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Future Mrs. Lowder, on April 26, 2020 at 5:57 PM Posted in Planning 0 5
Hey y’all,
FH and I have had our venue picked out since last year when we got engaged. This past weekend that fell through due to family drama. We’ve been told that it’s okay to use the venue still but I just don’t feel right about using it after what has happened. We had talked about a smaller “courthouse” wedding but he doesn’t seem happy. I know he wanted our wedding to be at the original venue and he’s upset. I’m not sure what to do because my parents are totally okay with the smaller wedding and having a party later with everyone.. but it’s still FH’s wedding day too and I want him to be happy as well. I’m at odds about what to do.

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Latest activity by Rebelle Fleur, on April 26, 2020 at 9:00 PM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    Are your parents funding the wedding? If not, I don’t understand why they get to have an opinion or why it’s more important than the groom’s.
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    Future Mrs. Lowder ·
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    My parents are funding everything, that’s why their input was asked for. It’s not more important than his. But it is important since it’s their money.
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  • Rebelle Fleur
    Master July 2021
    Rebelle Fleur ·
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    If you don’t want to use the original venue and your FH doesn’t want a small wedding maybe you guys should start looking at other venues. You may fall in love with another place. You could revisit your number on your list when you were originally searching for venues.
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    Future Mrs. Lowder ·
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    Thanks for all the suggestions y’all! After talking as a family we have decided to keep the same venue Smiley smile
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  • Rebelle Fleur
    Master July 2021
    Rebelle Fleur ·
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    Good! I’m happy it worked out.
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