Discussions by Mandi

Necessary or will word of mouth suffice? It will only be the wedding party and parents. Like 40 people max for pizza and pasta. At the venue, immediately following the rehearsal. Just looking for...

This past week we: *Sent out save the dates *Set our wedding website to public *I got hired onto my temp job (goodbye free time!) *Put a decent sized payment on our honeymoon *Had our...

Ok. Who all needs to rent a tux? My groom. The groomsmen. The usher. My dad? His dad? I'm pretty sure my dad needs to rent a tux. But since my groom, the groomsmen and usher all don't match, should I...

I feel like maybe y'all have caught on by now that perhaps I'm in a redneckier area of these United States. If you haven't, well now you know. So here's my question. How do I get people to use escort...

Don't get me wrong. I'm excited about our wedding in 8.5 months. I am. And I'm excited that other people are excited. But I'm kinda sick of answering questions about the wedding. What color is your...

Hey, so I'm slowly beginning to accept that I may need to assign all of my guests to a table. Not looking forward to this at all. Of course, this means I should probably number my tables. My...

Ok. Well half of them. I had an issue with my printer. But I'll hopefully get the rest printed tomorrow and sent out before the end of the week. Today is our 3 year anniversary, so I couldn't help...

So I'm pretty pumped. I've been putting off asking my MOH if her kids would be my ring bearers. Basically, it was up to her if I had ring bearers or not. So I explained to her last night that I want...

Guess who is apparently sending one invitation to my fiances uncle, his baby mama, his kid, and his girlfriend? That's us. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ I told the fiance this was stupid. But the FMIL insists baby...

We *ahem* I had wrote all of our save the date envelopes this evening. I have to print them. Cut them apart. And then convince my fiance to help stuff, stamp, and return address label them. I did not...

I feel like I should preface this with: I swear I am a productive human with a job who doesn't usually obsess over the small stuff. But this wedding stuff is difficult. I previously reported that I...

At what age does a guest get a seat? And a meal? So my venue limit is 240, and they are totally fine with me inviting 250 people. Just put our official guest list together. And it totals up to 274. So...

This really isn't a question. It's just me being frustrated. I told my fiance I wanted to work on finalizing our guest list this past weekend so we can send out save the dates in approximately 2...

Trying to figure out how to give information about the reception. On the invite do I put: Rejoin us at 7pm at Western Vinyards for dinner and dancing. Or should I put that on a separate card? It will...

So we have a few cuts to make still, but we almost have our guest list finalized. Out of the 100 invitations, 14 are to out of towners. We think 4-6 of these will be declines. We believe that 3 of...