tough. Our venue offers a private parking lot to rent for the event. I believe most people will Uber due to drinking but I am...

Do you think it’s enough time to do 6 girls make up between 10:30am and 2:30p? I am stressing because my MUA timeline starts at 9:15a and I can’t even get into my venue until 10:30am. I wanted to get...

I really want chargers for our reception. Our round tables will have champagne satin linens. I was looking at renting gold chargers. I really like the glass ones with the gold beaded edges. But they...

I’m getting married on 5/08/20. It is a Friday night. I blocked off 30 rooms at a hotel that is a mile from the venue for 129 a night (which is very reasonably priced for the area). I live two hours...