Discussions by Future Mrs. Lowder

Hey y’all.. So we’re now six months away and wedding planning is in full swing. We’re working on flowers and decorations, I’ve gotten my dress and now smaller details. My future in laws have said they...

Hey y’all.. We have six months to go and I’m starting to realize that I don’t have nearly as much done as I thought. We still have to buy basically everything. Right now I only have my dress, part of...

Hey y’all.. I was going to start ordering things for our wedding next month (rings, invites, etc.) but when I brought it up to FH today he thinks it’s best I don’t order anything just incase corona...

Hey y’all.. FH and I want our wedding to be as personal/private as possible so we’re trying to limit the number of vendors as much as possible. We’re using some family property for our venue as well...

Hey y’all.. We have 7 months to go and life is getting crazy. FH starts night school to continue his education next month and hopefully I will be too. We’re trying to move in together within the next...

Hey y’all.. Our wedding is about 7 months away. So far we’ve planned -Our Venue-Gotten my dress-Made a rough guest list -Gotten some decorations (DIYing most everything)-Made a rough menuAnd a couple...

Hey y’all.. I originally wasn’t going to do an entire wedding party (bridesmaids, groomsmen, flower girl, ring bearer, etc.) so we opted to pick who were both closest to and ask them to stand there...

Hey y’all.. So I know the tradition about the grooms parents planning the rehearsal dinner and such.. which were following.. im just worried about them planning it. FH’s mom wants to invite people we...

Hey y’all, FH and I have had our venue picked out since last year when we got engaged. This past weekend that fell through due to family drama. We’ve been told that it’s okay to use the venue still...

Hey y’all.. So, when FH and I first got engaged he picked out his ring and sent it to me so that I knew which one to get. The ring I chose matches his and we both love these rings. The problem is...

Up until last night I wasn’t particularly worried about the Covid 19 closures affecting our wedding (set for Dec. 19). Now after doing some research the county we live in isn’t offering marriage...

Both my FH and I are against having alcohol at our wedding. We have many reasons for this (everyone should have a good time without drinking, we hope they didn’t come for free alcohol, we don’t want...

Hey y’all! Recently I’ve been struggling with what to call our “cocktail hour”. We’re doing a dry wedding so ideally I wouldn’t want to call it “cocktail hour”. I’ve researched alternative names and...

Hey y’all! FH and I have planned to get married at his family’s cabin but after making our guest lists it appears that with everyone we’ve written down it won’t be enough space to house our 200+...

I’m struggling with what to do for my centerpieces. I have red mason jars, small pebbles and pieces of wood. I have been trying to put water in the jars and do a floating candle. I’ve tried it three...

My FH and I are contemplating reading our vows the day before I actual wedding at the courthouse and then doing a ring ceremony and a reception the next day with family and friends. How should we go...

My dress is form fitting at the top, so I’m planning on using something to even everything out. But I’ve never had a good experience with Spanx. It’s always ended up rolling down or digging into my...

I apologize in advance if this post is long. I’m not sure what to do with this situation so any ideas would be great! When FH and I first got engaged we weren’t sure where we wanted to hold our...