Discussions by Nerissa

Like thousands of couples all over the world, we were forced to cancel our April 18 destination wedding due to COVID-19. We were crushed but fortunate that the hotel in Puerto Rico refunded 100...

We just cancelled our 4/18 wedding due to COVID-19. In the planning process we paid many of our vendors up front in full so we wouldn’t have to hassle with final payments the day of. Now some of them...

I know it’s painful - I was bawling like a newborn last night and I’ve been weepy all day - but we have to cancel/postpone our weddings and encourage isolation for this virus to slow down. Please...

Head table or sweetheart table? I see pluses for both but I have never been in a wedding so not sure what bridal party prefers. None of their SOs are in the wedding party.

I've decided it's best to hire a day-of coordinator for my wedding. A dear friend who I trust implicitly offered, but I would really rather let her enjoy herself as a guest. I narrowed down to a...

Between us we have 5 kids - ages 15-28. Any thoughts on something besides sand or candles?

Has anyone used this? Curious how it turned out.

I’m having a DW - ceremony and reception at same hotel. Wedding party and most guests will be staying there too. The hotel is giving us a small meeting room for getting ready - which is great. Asking...

Thinking of gifting mine little clutches but imagine they will only use them for the reception?

I had one maid of honor and one matron. Then my maid got engaged and married within 6 months so she’s graduated to matron then my almost 20 year old begged to be a maid of honor. Now i have 3! Besides...

We are planning a DW in April. We’re super excited that so many of our close friends and family plan to join us. Most of the RSVPS we have so far we know are firm because we know they booked air and...

Because it’s “poor etiquette” I only put the “no kids”language on our website. And my RSVP cards noted the number of seats for each party. I still have people assuming their kids are invited. It’s a...

When do you give your bridesmaids their gifts? I’m gifting mine robes and their jewelry. I’m having a destination wedding so don’t really want to lug all that with me. They’re taking me to Napa a few...

Has anyone used this for their wedding? I’m interested and curious if it’s helpful. https://wedtexts.com/pricing/

Is it overkill to have a seating chart sign plus placecards at each seat at the tables? I have a mix of singles and couples and want to make sure couples stay together.