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Natalia
Expert October 2020

Wearing a ring 24/7?

Natalia, on August 21, 2019 at 2:47 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 1,171

Hello all! I’m not sure if this is the proper group for this discussion. However, I wanted to know if you ladies and/or gents wear your engagement rings all the time. Recently, I was made to feel bad, perhaps unintentionally but perhaps not, about not wearing my engagement ring 24/7. My FHs family...
Hello all!

I’m not sure if this is the proper group for this discussion. However, I wanted to know if you ladies and/or gents wear your engagement rings all the time.

Recently, I was made to feel bad, perhaps unintentionally but perhaps not, about not wearing my engagement ring 24/7. My FHs family and I were talking about planning and my rings and such. When a member of his family said that an engagement ring should be worn at ALL times and never taken off, with quite the attitude. As if she judging me for taking it off. Mind you, I take it off right when I get home, and put it right back on when I go out anywhere. I don’t want to get it dirty, damaged, or lose its shine while I am doing my everyday tasks at home.

So tell me, what do you do? Do you wear it at all times, without taking it off? Or do you take it off for certain tasks?

1,171 Comments

  • Carrollelizabeth
    July 2021
    Carrollelizabeth ·
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    So I don’t like to take it off because I love it lol but I do actually take it off quite a bit like for doing laundry (sucker came off in a large pile of socks once and I did not find it until the next day 😬) and getting ready I take it off bc I don’t want makeup or lotions/oils/hairspray on it. But my rule is that I ALWAYS put it down in the same ring tray next to my bed no matter what. It’s either in that tray or on my finger!
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  • Lindsey
    Savvy July 2021
    Lindsey ·
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    Being that I work in the video industry and carry around cameras and boxes, I take my ring off so I don't muck it up. I found this really cool wristband ( RingHero ) that I can put my ring in to keep it with me!

    I also take it off when I'm doing dishes, yard work, washing cars, swimming, the shower.... Basically anytime I'm afraid of damaging/losing it. I also don't sleep with it on.

    Don't worry about what other people think! You do you! It's your ring!

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  • K
    Expert October 2020
    Katie ·
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    I wear my all the time 24/7 unless I am working with food or almond harvest/yard work.
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  • Raeana
    Beginner October 2021
    Raeana ·
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    You shouldn't feel bad. I do the same thing, I put it in my ring dish as soon as I get home. And I take it off for the gym.

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  • Melissa
    Beginner November 2021
    Melissa ·
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    For the most part I wear mine all the time. I do take it off when I’m doing dishes and similar chores around the house. My fiancé knows and agrees with me doing that.
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  • Samantha
    Just Said Yes September 2020
    Samantha ·
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    As a police officer I would not want to damage my ring at work or even hurt someone else by a scratch if I’m trying to get them into cuffs. I wear the silicone rings during my work rotations and as soon as I come off my tours, I put my formal engagement ring back on!
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  • Arden
    Savvy September 2020
    Arden ·
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    I have to take my ring off for work, since I work with behaviorally challenged children. I don't want them to break it, get it dirty, or get hurt by it. Also I'm still not used to my ring getting wet to I definitely take it off to shower. I'm pretty sure it's whatever you're comfortable with, I mean it is your ring...
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  • Kaitlin
    Savvy March 2021
    Kaitlin ·
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    I take it off when I’m cooking, cleaning, showering, in the pool, putting on lotion or sleeping. I try to keep my ring clean and beautiful and I worry about bacteria and harsh chemicals on it.
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  • Julia
    Just Said Yes July 2020
    Julia ·
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    I take it off when cleaning, cooking, showering, go to sleep, am in the pool or in the ocean.
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  • Patty
    Just Said Yes June 2021
    Patty ·
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    I take mine off when I get home because I’m usually cleaning, cooking, showering or in bed. You really shouldn’t wear your ring for any of those activities IMO.
    My diamond became loose after 2 months of wearing it religiously...so I’ve learned my lesson and I’m careful now. It’s an expensive piece of jewelry and I treat it as such. Maybe if my ring wasn’t as expensive, I wouldn’t be as careful 🤷🏻‍♀️.
    I agree though, it’s not her business wether or not you choose to wear/take off.
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  • Tamara
    Just Said Yes October 2020
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    I take mines off every evening as soon a I get in from work. I don't want to damage it while working around the house. I also don't like sleeping with rings on and three I honestly just don't feel the need to wear it once I am home it's really as simple as that for me. My FH is perfectly fine with it just as long as I have on when I walk back out the door. Smiley ring Smiley heart

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  • Ashley
    Beginner November 2020
    Ashley ·
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    I take my engagement ring off when I’m going to bed, showering, cleaning, and cooking. Otherwise, I have it on.
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  • Gina
    Beginner May 2021
    Gina ·
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    It’s your ring so you are allowed to take it off whenever you want. I was very overprotective of my ring at first so I totally get it. I take mine off when I shower, go swimming and/or to the beach, wash the dishes and when I know my hands are going to get dirty. I also sometimes take it off when I cook depending on what I’m making and again if I know it’s gonna get messy. You do what’s best for you and your ring. Don’t worry about what other people say.
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  • T
    Savvy September 2020
    Tahia ·
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    I take it off when I shower, but aside from that, I WEAR IT PROUDLY 🥰🥰🥰💍💍💍💍
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  • J
    Just Said Yes November 2022
    Jaylan ·
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    I wear my ring 24/7
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  • A
    Just Said Yes October 2020
    Anne ·
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    I usually take my off for the gym, when I shower and at night before bed. And when I’m cleaning. I don’t want anything to happen to it.
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  • Brianna
    Savvy March 2021
    Brianna ·
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    I love wearing mine whenever I can 😍😍😍but I do take it off for a few reasons, such as, cleaning, swimming, yard work, paitning, working out, and cooking
    Other than that this beauty stays on my finger Smiley xd
    I do sleep with mine on so I can close my eyes to it and wake up to it lol💙💍💎
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  • Future Mrs Moore
    Savvy November 2022
    Future Mrs Moore ·
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    I take it off in the shower and when doing my hair or else it will pull all of my hair out. I also take it off when I'm mixing meat for meatloaf or lumpia and when I'm kneading dough for bread or biscuits. I take it off anywhere it might get wet and slip off without me knowing, like at the beach, pool, amusement/water park, etc.
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  • Tiffani
    Dedicated August 2020
    Tiffani ·
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    I never take mine off cause if i do I WILL LOSE IT. except when i do weightlifting but I have a little shelf in my home gym for it Smiley smile

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  • Katie
    Devoted November 2020
    Katie ·
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    I wear it most the time bit I also take it off when I shower or it could get dirty, damaged, or lost
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