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Serving Asheville - Boone - Charlotte, NC / Greenville - Spartanburg, SC.

Love & Wisdom Inc. is a team of open-minded professional wedding officiants specializing in unique and upbeat ceremonies for couples who expect only the best on their wedding day. Founding Officiant Philip Lingle leads a team of professional and dynamic officiants performing deeply memorable ceremonies across four states. Philip is a Humanist Celebrant with 10 years of experience as a philosophy professor. He is well-versed in all types of weddings, from traditional to secular and interfaith. All ceremonies performed by Love & Wisdom Inc. are carefully worded, unique, and delivered with the highest standard of professional service.

Services Offered

Love & Wisdom specializes in fully customized wedding ceremonies mainly for secular and interfaith couples. However, the varied backgrounds of the officiants ensures you can find the right fit for whatever beliefs you wish to honor on your special day. You can also enroll in their online Premarital Essentials Program, which is free for all clients, but completely optional.

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Frequently asked questions

Which of the following are included in the price of your wedding officiant services?

Ceremony Rehearsal
Premarital Counseling

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$210

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What services do you provide?

Premarital Counseling
Bilingual

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Baptist
Buddhist
Catholic
Earth-Based
Episcopalian
Jewish
Lutheran
Methodist
No Denomination
Pagan
Presbyterian
Taoist
Unitarian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

GA
NC
SC
TN

What languages do you speak?

English
Italian
Portuguese
Russian
Spanish
Vietnamese

Reviews of Love & Wisdom Inc.

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Love & Wisdom received high praise from multiple reviewers for their exceptional officiants and personalized ceremonies. Officiants like Philip, Kim, Jennifer, and Rodney were commended for creating beautiful and meaningful ceremonies tailored to each couple. Reviewers appreciated the thorough planning process, responsiveness, professionalism, and the seamless execution of ceremonies. The officiants' attention to detail, incorporation of personal elements, and warmth in delivery were highlighted by couples who were deeply satisfied with the personalized and significant role Love & Wisdom played in making their wedding ceremonies unforgettable and meaningful.

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Love & Wisdom received high praise from multiple reviewers for their exceptional officiants and personalized ceremonies. Officiants like Philip, Kim, Jennifer, and Rodney were commended for creating beautiful and meaningful ceremonies tailored to each couple. Reviewers appreciated the thorough planning process, responsiveness, professionalism, and the seamless execution of ceremonies. The officiants' attention to detail, incorporation of personal elements, and warmth in delivery were highlighted by couples who were deeply satisfied with the personalized and significant role Love & Wisdom played in making their wedding ceremonies unforgettable and meaningful.

Ally
Ally Sent on 08/01/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing Customized Ceremony!

Stephanie was our officiant from Love & Wisdom and she was AMAZING!! We had a meeting and went over our love story and she created two totally customized ceremonies for us to choose from! She even took the curveball we threw at her - we wanted to take a shot at the end of our ceremony (that's how we met) and she made it one of our favorite parts of the whole day! Definitely recommend if you are looking for a personalized ceremony.
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Becca Sent on 07/27/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Fantastic services / very intentional

We could not be happier with the services that Love and Wisdom provided us. Our officiant, Kim Bentley, helped us plan a ceremony that was full of love, respect, and had both traditional and non-traditional elements in it (blessing of the hands, tree planting, vows). We feel it properly commemorated our love, who my husband and I are as individuals, and who we are as a couple.
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Mackenzie Sent on 06/06/2025
5 out of 5 rating

10/10 Experience!

Philip was an amazing officiant—heartfelt, personal, and praised by all our guests!
Hayley
Hayley Sent on 05/25/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Excellent Experience with Love & Wisdom

Love & Wisdom created a beautiful experience for our wedding ceremony. Our officiant, Philip Lingle, got to know us personally and tailored the ceremony based on these interactions. We found these processes deeply meaningful and knew that L&W understood us and what we wanted for our wedding. Even after the wedding, Philip has helped us greatly by submitting our marriage application for us, providing resources for changing surnames, among other helpful favors.

The entire L&W team, did an excellent job of creating a beautiful wedding ceremony. Philip personally supported us from beginning to end and was always available for discussion or last-minute changes. We greatly appreciate what Philip and L&W did for our wedding.
Chandler
Chandler Sent on 04/30/2025
5 out of 5 rating

The best decision!

