strip club

@Krysten, google strip tease lessons and you might be able to find one in your area. They also sell DVD's and poles for your home. I hear it's a great work out

Im with Carol B! I am comfortable in my relationship and trust FH 100%. But i am not ok with him going to strip clubs. He is not into it anyway, his opinion: "If i have you at home that will do it for free why do i have to go out there and chase it and pay?"

@ Brandi ?'s Chris thank you :-)

I don't think it's a "terrible thing for a man to have a bachelor party without strippers". Having fun and blowing off steam IS possible w/o naked women around! As for the strip club bachelor party- nothing wrong with it as long as both parties of the couple agree, set limits, &are honest with each other (maybe a bride could have him call & check in once?)

With that being said, it's also perfectly fine for a bride NOT to feel comfortable with her FH going to one! It doesn't mean she isn't liberated, or that she necessarily looks down on women who work there. I also grew up in a very conservative Catholic family, and don't feel comfortable having FH there. I won't forbid him from going, just would hope that he understands my feelings on the subject. Call me old-fashioned if you wish, but marriage is about compromise and if a bride is really that against something, her FH should listen. I, for one, certainly, will not be handing my FH a $20 to give to some other woman, lol.

I just made sure he knows that if he decides to go to one on his bachelor party, I'll be checking out the local Chippendales to see what the excitement is all about. Maybe he's onto something and I need to open my mind. How's that for women's lib?

I think all that matters is what the COUPLE agrees to. DS isn't into strip clubs. We have gone together before with friends after weddings and what not. But if he just up and started going to one, that would be a bit suspicious to me. Neither of us had a bachelor/bachelorette party so it never came up. But we both know where we stand on it, which is something we discussed in the very beginning of our relationship.

@Patricia P I like your response :-)

I would worry about the stripped club because you should know your mate by now, most man just like to have fun. They know the limit.