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About

I Do…Weddings and Events is a wedding planning service based in San Diego, California. This company was founded by Melissa Barrad in 2003 who works alongside a team of four dedicated event planners and designers. Melissa has coordinated all manner of celebrations, including an exciting trip to Africa. She has also appeared on television to discuss wedding trends. Together with her team, she wants to help you plan your once-in-a-lifetime celebration, no matter the size. With great organizational skills and attention to detail, this team will help you throughout the entire process to create your dream wedding or event.

Services Offered

I Do… Weddings and Events offer event coordination services alongside floral design, helping you to personalize your venue. Melissa and her team offer full-service and partial planning, to suit the level of support you want when organizing your big day. You can also avail of a custom-built package the features whatever services you need. Some of these include:

  • Budget analysis
  • Event design
  • Guest-list management
  • Vendor referrals
  • To-do list and timeline creation
  • Day-of coordination
  • Hispanic or Latinx-owned
  • Woman-owned
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Frequently asked questions

What is the starting price for day-of wedding coordination?

$1,100

What is the starting price for partial wedding planning?

$2,500

What is the starting price for full wedding planning?

$3,500

Do you offer an hourly rate?

Yes

What wedding events do you provide services for?

Ceremony
Reception
Rehearsal Dinner

What wedding planning services do you offer?

Day-of Coordination
Full Planning
Partial Planning

What weddings do you have experience planning?

Civil
Cultural
Destination
Double Weddings
Eco-Friendly
Military
Non-Religious
Religious

Reviews of I Do...Weddings & Events

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Reviewers rave about the wedding planning team as organized, calm, responsive, and detail-oriented. They handled day-of coordination, vendor communications, timelines, and florals so events ran smoothly and couples could relax. Many praised their creativity, problem-solving, value, and highly recommend them.

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Reviewers rave about the wedding planning team as organized, calm, responsive, and detail-oriented. They handled day-of coordination, vendor communications, timelines, and florals so events ran smoothly and couples could relax. Many praised their creativity, problem-solving, value, and highly recommend them.

Sierra
Sierra Sent on 10/11/2025
5 out of 5 rating

The Best Decision We Made for Our Wedding

We truly could not have asked for a better wedding planner than Melissa. From the very beginning of the planning process through the end of our wedding day, she was organized, thoughtful, and incredibly calm — exactly the kind of energy we needed!

Out of all the decisions we made for our wedding, choosing Melissa was by far one of the best. She made everything run seamlessly and handled every detail with such care. Thanks to her and her amazing team, we were able to be fully present and enjoy every moment of our day.

Melissa, you are such a kind and genuine person, and any couple would be lucky to work with you. We’re endlessly grateful for everything you did to make our day so perfect.

— The Garcias
Katelyn
Katelyn Sent on 09/18/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Jill Makes Wedding Magic

Words can't even describe how incredible Jill is but I'll try. Having Jill as our planner was the best decision we made. We would have been lost without her. She made what could have been an overwhelming and stressful time fun and easeful. She made us feel like our wedding was the only one she was planning. Jill also had no agenda for our wedding, she was focused on what we want and what worked with our budget. Jill's energy is also so kind and uplifting. It was always a joy to talke and correspond with her. She also responds insanely fast to everything. We always had no worry or fears because we knew Jill was on top of it all. Our wedding was beyond what we could have imagined and that is largely thanks to Jill. The day also went flawlessly because of her. She's truly the best and I cannot recommend her enough. If you want to enjoy the wedding planning process and have your day go perfectly you need Jill.
Emma
Emma Sent on 08/20/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Melissa Was Absolutely Incredible

