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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Ring Shopping: Modern or Traditional?

Lynnie, on April 23, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Parties and Events 181

Who picked out your engagement ring? Were you involved in the shopping process, or was it a complete surprise? Traditionally the bride had no input on her new rock, but nowadays 20% of couples pick out the engagement ring together! Did you take the modern or traditional approach to ring...

Who picked out your engagement ring? Were you involved in the shopping process, or was it a complete surprise? Smiley diamond

Traditionally the bride had no input on her new rock, but nowadays 20% of couples pick out the engagement ring together! Did you take the modern or traditional approach to ring shopping?


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  • M
    Dedicated October 2019
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    He knew what cut I really liked but he picked a band that he loved. I like that it’s a pretty blend of both of our tastes.
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  • Michelle
    Super August 2019
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    It was a total surprise. I had given him some ideas and said all that mattered was that it wasn't really traditional. He had the diamond from his grandmother's ring and picked out a beautiful twisted vine type of setting for it and I am completely in love with it! We've been engaged for over 9 months and I can't stop staring at it!
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  • Lily
    Dedicated December 2019
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    This is exactly what we did. It's such a big purchase that it made me nervous to have him guess.
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  • Sherry
    Master September 2019
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    Kind of both. I saw it at a antique shop we visit pretty frequently and fell in love with it. Every time we would go back, I would go and see if it was still there. For months it was. One day it wasn't and I was so bummed. I didn't know that my fiance was the one that bought it until he proposed.

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  • edecker
    Super December 2024
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    I had shown FH what i wanted from almost day 1, but the ring i got was a total surprise and nothing i would have picked, and i love it even more! It is so unique and so sparkly! I guess FH knows me better than i know myself!

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  • Jasmine
    Master August 2021
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    It was a total surprise but at the same time, he did a little digging and a had a friend do some detective work to find out what kind of rings I liked. I showed her and we talked and then a few months later he proposed with the ring I told our friend about. It was the greatest thing ever!

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  • Martika
    Expert September 2019
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    Traditionally. My FH knows exactly what I like. This is something he wanted to do by himself, and he enjoyed it a lot.
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  • Jessica
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    I was completely surprised with the proposal and also the ring. He picked it out all on his own, I think he did good. He had admitted my ring size about a year beforehand and for a few months I thought he might propose.... by the time he did I wasn't expecting it.

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  • Mrs.hays
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    I picked out my own ring.
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  • J
    Devoted October 2019
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    Well this one would have to be modern as we discussed the ring ideas we both like but we both are having custom made rings
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  • Grace
    Super May 2019
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    I have always wanted my grandma's engagement ring, and he knew that. So when he went to ask my dad for permission, they gave him the ring. So I did know exactly what I was getting and I am totally happy with it :-)!

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  • Future Mrs. McCully
    Devoted July 2019
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    Mine was a complete surprise and my fiance got it custom made...he picked out exactly what it looks like. And I am in love with everything about it!

    If I had to pick out my own ring this is exactly what I would have picked.

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  • Dedicated March 2021
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    We didn’t physically go ring shopping together, he, but I did give him hints on how I wanted my ring to look like.
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  • Marissa
    Just Said Yes July 2019
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    Traditional. I received his grandmother's ring. :-)
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  • Riley
    Expert September 2020
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    Well more traditional I guess he asked what kind of ring I was interested in we went and looked a little bit so I could show him my taste and he went out and bought one he thought I would like the most.

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  • Charity
    Devoted December 2021
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    I showed him what kind of rings I like, he picked out the rest of the ring from there.
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    VIP December 2020
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    Traditional. He asked me for ideas but I did not have any part of the shopping experience otherwise. I did not see my ring until he proposed and it was perfect.

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  • Jess
    Super September 2019
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    Definitely a mix. I went to the shop a found a few designs I liked. I went home and showed FH and he took it away from there. The proposal was a few months after that so I was still super shocked when it happened!

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  • Expert August 2020
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    My husband picked both of ours. I do wish I had been able to pick my own.

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  • Karen
    Devoted July 2020
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    Modern, we went shopping together. He had given me a budget for me to look at what i wanted and I was convinced i wanted a pear cut with a halo but once i got to see how they look on my finger i was turned off. Ended up going for a traditional round solitaire that was almost twice the initial budget Smiley smile
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