So how much did you spend on their wedding gift?

I give cash. 100-150 per person.

I usually buy 6-7 items from their registry that totals around $100. If I really like you then I'll up it to $150

I just went to my cousin's wedding this past weekend and FH and I gave her a check for $200.

For the shower I give a gift off the registry, usually costing in the range of around $50. At the wedding, I typically give a check for $200 ($100 per person attending).

The only time I have strayed from that was for my brother's wedding because I wasn't going to give them cash. Instead, after they got their professional wedding photos, I designed and ordered them a professional wedding album because they couldn't afford to buy one from their photographers. I paid $300 towards it for them (and they paid any extra to have more pages etc).

Wow, i shouldve invited all of you! haha! i've never heard of such for weddings. usually i spend about $50 for family. $25 for everyone else. i would fall over if i ever recieved anything over $100.

K, I wasn't sure if I was being cheap at around 100 for FI and I. While you usually don't see the gifts others give I went to a shower recently where it seemed like most of the girls family spent 15-30 which seemed low. I felt like I was showing up grandma..lol

All of the weddings I've been to - most gifts were in the 25-50 dollar range. I think it definitely depends on what area of the country you're in!

Until I joined WW, I had noooo idea that people spent hundreds of dollars on gifts for weddings.

I always give 100

I think it depends on your age group/social set. In the past couple of years FH & I have given about a $100 gift (especially since weddings we have been invited to have always meant traveling/hotel room costs already).

My first friend to get married - we were all about 22 and broke interns/barely working - I got her some cosmo fixings plus a set of two nice cocktail glasses & a shaker. I think the whole thing booze and all wasn't more then $60.

In the future I could see doing higher as we start hopefully making more money.

£25 at most is what we're planning on for the two weddings we'll be attending in current years. We're expecting cards, without cash/cheque/gift, for ours - if anything.

Fmil is getting a pamper bag for both of them of travel sized goodies. They own their house, are minted and travel a lot - but are always short of space when they do.

My sis is getting one "monkey labour" voucher early. It entitles her and her lady to any help 24/7 for nine months before and three months after the wedding. Cleaning, cakes, errands ran, DIYs done - whatever time, I'll do it. They are both a bit time poor so it might help.

I usually spend around $100 per person. Last wedding we went to I think we (FH and I) gave 250 plus a small gift off the registry for the bridal shower. Wedding before that was my brother's and we gave 300.

ETA: It doesn't matter for me where the wedding is-- my friend's got married in a rec room in a bar and I gave $90 of gifts (before FH and I were together, so it was just me).

I come from a family/group of present buyers, so we buy off the registry (usually $75-100). Until I joined WW I didn't know people also gave that much cash at the wedding. We're not cash givers.

I generally spend either in cash or gifts around $100-200

I have only been to Korean weddings and I give cash. At the very minimum, we give $100.00 (even to people we barely know) and if they are a good friend, we give them $200-300. However, I went to my boyfriend's brother's wedding two years ago and all of his family only gave him gifts or cash up to $50. I thought it was pretty low.

$150 per person so we usually put $300 in a card.

Can I invite all of you to our wedding?

I usually spend $30-$50 for the shower and $100 for the wedding. Honestly, that's all I can afford and even that gets tight. I have a large extended family and weddings, graduations, baptisms, funerals are all taking place and it gets to be way too expensive for me.

The last two showers i spent around 50$. for weddings, i give around 100( maybe 150 if its a pay day week ) and that is for my fiance and i. i think that is a decent amount.

Shower: 50

Wedding: 100

Majority of local people gave us 50 at ours, and actually a lot of people never gave us anything-- not even a card. It doesn't upset me, but did surprise me since I wouldn't dream of going to anyone's wedding without a card and cash. Like maybe 30 couples out of 230 people.

FIs family is gift givers and i am a cash person. We were recently invited to a wedding for one of his cousins and we had a fight over gift v cash.. I tried to explain that people usually prefer cash (he knows we do). So we are doing 50/50. A $75 gift and $75 in cash. (may bump it up to 100&dollar