My husband (yay!) and I hired Melissa Tuvey as our Wedding Planner a few months after our engagement to plan our August 2025 Wedding at Seagrove Park and L'Auberge Del Mar. Words cannot describe how truly amazing Melissa was as our Wedding Planner. Hiring her was by far the best decision we made in the Wedding planning process. Melissa is extremely responsive to emails, always calm, supportive, and on top of tasks, and she has the best can-do attitude to solve problems and address issues as they arise. She gave great recommendations for our vendors and took the lead on all of the follow up correspondence. Melissa set up calls, filled out vendor forms, offered suggestions to us, and kept us on track with our budget and timeline. Having her on site all day on the wedding day itself was incredibly helpful and honestly essential. We were so grateful that she managed everything on the wedding day realtime and she even helped me fit into my Wedding Dress. Throughout the whole process, Melissa was kind, calm, and always professional. We would hire her again in heart beat. Best Wedding planner ever!
Elizabeth
Elizabeth Sent on 07/19/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Highly Recommend! Planning and Florals

We used I-Do... for both day-of coordination and florals for our wedding at Scripps Seaside Forum, and it was one of the best decisions we made! Elena and her team were absolutely phenomenal and made our wedding day so much more enjoyable and stress-free.

Day-of Coordination:
Elena stood out not only on the wedding day but also in the months leading up to it. She was incredibly helpful during the planning process—offering thoughtful insight into creating a seamless timeline and even helping with ideas for decor and place settings tailored to our outdoor, beachy (and occasionally windy!) wedding. She thought of every detail, from preparing us in advance to get those dreamy photos (like the first kiss and cake cutting) to ensuring everything ran on schedule without a hitch.

On the day, Elena was a true lifesaver. From the rehearsal to the ceremony and reception, I never once had to worry about where I needed to be or what was next. She kept everything moving smoothly, pointing me in the right direction while allowing me to fully enjoy the company of our guests and the magic of the day. And she always made sure we were taken care of (never without a drink in hand!). Her leadership and attention to detail made it all so effortless for us.

Florals:
Melissa tackled all of our floral arrangements, and I couldn’t have been happier with how they turned out! Working within my limited budget, she brought my vision to life with stunning florals that perfectly matched our style and the seaside setting. Melissa truly understood the look I was going for, and her creativity and expertise made every arrangement stand out beautifully. She even gave me a calming pep talk before I walked down the aisle, which was such a thoughtful touch during a nerve-wracking moment.

If you are considering a wedding at Scripps Seaside Forum (or anywhere else), I cannot recommend I-Do highly enough. Elena is an incredible coordinator who will make your wedding day run flawlessly, and Melissa will make your vision a reality.

Thank you, Elena and Melissa, for helping make our wedding day unforgettable!
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Carolyn Sent on 05/24/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Highly recommend Melissa and IDW if you are looking for a great partner in your wedding planning process!

We worked with Melissa for wedding management to help plan and execute our absolutely perfect day. I loved that we got to work with Melissa throughout the whole process and not just in the couple months right before the event. Melissa brought us so much peace of mind because we knew everything was going to be managed perfectly on the day of the event and that we weren’t missing a thing in the preparations. Her attention to detail and general thoroughness was greatly appreciated.

When the day rolled around, her calm energy was exactly what we needed as we were getting ready to walk down the aisle. She worked behind the scenes but pulled all the strings to make sure it all flowed so smoothly. The event looked stunning when we arrived! Most of all, IDW made the day so relaxing for me, my spouse, the whole bridal party, and our families. Truly the best gift we could have asked for was to be able to be present and able to enjoy every second of the day.

We also worked with Melissa for our florals. The bouquets and all the tables were stunning! We heard it from every aunt we talked to the next day at the beach breakfast too. I loved all the color and the arrangements and was so happy with the suggestions and inspiration boards that Melissa crafted for us in the lead up. We were so lucky to have Melissa help bring our vision to life!

Melissa and the IDW team far surpassed the value we could have hoped for and we would highly recommend them to anybody looking for a great partner in their wedding planning journey!
Naomi
Naomi Sent on 05/09/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Melissa is the best!

I'm so thankful we came across Melissa! She made our wedding everything I dreamed it would be and I trusted her entirely to execute the process. She was responsive, attentive to detail, kind, and eager through every step of the way. A wedding is a once in a lifetime event and choosing the right person to bring a couple's vision to fruition is one of the most important choices they have to make! I'm very happy with our choice and thankful for all that Melissa did for us. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts, Melissa!
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Diana Sent on 04/25/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect day !

