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About

Alan has recently moved from Newport, RI (probably a wedding capital of the US) to North Carolina. He is excited about discovering new venues, new friendships with wedding professionals and, of course, new couples with whom to create unique and elegant wedding ceremonies.

An elegant and engaging wedding officiant based in Edenton, North Carolina. Alan Neale creates weddings that are personal and welcoming. With experience in performing hundreds of weddings, Alan Neale arranges a dignified ceremony that will express your marriage hopes and expectations. He brings his experiences with him to help couples design a profound and treasured special occasion.

Services Offered
Alan is licensed in all 50 states and provides counseling for couples who desire it. He assists couples with customizing their own vows for their ceremony, no matter if it is a civil union, rehearsal, vow renewal, or interfaith or single-religion ceremony. Couples can rely on Alan’s experiences and talents to bring various religious elements into their ceremony. He has worked with a range of religions, such as Anglican, Catholic, Evangelical, Jewish, Methodist, Presbyterian, and Sikhism. Other religions he can work with include:

  • Agnostic
  • Baptist
  • Buddhist
  • Episcopalian
  • Hindu
  • Islam
  • Lutheran
  • Orthodox Christian
  • Quaker
  • Black-owned
  • Asian-owned
  • Hispanic or Latinx-owned
  • LGBTQ+-owned
  • Native American-owned
  • Pacific Islander-owned
  • Veteran-owned
  • Woman-owned
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Frequently asked questions

Which of the following are included in the price of your wedding officiant services?

Ceremony Rehearsal
Premarital Counseling

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

Yes

What is the starting price for pre-marital counseling (per session)?

$100

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What services do you provide?

Premarital Counseling

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Anglican
Baptist
Buddhist
Catholic
Episcopalian
Evangelical
Hindu
Islam
Jewish
Lutheran
Methodist
No Denomination
Orthodox Christian
Presbyterian
Quaker
Sikhism

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

AL
AK
AZ
AR
CA
CO
CT
DE
DC
FL
GA
HI
ID
IL
IN
IA
KS
KY
LA
ME
MD
MA
MI
MN
MS
MO
MT
NE
NV
NH
NJ
NM
NY
NC
ND
OH
OK
OR
PA
RI
SC
SD
TN
TX
UT
VT
VA
WA
WV
WI
WY

What languages do you speak?

English

Reviews of Alan Neale

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Lindsay Sent on 01/17/2020
5 out of 5 rating

10.11.2019 Wedding

Alan was our wedding officiant in October. He was an absolute dream to work with! He did such a wonderful job of walking us through what the options for our ceremony were and helping us with any decisions we needed to make. He was extremely open to anything we wanted to add or change. Alan did a wonderful job of incorporating two readings that were very special to us into our ceremony. He was a wonderful calming force and put all of our nerves at ease. I had multiple guests come up to me after the ceremony and tell me how wonderful they thought Alan was. He is an absolute class act and we are so grateful that he was a part of our special day!
Lily
Lily Sent on 01/05/2020
5 out of 5 rating

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Tina Sent on 10/28/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Alan is a Rockstar!

Working with Alan was simply a delight. He was very helpful and responsive throughout our entire process. He always seemed sincerely/genuinely interested in getting to know us - he was able to make our ceremony super personal and as if we had known each other for years. We had so much positive feedback about our ceremony, from religious and non religious alike. Alan comes with our highest praise and recommendation!!
Bethany
Bethany Sent on 10/20/2019
5 out of 5 rating

The BEST officiant ever!

We had Alan officiate our wedding last weekend (10/12/19) and our ceremony was absolutely perfect. We actually booked Alan well in advance (over a year in advance in fact) because I just loved him that much the very first time we met him. From beginning to end, working with Alan was easy and fun. He worked with us to put together a ceremony that included everything that we wanted and was always kind if/when we wanted to make changes. During the ceremony he was genuine and real and brought his humor (that I loved so much) at all the right times; it felt like we had known him forever and we were being married by an old friend. We had multiple guests say how much they loved him and how they would want to have him officiate their weddings/vow renewals. Alan is just absolutely the BEST at what he does. Thank you, Alan, for everything!
Jennifer
Jennifer Sent on 10/07/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Best officiant ever

Alan is extremely charming, funny and insightful. We loved working with him. We felt instantly at ease with him and we loved how much he really gets to know you. He put a lot of time and thought into our ceremony. It was an amazing day. We could not ask for more.
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Amanda Sent on 10/06/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Look no further...

