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Rebecca
Master October 2025

Would you rather... change your date or change your venue?

Rebecca, on October 23, 2018 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Planning 251

You finally found the perfect venue after hours of searching, but they don’t have your dream wedding date available. What would you do?? Would you rather... change your date or change your venue? Next Question: Would you rather... invite all of your co-workers, or all of your parents' friends? ...

You finally found the perfect venue after hours of searching, but they don’t have your dream wedding date available. What would you do??

Would you rather... change your date or change your venue?


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Next Question: Would you rather... invite all of your co-workers, or all of your parents' friends?

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251 Comments

  • Lizzy
    Beginner November 2018
    Lizzy ·
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    Honestly I think I would change the venue to still have that dream date
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  • C
    Just Said Yes April 2019
    Cindy ·
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    Change the Venue. The date is too special so I wouldn't change it

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  • G
    Just Said Yes February 2019
    Glenda ·
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    Change the date.

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  • K
    Just Said Yes January 2019
    Karenn ·
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    Venue. Save the dates have been mailed. Can't change the date!

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  • Steffi
    Just Said Yes April 2019
    Steffi ·
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    Date! My venue is perfect, something completely different than what I thought I wanted. What's the next date available? Lol
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  • R
    Just Said Yes August 2019
    Robekah ·
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    Venue. I have a specific date for a reason and I ain't changing it cause it's taken. I'll make it work, even if I have to go to the court house!
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  • F
    Just Said Yes September 2019
    Faith ·
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    Venue, I love my date
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  • H
    Beginner October 2019
    Harley ·
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    I would much rather change my venue. There's lots of beautiful places but people usually choose dates for specific reasons, and we did just that. I would marry this man ANYWHERE but we definitely chose our date with careful planning! It even is on a Sunday next year and we don't mind!

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  • SB
    VIP March 2019
    SB ·
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    Change my venue. Our date is our 5th dating anniversary, so it makes sense on why I love it! I wouldn't mind having a cheaper venue either..

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  • Savvy September 2019
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    I would rather change my TRADITIONAL Venue (we have two weddings.. one Nigerian and One American) because it was EXTREMELY expensive.
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  • Judi
    Just Said Yes December 2019
    Judi ·
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    I had to do both. I changed my date so the first venue made me cancel, then only gave me back half my money. So I went with a different venue that is 3500.00 cheaper and offers more things.
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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    That's true - it's not called Save the Venue (that was such a dad joke but I felt like it was necessary)

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  • Kara
    Just Said Yes October 2019
    Kara ·
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    Change the date!
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  • Desiree
    Just Said Yes December 2019
    Desiree ·
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    Venue we've been set on our date for years!
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  • Alesia
    Just Said Yes September 2019
    Alesia ·
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    Change the date! Love the venue we have!
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  • M
    Just Said Yes July 2019
    Matilde ·
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    I would definitely change the date
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  • Erica
    Dedicated April 2019
    Erica ·
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    I love my venue and would gladly change my date. I cringe every time I have to tell people I'm getting married on 4/20. I swear, we don't even partake! It was just the best date available at our venue.

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  • Lisa
    Dedicated December 2018
    Lisa ·
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    If I found the perfect venue like I did, I would rather change the date than the venue. I love the venue we picked.

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  • Mrs. H
    Master September 2019
    Mrs. H ·
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    Change our date for sure! We love our venue, and the date has no significance (at least not yet Smiley winking )

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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    That's not I first thing I thought of at all! My first question was I wonder what her venue is!?

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