From the very beginning, Melissa was incredibly detailed, thoughtful, and attentive. I truly appreciated how she took the time to ask the right questions and really understand my vision for the big day. She didn’t just listen—she absolutely delivered.
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Michelle Sent on 03/03/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Beautiful, like her soul and work

Melissa truly exceeded all expectations. She is not only kind and wonderful, but she immediately understood my vision and helped bring it to life. She made the entire process feel seamless and stress-free! I would gladly marry my husband again just to relive the experience with her. We are so grateful for everything she did; she made my dream wedding a reality! Thank you so much, Melissa! I would recommend you to everyone! 💕
Joanna
Joanna Sent on 02/11/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Best of the best!

We couldn’t be happier that we worked with I Do…Weddings & Events for our February wedding at Scripps Seaside Forum in La Jolla. We had the honor of working with Melissa who in every way is an absolute professional and expert in her field. We underestimated the difficulty of planning a wedding at a completely blank slate venue, and Melissa’s vast experience with all the quirks and possible options at Scripps was a total godsend. We left every conversation with her feeling more calm and confident that everything would be OK. And our wedding turned out not just OK, but phenomenal. During the month leading up to our wedding Melissa took so much off our plates – more than we even realized we had on our plates – in terms of vendor communications, timelines and event logistics so that we were able to focus on the final details that really mattered to us and feel relaxed leading up to the day. She exudes competence and calm which we so needed during the planning process and on the day itself. In an industry that seems like it’s exploding with trends, excess and frivolity, it meant a lot to us to be working with someone who has been planning weddings for over 20 years, has truly seen it all, and who had grounded perspectives on what would really give us and our guests the best possible experience (and who of course knows about the trends as well!). Can’t recommend her and her team enough!
S
Sam Sent on 02/02/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderful Experience with Melissa – Highly Recommend!

We had the pleasure of working with Melissa for our wedding in November in Encinitas, California, and we couldn’t be happier with our experience! From start to finish, she was incredibly organized, calm, and professional, ensuring that everything went smoothly on our big day. She also did the florals for our rehearsal dinner, wedding decor, and bridal bouquet. She executed our vision perfectly and we felt that her pricing was much better than other floral places we explored. Would definitely recommend using her for florals as well!

Melissa’s attention to detail and ability to keep everything on schedule allowed us to fully enjoy the moment without any stress. She handled everything seamlessly, and thanks to her, our wedding was everything we had hoped for.

If you're looking for a wedding planner who is reliable, composed, and truly cares about making your day perfect, we highly recommend Melissa. Thank you for making our wedding day so special!
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Awards

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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2026 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2025 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2024 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2023 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2022 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2020 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2016 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2015 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2014 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2012 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2011 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2009 Winner

Professional Network & Endorsements

16 Endorsements
Dexter Lo Photography Dexter Lo Photography Wedding Photographers

The team of San Diego wedding planners at "I Do... Weddings" is absolutely fantastic! I've photographed multiple weddings and worked with all three coordinators (Melissa, Rachel, and Lindsay) and couldn't be more delighted with the experiences. They are very efficient, knowledgable, and calm under pressure. Best of all, they are extremely likable, and that is a big selling point for brides and grooms who want to be stress-free on their wedding day and want their guests to enjoy themselves to the fullest.

Reams Photo Reams Photo Wedding Photographers

Melissa and her team are great! We really enjoyed working with her- she is calm, professional, and gets things done! Plus, she's super easy to be around. Such a friendly, relaxed presence!

The Creative Music DJ Inc. The Creative Music DJ Inc. Wedding DJs

I've DJ'd weddings for many of Melissa's clients, and it is always a great time working with her and her staff. Besides being organized and able to adapt to changes easily, she treats the vendors she's working with with respect, understands our needs, and helps us to be able to be able to provide the best service for our mutual clients. That's what it's all about, right?

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