Working with Love & Wisdom was one of the best choices I made in my wedding planning process. Our officiant, Philip Lingle, is absolutely brilliant. He asked all the right questions to get to know us, and when I read the ceremony he wrote for us, I knew he truly understood our vision. When our wedding day arrived, his presentation of the ceremony couldn't have been more perfect. I received countless compliments from guests, both on the contents of the ceremony and on Philip's skill as an officiant. I am extremely grateful to Love & Wisdom and to Philip for the significant role they played in making my wedding day even more beautiful and meaningful than I dreamed it would be.
Jack
Jack Sent on 04/18/2025
5 out of 5 rating

The only Officiant you should consider in NC

Philip and his team were always highly responsive. They were the perfect firm to handle the role of Officiant for our wedding at the Biltmore Estate. Philip always maintained a relaxed, professional disposition and exhibited empathy and a great sense of humor.
He was very prompt at our ceremony and our guests greatly appreciated his sincerity and warm delivery.
We cannot recommend them enough- no reason to look elsewhere if you are seeking a phenomenal officiant in NC.
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Carson Sent on 04/15/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Such a great experience!

Philip did an amazing job as our officiant! He was very personable, great to work with, and did a wonderful job of making our ceremony beautiful and personal. We’ve received lots of compliments on the ceremony! I would highly recommend Philip and Love & Wisdom!
Anna-Garo
Sent on 04/05/2025
5 out of 5 rating

BEST Officiant

Wow—Philip Lingle and the Love & Wisdom team are truly unmatched. Initially, we were hesitant about using an officiant we didn’t know personally, but that hesitation quickly turned into immense gratitude. Love & Wisdom is, without a doubt, the best officiant service out there—professional, kind, thoughtful, responsive, and incredibly considerate from start to finish.

When we first reached out to Philip, he offered to meet us for a drink so we could get to know each other. Since we live out of town, scheduling was a bit tricky on our end, but Philip was incredibly flexible. Despite dealing with a family emergency that day, he still made it work, which speaks volumes about his dedication.

By the time the rehearsal and wedding day arrived, we couldn’t have been prouder of our decision to hire him. Our friends and family kept raving about how structured, professional, and engaging he was. The ceremony itself felt like something out of a movie—we’re still in awe! Philip’s delivery was impeccable, striking the perfect balance between sentimental and lighthearted, exactly as we had envisioned. He customized every aspect of the ceremony to reflect our story, and even though we hadn’t met him before, he made it feel like he had known us forever.

We cannot recommend Philip Lingle and the Love & Wisdom team enough. If you want an officiant who will bring your wedding ceremony dreams to life, look no further. This review comes straight from the heart, and we hope it convinces future couples to book—worth every single penny and you will not regret it. We are beyond grateful!
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Logan Sent on 04/03/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Grove Park Inn Wedding with Rodney

We had the best experience with Love & Wisdom! Rodney officiated our ceremony and created an unforgettable day for us. Everyone was responsive, attentive, punctual, and just overall amazing. Highly recommend.
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Allie Sent on 04/03/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Incredible ceremony thanks to love and wisdom

Jennifer from love & wisdom was an absolute pleasure to work with. The entire process from start to finish was so simple and easy. Her professionalism, gentle voice, well spoken ceremony was absolutely incredible - we received SO many compliments on where we found her! The ceremony was perfectly written and she worked with us to perfect it, but honestly we didn't need to change much from the first draft because she did an amazing job! Would recommend going with this company for all your ceremony needs on your upcoming wedding - after all, it's a huge part and you want it done!
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Awards

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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2026 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2025 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2024 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2023 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2022 Winner
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Professional Network & Endorsements

10 Endorsements
Fesiuk Films Fesiuk Films Wedding Videographers

We(Fesiuk Films) have now worked with Phillip twice from Asheville Marriages. He is an excellent speaker and a kind heart and soul. We can tell by his approach at every wedding, he truly cares for his couples. Be sure to book Asheville Marriages. You won't regret it! :P

Events for You Events for You Wedding Planners

Phil Lingle is an experienced officiant that we enjoy working with very much. He is always prepared, always organized, and always professional. What my clients love most about his ceremonies are the many personal details he includes and the ways he manages to make everyone involved - even the guests - feel like the are an important part of the marriage process.

A Bride's DJ A Bride's DJ Wedding DJs

Phil and the rest of his crew do a wonderful job. They create a beautiful ceremony! We highly recommend them! DJ Robby A Bride's DJ

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