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Natalia
Expert October 2020

Wearing a ring 24/7?

Natalia, on August 21, 2019 at 2:47 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 1,171

Hello all! I’m not sure if this is the proper group for this discussion. However, I wanted to know if you ladies and/or gents wear your engagement rings all the time. Recently, I was made to feel bad, perhaps unintentionally but perhaps not, about not wearing my engagement ring 24/7. My FHs family...
Hello all!

I’m not sure if this is the proper group for this discussion. However, I wanted to know if you ladies and/or gents wear your engagement rings all the time.

Recently, I was made to feel bad, perhaps unintentionally but perhaps not, about not wearing my engagement ring 24/7. My FHs family and I were talking about planning and my rings and such. When a member of his family said that an engagement ring should be worn at ALL times and never taken off, with quite the attitude. As if she judging me for taking it off. Mind you, I take it off right when I get home, and put it right back on when I go out anywhere. I don’t want to get it dirty, damaged, or lose its shine while I am doing my everyday tasks at home.

So tell me, what do you do? Do you wear it at all times, without taking it off? Or do you take it off for certain tasks?

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  • Kerensa
    October 2019
    Kerensa ·
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    My ring is fairly large. I take it off while sleeping and showering primarily. I don't wear it while volunteering at the local animal shelter, while in the pool or doing outside things. I also take it off while working with raw meat. Otherwise it's on.
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  • K
    Just Said Yes September 2020
    Kaylyn ·
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    I wear mine very little. I work in a field where they are not allowed, so I can only wear it when I get home, while i sleep, and on weekends. I also take it off to shower.

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  • Bethany
    Just Said Yes September 2020
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    I take it off when I put on lotion and I should take it off at work since I’m a sheet metal worker but I don’t.
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  • Tara
    VIP November 2016
    Tara ·
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    I personally do NOT wear mine all the time. And I don't think you should be made to feel bad if that's what you choose. So the night my husband proposed we were staying at a hotel. We were actually at homecoming at the college we went to (and where we met) and that's where he proposed. I woke up in the morning and the ring wasn't on my finger so I freaked out!!! It was in the bed. I guess I took it off in the middle of the night without realizing, most likely because I wasn't used to it. I take mine off every night before going to bed. I don't shower in it, or clean with it on. When I remember I take it off to do the dishes too. I recommend taking it off when you do chores, shower or before bed. Definitely before cleaning because the chemicals aren't good for your ring. The sparkle will dull a bit, but nothing a cleaning at the jeweler's can't fix. It's the metal that will suffer if you wear it all the time. Honestly i think it's just preference and you should do whatever you're most comfortable with.

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  • Jamie
    Just Said Yes July 2020
    Jamie ·
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    I am the same exact way. I used to take it off and forget it bc I'm not a jewelry person so now it stays on at all times unless for cooking that I'm using my hands or dishes or swimming other then that it's on at all times.
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  • Lizzy
    Beginner June 2021
    Lizzy ·
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    First of all don’t listen to people and make your own choices. That being said I take off my ring every night before going to sleep. Mostly because it fits me big, and I’m in wedding dress weight loss mode so I find it pointless to get resized until 2/3 months before the wedding. Secondly, I’m scared that it’ll get caught in the thread of sheets or something and I’ll squish it (i dont know these are just thoughts that cross my mind lol). And to be quite honest; there have been MANY times that I’ve left to work in a rush and forgotten to put my ring.

    A ring is a token/reminder that your SO loves you and wants to spend their life with you. It DOES NOT mean that if you don’t put it on they will love you any less. So, keep on doing what you feel is right. Just make sure not to lose it if you take it off lol Smiley winking.
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    Devoted November 2019
    Emily ·
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    I take mine off for certain tasks. Example : I do not lift weights or workout with it on. No gardening. Sometimes cooking. Or work where it would get scratched. Your FH should understand you are protecting the ring!
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  • K
    Expert October 2019
    Kierstin ·
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    I wear it all the time. I usually will take it off to do dishes and sometimes forget to put it back on for 2-3 days. 🤷🏼‍♀️ It drives him crazy only because I’ve lost a ring before. It’s not that big of a deal in my opinion to take it off though.
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  • Braya
    Savvy June 2021
    Braya ·
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    I love my ring but I take it off to shower and to sleep and also when I wash my hands. I just don’t want to get it dirty so I try to keep it clean and dry for the most part
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  • S
    Just Said Yes June 2020
    Sequoya ·
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    Since mine was recent as well, I try to remember to wear it since I don't wear jewelry. So it's been tricky for me as well.
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  • MrsHamm
    Dedicated September 2019
    MrsHamm ·
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    I take mine off all the time. I take it off for sleeping, cleaning up the house, doing dishes, yard work, and tasks where it may get damaged. I also get my ring cleaned and inspected every 6 months. I have my wedding set and husband's ring insured with Jeweler's Mutual (specific jewelry insurance policy - covers way better than homeowners)

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  • Jazmin
    Super April 2019
    Jazmin ·
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    I take it off when I cook, when I shower, when I work out and when I sleep.

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  • A
    Just Said Yes April 2020
    Ashley ·
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    I usually have my ring on at all times. Unless I’m seasoning meat for a meal, or doing my daughter/my hair . Once that’s done she’s back in place.
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  • Jennifer
    Just Said Yes June 2021
    Jennifer ·
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    I wear my ring 24/7 I am recently having health issues had to take off all my other rings and although my engagement ring at times is uncomfortable I can't and do not want to take it off. Ever time I look at it it reminds me of a love that I am so greatful for and lucky to have.
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  • Courtney
    Just Said Yes June 2021
    Courtney ·
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    I got a pamphlet with my engagement ring that my fiancé kept! If advising you to take it off when cleaning, showering and even sleeping! Sleeping is because the prongs easily get caught on the stitching of blankets and pillows and then loosens the prongs over time! So that’s what I do! No ring in the shower, cleaning or bed!
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  • Carrie
    Devoted October 2020
    Carrie ·
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    That is totally up to u. If he isn't bothered by it don't worry about what other people think.. My sister and her husband (been together for 21 years) take theirs off while at home and over the weekend. Me I never take mine off. I also have seen people get those rubber one and wear those instead of their wedding rings
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  • Adoria
    Just Said Yes February 2020
    Adoria ·
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    I never take my ring off!’
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  • K
    Just Said Yes March 2020
    Kate ·
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    I do a lot of painting in my job, so I take mine off a bunch even when I'm out of the house. I do have a chain that I put my ring on when it's not on my finger, but that's mainly because I'm afraid of losing it otherwise, lol.

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  • Ann
    Devoted September 2021
    Ann ·
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    I wear mine usually 24/7 I hate wearing it to work though so I got that plastic rubber ones! I just got engaged so I feel weird not wearing it haha I want to show this baby off!
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  • Kimberly
    Expert October 2019
    Kimberly ·
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    I take mine off when i go to sleep, when i take a shower, at the gym, doing dished (really any cleaning), when i use hand lotion. literally any time i think i could get it dirty or damage it, i take it off.

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