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It might not be healthy for YOUR relationship. But again, you are not really at liberty to define what is and isn't healthy for anyone other than yourself. Especially when you've never been in anyone else's shoes.

Ever watched "Fireproof'? Did you notice how what her husband was doing was making her feel? Is that ok?

Nope, never seen it. And even so, it's a movie, written by a group of people to share their opinions. Again, I'm not one to just believe what the media tells me. If I want to subject an opinion, I engage myself in the subject matter with an unbiased and objective mind, and acquire the facts for myself.

Carmen you shouldn't feel so offended,I never said it's bad to be a dancer.I just think that too many times it causes issues in relationships.

Granted those relationships might not have been strong to start with,but a man making his woman feel 'not good enough' is bullsh!t.

Never mind,since you refuse to see that other have just as much right to have a 'right' opinion as you.......

Well I'm glad to say that, in my case, I am very happy in my marriage, never argue with my husband, have zero jealousy issues, and we're both very very happy and healthy. And the majority of my married friends in the adult entertainment industry would tell you the same thing, if you were to ask them.

I like strip clubs more than Fh. I have a favorite in the Atlanta area thats like an effen show, but naked. =) I'd be fine with FH going, but he's not into it.

Sometimes I'm blown away with the amount of conservative folks on this forum....

I loved fireproof Denee! We just finished the premarital workshop! Good stuff!!

@Carmen- The post is started in an opinionated question form... therefore, our responses will be opinionated. She did not ask us to good strip club and post facts about them.

I probably shouldn't step in but Denee, just because a guy goes to a strip club doesn't mean he's making his woman feel "not good enough". Shoot, when FH call's me from a club singing my praises to the stripper's (He's even given the phone to them for me to chat with lol - "Candy, you HAVE to talk to my fiancé, she's the best... say hi babe, this is Candy" lol - it makes me feel great. Here he is *shit faced (which funny enough IS a part of the business and his job) surrounded by beautiful scantily clad women wishing I was with him/he was with me and talking about how I'm the best... it's hilarious and leaves me smiling thinking I love this crazy man

I've always seen conflict as a doorway to intimacy and a building block to a stronger relationship

It's basic reading comprehension, guys. Opinions are fine. But maybe you should educate yourself before you state your OPINION as a FACT. And an insulting one at that.

I'm not going to repeat myself anymore. Done.

Aww Sydney that is so cute!

I have to say I agree with Denee. It's just not something that I would want FS doing. I don't think I have to worry though because he is very against strip clubs anyway. He thinks it's morally wrong. We are looking at it from a christian's point of view. That's just my opinion though. I'm not putting anyone else down for what they do in their own relationship. Just saying, some of us do think it's not a good thing.

Wow didn't you say that we posted in an offensive manner? I'm pretty sure we are the calm ones here

I don't "let" Rick do anything, he's a grown man. He choses to go or not go, his choice. I have no problem with him going to the strip club, I have gone with him, he has gone with his friends.

There is more risk of so called "cheating" at a regular bar, the dancer is not out to steal your man, the chick at the bar? maybe. Plus if you trust the guy, then why do you care?

I trust FS more than anyone. We both agree that we're just not into that. I don't wanna go and he doesn't either. I'm definately not saying anything negative about what other people do. Just saying that's not our thing.

@Brandi - if he doesn't want to go, then it's non-issue for you

Well,Sharon we also don't really want to go to bars-especially without eachother.

We just prefer to not ask for problems-and thats just what works for us.

If you don't put yourself in a potential situation that could be hazardous to your relationship,then you won't be forced to deal with temptation.

Once again,I was raised very strict to try and live the healthiest lifestyle I can and to be truly happy I have to be willing to keep my life healthy,mind,body and soul.

I'm not a perfect human being and I get why alot of you don't 'get' where I'm coming from since the world is pretty 'liberal' and everything I say most of you are offended,but you need to realize I may be astonished at the way you choose to live.

But we are all individuals with our OWN choices to make in life.

I am not trying to force my beliefs on anyone and I would be greatful if you would do the same....

Once again,an opinion poll that only seems to apply to the 'majority' or the 'right' opinion....

My DH MET me in a strip club LMAO!!