Would you rather?? Round two!

Well this is tough, my fiancé parents don’t have too many friends so he wants to bring quite a few coworkers which I don’t like, but if we were having a Caribbean wedding i would have to struggle to not invite my fathers friends cause I’m close with them also. So long answer to that is depends on location for me so since we are having a USA wedding it will be his friends

30VenueParents friendsSundayShowerMy parentsAmazing dress in personBachelorette party (sorry mom you don’t want to see that)Honeymoon2 months

Would you rather... invite 30 guests or 300 guests? 30! I'd rather have our closest friends/family than a hoard.

Would you rather... change your date or change your venue? Date

Would you rather... invite all of your co-workers, or all of your parents' friends? Neither... but I guess my parents friends.

Would you rather... get married on a Thursday or a Sunday? Sunday - who doesn't like brunch?

Would you rather... cut the shower or the bachelor(ette) party? Bachelorette party. I want the pots and pans....

Would you rather... hand over complete planning control to your parents or your future in-laws? My future in-laws. They know and respect my tastes more than my mother.

Would you rather... have a dress that looks amazing in person and so-so in pictures, or vice versa? I want the one that makes me feel amazing, whichever one that is.

Would you rather... your mom crash your bachelor(ette) party or your honeymoon? The Bachelorette - I'm planning on going kayaking

Would you rather... splurge on your ring or your honeymoon? The honeymoon... I prefer memories to material things. Life is short, you can't take the fluff and nonsense with you but the glitter you throw with other people is what lives on after you go.

Would you rather... get married in two months or two years from now? Two months, in the end all I need is him, an officiant, and toes in the sand (Hawaiian elopement here we come).

I would rather invite 30 people. 300 people sounds pricy and i don't even know that many people. i have some venues in mind that i really like but maybe its easier to change venues than it is to change dates. i would rather invite my coworkers as opposed to all of my parents friends. i would rather get married on a thursday, since it's before the weekend. i'd rather cut the bachelorette party. with my bridesmaids, im pretty sure my bachelorette party will be lame as hell. my in laws are insane but i trust my wedding will be more fun and more my style. if left in my parents hands it would be too traditional and boring. and the dress, i kinda don't care either which way so long as i feel great in it. i would rather my mom crash the party, having her at the honeymoon would be awkward. my ring was roughly $35 so i would splurge to have a great time alone with my husband on a honeymoon. finally, if i could, i would totally get married in 2 months. why wait to spend the rest of my live with the love of my life?! 😊