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Would you rather... change your date or change your venue?

Rebecca, on October 23, 2018 at 11:05 AM Posted in Planning 0 251
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You finally found the perfect venue after hours of searching, but they don’t have your dream wedding date available. What would you do??

Would you rather... change your date or change your venue?


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  • Peggy
    Master November 2019
    Peggy ·
    Change the date. I love my venue.
  • FutureMrsKC
    Master January 2019
    FutureMrsKC ·

    Venue. Our date is so important to us, we are getting married on our 3 year anniversary so the date is non-negotiable.

  • Andrea
    VIP April 2020
    Andrea ·

    I would change the date!! Our venue is actually quite nice.

  • caitie-lyn
    Dedicated January 2020
    caitie-lyn ·

    I would rather change the date. I adore our venue and our date as no special significance to it

  • Nisa
    Super March 2019
    Nisa ·

    In this hypothetical situation, I'd change the date, if it's really my PERFECT venue. But my current venue is not perfect, though it checks a lot of boxes. So if this were about my current venue, I'd change the venue, because I wouldn't want to lose out on my rapidly approaching date!

  • annakac
    Devoted February 2019
    annakac ·

    The venue! Our date is our 9 year anniversary so we planned everything around that.

  • E
    Beginner December 2018
    Emijif ·
    This actually happened to us! We changed venues.
  • Angerra
    VIP August 2019
    Angerra ·
    I would rather change the date! I love my venue too much!
  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    No way! Is your wedding date on an anniversary that you wanted to keep?!

  • Meghan
    Super September 2019
    Meghan ·

    Date. We already had to change the original date we wanted because the venue was booked that day.

  • Mae247
    Savvy December 2018
    Mae247 ·

    Change the venue! We actually ended up doing just that when our original venue backed out after we worked with FH's family to set a date that worked for everyone.

  • Andrea
    Savvy March 2019
    Andrea ·

    Date! We actually had our heart set on March 29 because that's currently our anniversary but I fell in love with my venue and it wasn't available. So we moved the date to March 22nd.

  • Yolanda
    Savvy March 2019
    Yolanda ·

    Venue... Our date hold significance

  • C
    Just Said Yes July 2019
    CA'TRINA ·

    I would prefer to invite all my partners friends

  • L
    Expert June 2019
    Lori ·
    Change the date
  • Martika
    Expert September 2019
    Martika ·

    Change the date. I am in love with my venue.

  • FutureMrsC
    Expert October 2019
    FutureMrsC Online ·

    I would change the date.

  • Kim
    Devoted March 2019
    Kim ·
    Change our date
  • S
    Beginner March 2019
    Sabrina ·
    This one’s a tough one. I think I would change my date, though, if it meant I was able to choose the perfect venue!
  • Librabride1013
    Savvy June 2019
    Librabride1013 ·

    Venue-- our date mean so much to the both of us. My father passed away 5 years ago now, our wedding will be on his birthday. A nice way to have him present on our big day.

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