Multiple Mohs and their roles

I have two, but my situation is slightly different as one is my baby sister (14) and the other is my fsil (21). They can jointly plan your bridal shower and bachelorette party - or one take more of a role in each and then someone will hold your flowers in the ceremony and someone (or multiple) can fix your train (if you have a long veil).

Any female friend or relative can plan a shower, it is something often done by either MOH or whole bridal party, if they volunteer, but can be someone different. And if a group of bridesmaids contribute to a shower, they all help plan it. If a MOH plans it alone, she gets no money from others. She is not a boss or supervisor, and the whole planning group gets to decide who is responsible for what . BM or MOH who do not volunteer to do a shower, are guests only. You cannot assign that as the bride. But holding ring or holding bouquet, or being the one to get ready with the bride if others getting ready in their own homes or rooms, can be a special MOH thing if you want. And often a MOH gives a 2 minute speech, or offers a toast at the reception. The MOH is merely a bridesmaid in most respects, just one you have known longer or feel closer to. Duties are not specific, what they volunteer for, or you ask. But not the boss in party planning unless agreed on by all planning and paying for it.

I had two but I don't feel like I handed them different roles or jobs

View Quoted Comment I’m not having a shower so mainly focused on their roles during the ceremony