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Rebecca
Master October 2025

Would you rather... change your date or change your venue?

Rebecca, on October 23, 2018 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Planning 251

You finally found the perfect venue after hours of searching, but they don’t have your dream wedding date available. What would you do?? Would you rather... change your date or change your venue? Next Question: Would you rather... invite all of your co-workers, or all of your parents' friends? ...

You finally found the perfect venue after hours of searching, but they don’t have your dream wedding date available. What would you do??

Would you rather... change your date or change your venue?


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Next Question: Would you rather... invite all of your co-workers, or all of your parents' friends?

251 Comments

  • C
    Beginner August 2019
    Carrie ·
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    Change the date..venue is 👍
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  • Ginsteeca
    Expert June 2019
    Ginsteeca ·
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    Change the date. I love our venue.

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  • Shaunte
    Expert December 2021
    Shaunte ·
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    Change the date.

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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    What style venue did you book, Carrie?! Is it indoor or outdoor? Or both!

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  • Latoya
    Just Said Yes March 2020
    Latoya ·
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    Change the venue our date is our 3 year anniversary so it’s not up for change
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  • Laurel
    Dedicated March 2019
    Laurel ·
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    That is a tough question. I think I would change the venue. Our date is special to us.

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  • L
    Just Said Yes April 2019
    Lisa ·
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    Date. We’ve already changed the date once. We’re in no rush to get married, so we want the wedding to be exactly how he have both envisioned.
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  • Jodi
    Just Said Yes October 2019
    Jodi ·
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    Date for sure. Our venue is the bomb
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  • L
    Just Said Yes April 2019
    Lisa ·
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    Our date is super special to us as well, but we just pushed it back a year since Mom wouldn’t have been able to make it. Same date, just gives us another year to get everything set up and ensure everyone who is important to us will be able to attend.
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  • Megan
    VIP January 2019
    Megan ·
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    You’ll pry that venue away from my cold dead hands. I’d change the date, the season, or anything else except the groom hahaha
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  • M
    Just Said Yes June 2019
    Mindy ·
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    Change the venue, the date was picked so that I could guarantee my daughter be there without any worries! 😊
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  • T
    Dedicated August 2019
    Tamra ·
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    Change the date, i love our venue an cant picture some please else.

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  • Laurel
    Dedicated March 2019
    Laurel ·
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    When you put it that way, I would change the venue or date if it meant that all our special people could be there. Making sure special family members and friends will be there is so much more important than the venue or date.

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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    I equally love both sentences in this comment!! Smiley xd

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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    Aw that's awesome! Will she be in your wedding?!

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  • Gabrielle
    Dedicated October 2019
    Gabrielle ·
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    Venue. I love my date! It's actually our regular anniversary so on our wedding we'll have made to 6 years exactly Smiley smile

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  • L
    Super August 2023
    Lunajay ·
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    I rather change the date only because its hard tryna (yes I said tryna) find a venue let alone your dream venue. Plus our date doesn't have emotional value, it's just a date for the moment.
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  • Sarah
    Just Said Yes March 2019
    Sarah ·
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    Haven't picked either yet Smiley sad
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  • Victoria
    Dedicated March 2019
    Victoria ·
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    My date! I would move it from March to later in the spring if it was an option through my venues (which it is not)


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    Dedicated April 2019
    Sassi ·
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    Change the venue. Gotta get remarried on New Year’s Eve. Venues are a dime a dozen at Sandals.
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