After searching through dozens of officiants online, we felt like we would never find the right person to officiate our ceremony but our luck changed when we found Alan.

We were planning our Newport wedding from NYC and Alan was extremely flexible to set up multiple phone and Skype calls. After our very first conversation we knew Alan was the perfect fit for us. He is incredibly easy to talk to and really took the time to get to know us over the phone and understand what we wanted in our ceremony.

It is hard to put into words how incredible our ceremony was and how appreciative and thankful we are for having Alan in our lives.

It has been one month since our wedding and guests are still talking about "the best wedding ceremony have they have been to." Everyone was in tears and it was the spiritual and meaningful ceremony we wanted. All of our guests asked how long we had known him and assumed he was a longtime family friend.

If you are looking for an authentic and meaningful ceremony - Alan is your guy. Alan truly exceeded our expectations - he is a true professional and really cares about his couples.

Thank you, Alan!!
Zachary
Zachary Sent on 10/01/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Simply Incredible

It is very difficult to find words to describe how honored and privileged we were to be married by Alan. He was the first officiant we met with, and before the end of our first meeting, we formally asked him to perform our marriage ceremony. His passion and energy made our decision easy.

During our planning stages, Alan worked with us to craft a custom ceremony that matched our personalities. He guided us as we compiled the various steps and consulted as we worked to integrate our cultural backgrounds. Guests, often focusing on florals and other aesthetic elements of the wedding, raved about Alan and how beautiful the ceremony was.

I own and manage a wedding venue and have the privilege of working with some of the industry’s leading event professionals. Among all my experiences, Alan was among the most sincere and amazing officiants I have ever worked with. We were honored to have him as part of our day and could not recommend him more.
Christine
Christine Sent on 09/17/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Great to work with!

Alan was so great to work with from the beginning. He lets you tailor the ceremony to however you want, has done so many weddings so has great suggestions, and is super funny and a pleasure to work with. He kept our ceremony short and sweet but was also funny and sentimental. He is amazing and we highly recommend!
Christopher
Christopher Sent on 11/19/2018
5 out of 5 rating

A true privilege to be married by Alan

Alan is a beautiful person who invests his heart and soul into the couples whose weddings he officiates.

My husband and I were the first LGBT couple married at Trinity Church in Newport, RI and Alan was our officiant. We met with Alan several times before the wedding, by video conference since we live far away, and in person. Through the course of our sessions we of course learned more about Alan, and him us - but we also learned how to be better partners to each other. More than an officiant, Alan became an advisor and a friend.

So many of our guests remarked that they'd never been to a wedding service that felt quite like ours - a feeling we credit to Alan. We wholeheartedly recommend Alan to anyone who wants a service imbued with love and holiness.
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Muireann Sent on 11/14/2018
5 out of 5 rating

A Perfect Ceremony (Sept 2018)

We cannot recommend Alan enough. He was kind and approachable throughout the whole preparation process, and the day-of ceremony was even better than we could have ever hoped for. He strikes the perfect balance between seriousness and humor, traditional and modern, and we had many guests comment on how it was one of the best wedding services they'd been to! Alan makes everyone feel welcome, and also takes the time to get to know you as a couple and convey that on the day-of. We wish him the best and strongly recommend him to any couples getting married.
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Awards

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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2020 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2019 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2018 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2017 Winner

Professional Network & Endorsements

3 Endorsements
Ludwig Photography Ludwig Photography Wedding Photographers

Alan is the best! He is so personable, so funny and charming, you will love him!

Dana Siles Photographer Dana Siles Photographer Wedding Photographers

Alan Neale is among the kindest, most sincere officiants I have worked with. He is relaxed, has a great sense of humor and simply has an awesome personality!

Metta Events Metta Events Wedding Planners

Reverend Alan Neale is a delight to work with. He weaves humor (his quick British wit!) in with Scripture, to craft a beautifully eloquent and heartfelt ceremony. He offers couples pre-marital counseling throughout their wedding planning process. Alan is welcoming, gracious, wonderfully funny and a gifted speaker. He makes each couple feel grounded and 'home' in their spirituality. If you are seeking an officiant, look no further.

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